All the people that I take up as my friends end up dissapointing me. Do I just pick bad friends?
2007-11-16 17:16:10 · 7 answers · asked by Bebe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I have the same issue. I am older, and have had many friends for 20 years or longer. At some point or another, you are disappointed by all of them. you feel they aren't as loyal, as you are to them. People are people, and from time to time we ALL disappoint someone. Just work it out and continue on. You will NEVER find the perfect friend, and you will NEVER be a perfect friend.
2007-11-16 17:26:50 · answer #1 · answered by Glenn T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on that kind of friend. Some friends are true friends. They act like a real friend. They are caring and supporting. They are nice and always wants to be with you. On the other hand, some friends that I call "fake" friends are mean and rude. They avoid you and talk a bunch of crap about you behind your back. They are not loyal. TRUE friends are loyal. They are the friends that you can stick with. It's not your fault. You just need to open your eyes more and see which person can be a TRUE friend and which are just lying backstabbers. Choose your friends wisely.
2007-11-17 09:00:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
re: Do I just pick bad friends?
......yep!
If you worked on your self esteem and self respect, you would automatically attract real friends because you would be a real friend as well. You need to learn what a friend is and how to be one your self. When you really know what a good friend is, you won't be drawn to the kind you currently have.
take a look over here:
http://www.google.com/search?q=relationships&sourceid=navclient-ff&ie=UTF-8&rls=GGGL,GGGL:2006-40,GGGL:en
2007-11-17 02:10:50 · answer #3 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they must not have been a true friend in the first place loyal friends are hard to come by
2007-11-17 01:19:58 · answer #4 · answered by Don't take life 4 granted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shud analyze ppl n take time to understand dem b4 u trust dem.
2007-11-17 01:46:12 · answer #5 · answered by dis moment is ur life!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they hate u, but dont feel bad cuz im going throught the sam thing lol
2007-11-17 01:20:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. u consider them ur freinds too early. u have to get to know them good before labling them as "freinds"
2007-11-17 01:21:14 · answer #7 · answered by MJ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋