Family & Relationships - 16 November 2007

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now. Very much in love although we have both done unnecessary things that shouldn't have been done. He's been acting like our relationship doesn't matter here lately. I want to leave him alone but we have a child together and I'm so in love. But he has just been getting to me lately and it just kinda makes it easier for me to say we're over...but he always comes back and tries to make it better and he does for a while. I truly believe that it'll take another, better man coming along for me to get over him. Should I leave him or should I work it out?

2007-11-16 13:51:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have. i'm 19 and the guy is 22. he got married bec. he got his girl pregnant. he said that he doesnt really love her but had no other options but to marry her. they are living together.
We go to the same school and attend same classes.
I stopped seeing him now, because it's wrong but i still love him. he said he's going to file an annulment, so we could be together. i told him not to and stay together for the baby.
not that i'm concerned about the baby actually i just dont want to be involved with their issues anymore, although i know i've ruined it their marriage already... now he still tries to work it out and bec we still see each other at school, it gets more difficult.
I feel guilty about it. I feel also bad for the girl and the baby.
What do I do to get rid of him and to get over him?
I know what i did was bad and i am sincerely sorry about it.

2007-11-16 13:51:04 · 7 answers · asked by Hoola 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have cyber*** with a few woman online and love it. How do woman feel about this?

2007-11-16 13:48:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm breaking out of isolation tonight. I need the best advice. Ok playas welcomed too.

2007-11-16 13:47:05 · 13 answers · asked by William Z 4 in Singles & Dating

Studies consistantly show that 50-60% of both men and women cheat in their relationships (A bad thing I think), yet here on answers if anyoe says they cheated or were thinking about it everyone and their uncle jumps on their case. Statisticaly speaking, there have to be a lot of hypocrits around here, or people who cheat rarely Yahoo.

Comments?

2007-11-16 13:46:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Without an official opinion.

2007-11-16 13:45:41 · 18 answers · asked by Dirt E. Deeds 3 in Singles & Dating

how do persaude them to meet you again without being up front about it because they dont like pressure. The problem is we fell inlove but had to end it all and have stayed away for years, but stayed intouch via msn and e mail but i would like to see that person again before i move abroad

2007-11-16 13:45:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-16 13:44:04 · 6 answers · asked by WTF !!!!!!! 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-16 13:40:49 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-16 13:39:13 · 32 answers · asked by kiaira r 1 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married in Dec (short time since engagement due to fiance's military deployment) My mother is wondering if she can send bridal invitations in/with wedding invitations or is this just tacky. We have family all over the country and it would save money on stamps.

2007-11-16 13:37:24 · 11 answers · asked by me 2 in Weddings

what do you do when you and your future spouse tell his mother you are moving the wedding date closer and her response is "ok well i think we and her and her family need to sit down and talk about it" Oh and she doesnt seem ok with the marriage or you in the first place???

2007-11-16 13:36:45 · 15 answers · asked by Lost Girl 88 2 in Marriage & Divorce

OKAY. SO THERE IS THIS BOY AND IVE LIKED HIM FOR ABOUT 3 WEEKS.....AND I TOLD HIM I LIKE HIM AND HE SAID HE HAD BEEN PUT IN THIS POSITION ALOT....AND HE SAID HE DONT WANT TO BE IN A RELASHIONSHIP....AND WE CAN STILL TALK ON THE PHONE AND HE WOULD CALL ME TOMORROW....WHATS NEXT????

2007-11-16 13:36:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but if a man has a normal jaw normal lips and nose but a long head you hate if he comes anywhere close to you

2007-11-16 13:35:59 · 10 answers · asked by mrellis08 1 in Singles & Dating

I went for a party and met this cute guy. We exchanged numbers. It was after 3 weeks that we actually spoke .We went out one weekend and it was then he told me his age, 35 and I am 18 turning 19, I look more matured than my age, he looks much younger. Yet we agreed to go on and there was just something about him, we went out two more days and I really liked him as he was so real with me. He wasn't trying to impress me or anything like that. That week I didn't call him though he did giving him time to miss me so we were to go out the weekend but other plans came up and we didnt make it, well It's over a week now and I haven't heard from him. The last time was when I called him about 5days ago and he was in a meeting, he said he would call me back but I haven't heard from him. The truth is that I am a very attractive young lady so many men approach me everyday but he is the one on my mind. I am so sad and worried why he hasn't called me. What could be wrong?

2007-11-16 13:33:05 · 6 answers · asked by Val 1 in Singles & Dating

The child was unplanned due to irresponsibility and being intimate a few times. They were never intimate after her getting pregnant. They now very rarely speak (communication is done through child's grandmother) and visitation was done separately after child was born. He provides for his child and spends as much quality time as he can with her. Child just turned 4. Is it possible that he could be lying about not being in a relationship with her? Keep in mind that I have been with this man for 8yrs. split once for 3yrs. I was in another serious relationship. I know it happens but I'm not sure if two people can have a child together and not have feelings for each other like he says. Maybe it's my gullibility. He has stated countless times that he was clear and concise with her since it was a mistake and that they were never in a relationship. What do you think?

2007-11-16 13:32:24 · 2 answers · asked by ksolis5 3 in Singles & Dating

Why is that on msn and facebook all these guys can talk to me and flurt .. but in person they act like they never said the things they said .. ??

2007-11-16 13:31:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm married and love my wife very much. We've been married for 8 years. Never have this feeling before. One day I found this girl who came along with my friends for the pool party at my house, She's 22.and really cute. I like her the first day. a month later. My wife and I went to my friend's pub for the grand opening. we met again, so I hang out for a while and before I leave with my wife. (my wife's already in the car) I'm still inside and that girl asked me" Can I get you a couge" then I said back" isn't that too small?" then she said Can I get you the bed then?" I said "that sounds good to me" but at the end I left the pub with the weird feeling and couldn't sleep at night at all, kept thinkin about her. later on Monday night. I went to her house. We've talk for a while then I kissed her and almose went to bed with her. Then she asked me"what are thinkin right now? what's in your head?" Then I couldn't answer. and left later on.

2007-11-16 13:29:29 · 34 answers · asked by Rungkit V 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it they think they look cute? Would they look nicer in more conservative clothes? Why do they feel they have to keep up with younger competitors?

2007-11-16 13:27:39 · 78 answers · asked by Janina 1 in Singles & Dating

So I asked my friend in August to go to Germany with me in January. He said yes, but didn't have enough money saved up to pay me $525 for the plane ticket. Months later, he still owes me $525, and even more for a car that we rented ($184)! I trusted him with my heart, and now I don't trust him one bit. He told me he has been saving, but I wonder how much. He also voluntarily quit his job because he didn't like it, and got another lower paying one. Plus he just bought himself a new $200 rife for target practice! I'm extremely mad. I don't think he will be able to go with me at all, and I'm not paying for his ticket. How do I make him cough that money up? I want to be nice about it just incase he ends up going with me.

2007-11-16 13:26:07 · 6 answers · asked by Evan 4 in Friends

My friend came up with the idea of glueing a razor onto a safety pin. and putting it on a chain and wearing a necklace. She wore it to school and someone told on her. The principal called her mom and told her mom that she might be expelled. I just dont know what to do. She never gets in trouble, shes a very kind person, and she never hurt in anyone so why wouldnt he just give her a suspension and a warning? He hasnt confirmed yet that she is expelled. And the bad thing is, is that I know who told on her. I just dont know what to do.

2007-11-16 13:23:26 · 6 answers · asked by callie. 1 in Friends

2007-11-16 13:22:33 · 8 answers · asked by sweetcynthiansc 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been separated for 3 years and married 4 years. I want so much to divorce him and move on. But I can't find him. Should i start dating anyway.

2007-11-16 13:19:27 · 15 answers · asked by springful 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Theres a guy that i know that likes me.....But i already have a boyfriend....And i LOVE him too.....And idk what to do.....

2007-11-16 13:16:10 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went out to dinner with my family and I noticed this guy. he totally cought my eye the minute i laid eyes on him. And it looked like he was with his gf unfortunatly. But we sat down while he was inline. and while we were eating, his gf asked where they wanted to sit. and he said lets sit over "here" and interestingly enough i was sitting right next to him. He kept glanicing over at me, when i wasn't looking. and wasn't paying attention to his gf. do u think he likes me?

2007-11-16 13:16:04 · 5 answers · asked by aminallover29 2 in Singles & Dating

I like to be a wedding officiant in Texas, but not a minster . Like
a county clerk. Is it Possible?

2007-11-16 13:14:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-11-16 13:13:06 · 26 answers · asked by softkisses4707 5 in Singles & Dating

I don't believe you should ever have to ask your lover to make love to her or him. I think it should be spontaneous! Don't you think so? If one wants to and the other always finds an excuse not to and you have to ask each time or make an appointment, what then???

2007-11-16 13:12:02 · 12 answers · asked by Camelot 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband is always at work but he has satuday and sunday off for once. i was wondering what are some fun things we could do? we live in central indiana, so it's pretty chilly right now.

2007-11-16 13:11:07 · 16 answers · asked by Expecting baby #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

From my question earlier... If I decide to leave my husband because of his weed smoking, abusing cough medication, and neglecting our child...Then what? I am a housewife right now because my son needs alot of attention since he was born at 24 weeks. I definetly feel everybody that told me to not put up with it, and thats what I want to do...But my son needs medical care. I dont like dealing with the chaplain and FRG people because when things got bad last year they did absolutly nothing about it...they just "pretended to". When I was in danger they took my situation lightly, so all them can rott in hell! Who else can I rely on to help me at least get off this island and back home?

2007-11-16 13:09:59 · 9 answers · asked by Indian beauty 2 in Marriage & Divorce