Family & Relationships - 16 November 2007

Hi thur, I got a relly embarrassing question. I was married for past 5 years and never had any issues wtih being gay or anything. I got nothing against em but I am straight as a stick. Now she just told me she was "born a man". She won't tell me when she got the change, only that at one time she was a "gay man" who "lived the lifestyle". I was deeply in love with her but now I am confused. It all came out when I wanted her to conceive, I forced her to go to the doctor, and in the office she finally told me the truth.

Should I divorce her or forgive her or what??? I am so confused!

2007-11-16 12:42:17 · 28 answers · asked by Krazinski 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what do u think about it

2007-11-16 12:40:30 · 7 answers · asked by Harmony t 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-16 12:36:31 · 15 answers · asked by peter b 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like this really handsome,kewl,out going guy who likes me back...but.......................I heard he has a gf.So.. what should I do go ahead n date him or _______any other suggestions
Oh n I am 17 never dated b4 so what should I do..help me please.

It is highly likely that he does has a f he is very handsome and lots of girls likes him he has never been single. soo What are u view on dating a guy who already has a girlfriend???

2007-11-16 12:32:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so all together weve been dating for 3 months now. Christmas is coming up and so is the christmas dance. And i always told my best friend that i wanted him to be my first kiss! I think she told him that! lol, but anyways, how do i let him know i want to kiss him, i know he probably wants to kiss me to......but hes a REALLY shy guy! ADVICE??

2007-11-16 12:31:15 · 34 answers · asked by !amber! 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm nervous, excited, scared and happy I finally decided to do something "about it" instead of complaining all the time.
Basically, I don't know what the question is, I'm just so confused at this point...........

2007-11-16 12:28:49 · 38 answers · asked by Reading and Answering Your Q' 3 in Marriage & Divorce

for guys: What hair color on a girl do you "prefer"?
blonde, brunette, black, red-head? and why?

2007-11-16 12:28:46 · 24 answers · asked by mephisto 5 in Singles & Dating

Me and my b/f have been together for 6yrs, everythings going well and were almost done with school(another yr) and he wants to get married but we are only about to be 22 and I just think its too young for me. What do you all think???

2007-11-16 12:27:26 · 11 answers · asked by Rina 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

like sexually and he tells me that he will wait but at the same time i feel like i am not ready but at the same time am ready. and i was at his house the other day and he said are you going to take off your clothes this time so i wont be the only one! help me what do i do!!!

2007-11-16 12:26:26 · 2 answers · asked by cutiepie102 2 in Singles & Dating

Sometimes when I look at her all I see is one of her Ex's climbing off of her. And yes she was good enought to tell me all about her past. I just want to get over this wall I'm up against, or call it quits because either way will hurt.

2007-11-16 12:23:49 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what's the best wedding show you have ever been to? Preferably in Tampa Bay, Florida. But any state will do.

2007-11-16 12:23:49 · 3 answers · asked by shavon 3 in Weddings

2007-11-16 12:21:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Not in a weird way lol, I just think they look so peaceful, I don't know...

2007-11-16 12:21:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We'll I had this girl in my class for a semester now and I like her a lot. She was with her boy friend at the time but said that she had strong feelings for me and that she planned to dump him anyways. We went out a couple times and everything was great but she says her feelings for me are fading and that she can't choose between me or her ex. The only thing I know is that she got mad at me one time when I was joking around with her but I've done that before and it never bothered her. How can I make things right again?

2007-11-16 12:20:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i tried to call my husband and a woman answered the phone - so I yell "who is this?" and she says "well whom are you calling?" i yell again "who is this?! then hang up the phone so furious. i then look at the display and see that i didnt call my husbands cell phone - i dialed my mother in law!!! so i am totally embarassed and dont know if i should call and explain - it is possible she didnt even know it was me (no caller id). my sister in law thinks i should table it for now and we will discuss it one day when we all have a few glasses of wine. i feel terrible - she may know it was me. i dont know if i should purge my secret or not. What should I do??????
PS - i love my mother in law to pieces - we get along great

2007-11-16 12:19:02 · 12 answers · asked by his temptress 5 in Family

my friend is very sick.he needs to get to the hospital right away.i am worried about him.he's having trouble breathing.but he says he'll be okay.i wish he would go to the hospital.they can help him.anyone,if you can say a prayer for my friend?pray that he goes to the hospital.pray that nothing bad happens to him.pray that the doctor will help him see what the problem is.and what can be done to help.i appreciate this so much.i want my friend to get well again.thank you for your prayers,and for your caring.

2007-11-16 12:15:14 · 15 answers · asked by Miss yavatar girl 4 in Friends

2007-11-16 12:14:51 · 1 answers · asked by music4life 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my bf for 3+years now. Last night when he left my house he said that he felt we were growing apart and that he feels he failed in our relationship. He didn't even say he loved me when he left or when he called to let me know he got home ok.
Today, he was off work and I called to see what he was up to and he sounded kind of weird. He didn't want to go grab dinner tonight or even come over, which is strange for him. He didn't say i love you when we hung up either which is not him. Anyone have any ideas what's wrong? Does it mean he wants to break up?

2007-11-16 12:12:39 · 7 answers · asked by Wishing on a Dream 4 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have been married for 7 years and are extremely happy. Today she told me that her exhusband called and told her that he was sorry for the way he had treated her and wanted to know if she still had feelings for him. She said that she told him she was very happy with me and for him to stop calling her. I have no doubt that she is being truthful because, if she had wanted to go back to him, she has had plenty of opportunities. It is just the fact that this man had the nerve to disrespect me in this way. Should I take the fact that she told him not to call anymore and leave it alone, or should I confront him and let him know that he is treading into dangerous territory asking another man's wife that question?

2007-11-16 12:12:30 · 14 answers · asked by jerry m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-11-16 12:11:49 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

how old were you?
is 13 old for not having your first kiss yet?

2007-11-16 12:10:28 · 8 answers · asked by adl;skjasd iloveyou. 2 in Friends

he wont answer his phone or my txts and when I do get a hold of him he doesnt want to do anything unless it is out with a group of ppl but he will come back to my place alone.

should I just find some1 else?

2007-11-16 12:09:10 · 16 answers · asked by Star L 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok...yahoo marrage & divorce it goes.....???

2007-11-16 12:08:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so im going to a dance in a couple of hours, and there is this guy i really like.[im in middle school] there are two other girls who like him and i dont think either of them are going. we are really close friends and he knos that i like him and he acts like he likes me but im not sure for a fact if he does. i dont think he wants to ask anyone out because he doesnt want anyone of us girls to get mad. i really want to go out with him so what should i do?

2007-11-16 12:07:48 · 16 answers · asked by adrienne 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I like this guy who I met over the summer. He goes to my school and I see him alot. He is my age and single...so cute!!!!!!! I want to know if he likes me and I wish I could tell!!( If you have any tips TELL ME!!)He stares at me sometimes and my friends have asked if he likes me but he won't tell them!I would really like to go out with this guy and I really like him I woul tell him I like him but I am really shy in front of the guys I like! SO HELP ME PEOPLE!!!!!!-please!

2007-11-16 12:07:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this girl that i cant stop thinkinb about and that like more than you can imagine. I sent her a text about a month ago telling her about how i feel. She didnt really give a straight answer and i still cant stop thinking about her. Ive had a dream about us going out and ive talked to her friends to see what i should do, but they say its all me. Do you think i should try to talk to her in person or should i just give up completely.

2007-11-16 12:06:47 · 11 answers · asked by Cameron Malakouti 1 in Singles & Dating

the way my husband speaks to me is just wrong...I'm 8.5 months pregnant and last night I asked him to clean up his laundry before he left for his trip...well, that turned into him telling me how "worthless" I am. Going on saying "my family doens't even like me" nor do "I have no friends, and the ones that I have don't like me." That "no one would ever want to be w/ me...and he doesn't know how he puts up w/ me!" I just wonder who would say that to the woman carrying his child!!? I want to leave him but thank God he is gone till Monday...I just wish I had a normal life and husband...unfortunately I married young and now wish I could start all over. Please give me some insight!?

THANKS ALL!

2007-11-16 12:03:12 · 36 answers · asked by elle 3 in Marriage & Divorce

why did the guy i have a crush on, ask me what my name was?

2007-11-16 12:01:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why would he ask you if you are a virgin? Especially if he is your friend?

2007-11-16 12:01:45 · 56 answers · asked by *My_Oh_My* 2 in Singles & Dating

one boy is very smart, funny,and cute,and shorter thatn me
the other boy is cute very cute funny light brown eyes and is taller than me but this boy is not that bright and he is kind of rude butttttttttt sooooooooooooo hot

2007-11-16 11:57:47 · 10 answers · asked by showeregirl 1 in Singles & Dating