ok well i am dating this guy and we have been for like ever but i am scared to do anything!?

Question

like sexually and he tells me that he will wait but at the same time i feel like i am not ready but at the same time am ready. and i was at his house the other day and he said are you going to take off your clothes this time so i wont be the only one! help me what do i do!!!

Answer 1

I remember the first time I made love, it was like this: You can only be so prepared to do it without doing it. I don't think anyone is ever totally ready or totally comfortable, but you take the plunge, like your first time off the high diving-board.

I have learned, years too late, the reasons to wait until marriage. They are:
You get to know the person and you're sure you REALLY want to spend the rest of your life with them - otherwise, if there's a pregnancy, (or you just get hooked on the sex), you may be stuck with the person.
If your first is your only one, then they'll always be the best you've ever had. (Someone once said, "Sex is like pizza; even when it's bad, it's still pretty good).
You make a real connection that never completely breaks, so it should be with someone who will never share any part of you, and you never have to share any part of THEM.

I understand this path is difficult, especially with the whole "playing the field to make sure" concept, but it's the right way to go. I really believe that.

Answer 2

if ur ready tell him if ur not tell him. but don't do it untill ur sure u are ready. u need to deicded and realy dissuce it with him.