pick up problem...im so over this?

Question

lately ive been attracting all the wrong kind of guys, its not the way im acting because the problem occurs when im out on a girls night or waiting at the bar for a drink. i attract the real rowdy guys and ...lets just say the wrong kind of guys altogether. it gets a little out of hand sometimes because just cos the guys are drunk they seem to think that its ok to feel ur legs and hold u and insist on buying me drinks etc one nite i had a security guard standing near me and he was telling sum guys to leave me alone (i didnt ask him to do it tho, but i guess he culd tell i didnt like it).
anyway how do i get these kind of guys to leave me alone??

they just seem to come out of no-one, usually when im out with the girls or on my own.

Answer 1

Like it or not, some places, such as rowdy bars and nightcluds, attract a rowdy kind of guy. They go there looking for girls who they can hook up with for the night, so they think you are there for the same reason. Some men see a woman at a bar alone and immediately think she wants to be picked up. That is just the social order of things unfortunately.

Unless you wear a sign around your neck that says "Stay Away" men will hit on you...some might still do it even if you wear the sign...LOL
If you aren't interested in getting into the situations you described, then why not go to another type of place? A low key place with a quieter atmosphere will attract a different group of people.

Answer 2

Well not that it's right that people should do those things, cause it's not, but maybe if changed your attire? I do not know since you haven't stated what the reason is that you think the guys are bothering you. So its kinda hard to say what you can do to stop them. Maybe find a better place to socialize? Where there are guys who aren't so dense or over bearing that they think they can do as they please.