I like this really handsome,kewl,out going guy who likes me back...but.......................I heard he has a gf.So.. what should I do go ahead n date him or _______any other suggestions
Oh n I am 17 never dated b4 so what should I do..help me please.
It is highly likely that he does has a f he is very handsome and lots of girls likes him he has never been single. soo What are u view on dating a guy who already has a girlfriend???
2007-11-16 12:32:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well
I have done that.
And it was not easy. It ended badly. Very badly.
But...it's up to you. If you can cope with him being commited to another girl and with him treating you like a queen in private but hiding everything in public. Go ahead and have fun.
But the stats are against it lasting long term.
(and ignore the haters who will pop up here saying "would you like it if another girl did it to you...thats pathetic. IT'S UP TO THE ONE IN THE OTHER RELATIONSHIP TO BE FAITHFUL, women just lovea chance to have a go at other women and its pathetic when the guy is the one cheating and the girl is the one being villified, and ive been on both sides of this ive been cheated on too, i just broke up with him.No b!ching or any of this crap about killing the other girl, just ended it with him)
Best of luck. You may need it.
2007-11-16 12:40:52 · answer #1 · answered by munchkin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldn't date him for multiple reasons=
--he's already got a girlfriend and you wouldn't want to start any problems with her
--your rep would suffer cuz ur tryin to steal some guys man, at least that's what it would look like
--lets speak hypothetically, say you did go out wit him & he broke up wit his chick to make it official wit you, how do you know that he won't change his mind & do that same to you?
--you deserve better than some guy who has s girlfriend but is also willing to date you on the down low so that his girl don't find out
--considering the face that you said he's never been single, it seems to me that he's a player. do you really want to date one?
2007-11-16 20:44:48 · answer #2 · answered by phoenix 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Off limits. You would not want someone to be with your boyfriend so put yourself in her shoes. Also you are a piece of new meat. If you put youself on a platter to be served up well, of course he's going to nibble and every other guy he goes and tell how easy you are. Look at your self as a precious jewel.Don't disrespect yourself. The main thing people are forgetting about is STD (no cure fo alot of them)
2007-11-16 20:52:14 · answer #3 · answered by yellow 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your first time dating and your going to date a guy that already has a girlfriend?
theres not going to be a good outcome out of this at all if he really does have a girlfriend
you probably should justcall it quits with him
if hes wanting to date you and he already has a girlfriend
hes not willing to make even a commitment as little as dating to you or anyone
get out of it before you get hurt
2007-11-16 20:39:19 · answer #4 · answered by C00k13& 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he already has a gf!! what don't you get about that? I hate girls like you that try and be w/ guys that are taken. Even if he does give you the time of day, he really isn't into you if he is still w/ this other girl...not to mention he is a cheater and you are going to be played anyways...
2007-11-16 20:40:14 · answer #5 · answered by elle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your 17 and havent dated before.. ok well hes not worth it because if hes gona be your first bf dont because you said u heard he has a gf.. in that case u would be the 'sancha' [idk how 2 say that in english i only kno it in spanish..] anyways.. you should get to know him better and dont always belive what others say about someone else..and no its not liKELY for THE HOTTEST guy to have a gf.. its sounds dumb but its true.. i bet he has lots of girls after him ..
2007-11-16 20:44:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
how do you know he won't do the same thing to youu???
you said you think he has a gf... tell him straight out if if he says yes. decide for yourself.
if you want to be with him or not.
if you want your heart to be cracked don't.
if you just want to date him for a fling why not?
good luck.
2007-11-16 20:42:06 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you date someone who would cheat on his girlfriend for you, when he would end up doing the same thing to you?
2007-11-16 20:37:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
don't waist ur time. Find someone who is available and avoid the drama. Ur young, enjoy it.
2007-11-16 20:40:14 · answer #9 · answered by Jerron C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he two times her he will two time you
2007-11-16 20:38:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋