Theres a guy that i know that likes me.....But i already have a boyfriend....And i LOVE him too.....And idk what to do.....
2007-11-16 13:16:10 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you have got to deside who you love more the one your with, or the one you only talk to.It comes down to who can touch you,see your eyes,touch your soft lips.and can make love to you.But the one you talk to can have a ear to your feeling and hear what you have to say.See some women hate or just can't tell how they feel to the one they are with so they need some one thats cares for them enough to hear there feeling about anything with out geting mad for what they say.It comes down to how you feel about them and go from there.One thinks money can buy happyness and the other can only give you his heart and a ear to hear how you feel when you feel down.I hope i answered your question Lexi thanks for asking bye for now.Let your heart diside for you
2007-11-17 01:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jut because a boy likes you doesn't mean he loves you, and you already have a boyfriend, so you shouldn't be encouraging him. What do you do? Give up the one boyfriend and play the field until you mature a bit more. Love is for a lifetime, and since you already are looking around, you are not ready to be in love. You might be in like, in lust, but neither is as satisfying as being in love. Forever and with one person.
Have fun dating many men; nothing says you have to have only one. I used to have a man I played tennis with, one that I played golf with, one that I went to breakfast with, etc. As I was with many, I had a better opportunity to select the RIGHT one for a lifetime. By the way, I didn't give sex away; that is a gift meant for a very SPECIAL person, not someone who might "like" me. You can do what you want, of course, but don't forget to respect yourself.
2007-11-16 13:22:07 · answer #2 · answered by dutchlady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love your boyfriend and he loves you, stick with him like glue. But if you love the other guy likes you and you like him, than maybe flirt with him and talk with him and maybe break up with your boyfriend. If the other guy is not where you are in Ohio and somewhere else like for example Wisconsin, you guys might meet someday and you guys might have lots of love with each other if you love each other so much. If the other guy comes to Ohio, to live Ohio, then you are in luck and you guys are close to each other and you guys might get married or something eventually, if you love the other guy. If you move to Wisconsin (let's just say Wisconsin, because it a great state) where he lives, you will make him happy, and you and him will be together forever! If you like the other guy and you guys meet up eventually, you guys should have sex. But all of that goes towards the other guy. If you love your boyfriend, stick with your boyfriend.
2007-11-16 14:05:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well do you feel anything for the other guy? If so is it stronger or weaker than what you feel for your boyfriend? If it's weaker, back away now, if it's not, then you don't need to hurt your boyfriend more by staying with him, it will only hurt more in the end if you wait longer. If you feel NOTHING for the other guy, and you know he likes you, and he knows you know, then just tell him, let him know, that there's NO POSSIBLE CHANCE. He'll get over it and move on.
Hope I helped!
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Kassy
2007-11-16 13:20:00 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Kassandra♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, all of your life you will face this delima. If you go with the new guy, then in time, anothe guy will like you and you will leave behind you a string of broken hearts.
Sometimes it takes kissing alot of toads before you find your prince. So if you foresee this as an issue for you then don't have a steady beau until you find yourself smitten by your prince as then no other will even be able to turn your head.
2007-11-16 13:25:34 · answer #5 · answered by Christy W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(you may want to be specific in your feelings for the other guy, it would help with the question) if you are questioning what to do, it means that you aren't over your boyfriend, so you shouldn't leave him. ever heard the saying "don't leave the one you love for the one you like" well it sounds like you need to hear that right now. theres a reason you are with the guy who is your boyfriend, and not with the guy who likes you.
2007-11-16 13:22:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decide which is more important to you, your boyfriend, or a possible crush , or infatuation. Think about your boyfriend and ask him if he deserves a girlfriend who won't be faithful to him. Break up with him because you have already meditatively cheated on him. Laws of karma are real, watch out.
2007-11-16 13:18:51 · answer #7 · answered by SphinxEyez999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to this new guy and see if you want to make a new relationship with him. If you just let him sit, he might find another woman, but if you go out with him, your boyfriend might get mad. I was faced with this once before. I was in love with my boyfriend but there was another guy who was willing to walk on water for me. I left the other guy and stuck with my boyfriend who was less and less fulfilling and then dumped me. I am glad that I didn't go out with the other guy, he's very obsessive, but you just gotta trust your gut on this. There's nobody else who can tell you how you feel and with whom you feel it. Good luck. :)
2007-11-16 16:41:12 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Cute T ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will have to choose the one you love. 1+1 = 2
2007-11-16 17:40:49 · answer #9 · answered by sword_maker_samurai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not hard. You have a man right now, Why change when you love him and you know that's it's working out. Go with the other guy but you don't know if it will work. If it doesn't work then you have no one.
2007-11-16 13:20:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋