2007-11-16 13:22:33 · 8 answers · asked by sweetcynthiansc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am also lonely and tired of being single!! here my email address if u want to get to know a great guy!! efrain78223@yahoo.com
2007-11-16 13:27:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course it's normal. It takes a lot of energy to invest yourself into someone, only for it to not work out. And then it takes a lot of energy to work past all the hurt and have enough courage and self esteem to believe that someone could be interested in you again. We tend to think that all men/women think alike and they don't. What one partner thought of you as bad, the other will see all good. So, get out there and have some fun but don't have super expectations to come all at once with meeting that first flirt, date, or love. Just go with the flow.And remember, when you've been single a while, its hard to give up being set in your ways so be willing to give a little and be open to new people, new ways and don't overreact to the newness of things as the way it's always going to be. Remember, the newness will wear off so be sure you land someone with the qualities that was missing from your ex ok. Don't expect them to be like them. Don't compare ok. Oh, and here's a little piece of advice that will help you weed out the idiots from the gentlemen....let him do the talking, withing 15 minutes into the conversation, you'll know if you will want to date him again. IF he's talking about him, him, him, he's a loser. And don't EVER give him information that he doesn't deserve to know yet. Spilling too much too soon is overwhelming and we all know that some men can't process more than our bra size, let alone our hopes and dreams and goals.
No offense guys, just had some nut cases in my time.
2007-11-16 21:41:43 · answer #2 · answered by Christy W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is your life... you get to choose if you want to be lonely ... start getting out... doing things with friends and family...get around people.... take up a new hobbies.. think about what you really like to do.... the more you learn the more interesting you will become....start sharing and caring..... in no tell you will have more to do and people to see....remember every grandmother, aunt,sister and cousin always has a friend that has a friend...just get busy
2007-11-16 21:34:24 · answer #3 · answered by Sharon C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal, some time it take a while for a person to start dating again after becoming divorce.
2007-11-16 21:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by dbrh_soto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal but you should over come it... if you don't overcome it with time, then something may be wrong.
2007-11-16 21:25:47 · answer #5 · answered by Grace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal but you do need to move on stagnation is not good --- it may sound harsh -- you need to make yourself vulnerable so that you can truly fall in love again ---- best wishes
2007-11-16 21:32:38 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think this happends to a lot of people but if you don't move on you'll regent it later on in life:(
2007-11-16 21:26:04 · answer #7 · answered by L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
normal don't worry about it.
2007-11-16 21:29:34 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋