so all together weve been dating for 3 months now. Christmas is coming up and so is the christmas dance. And i always told my best friend that i wanted him to be my first kiss! I think she told him that! lol, but anyways, how do i let him know i want to kiss him, i know he probably wants to kiss me to......but hes a REALLY shy guy! ADVICE??
2007-11-16 12:31:15 · 34 answers · asked by !amber! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just go for it. if he is shy, he probably wants to kiss you too, but is too shy to make the first move. if you make the first move, it will makes things much easier
2007-11-16 12:33:44 · answer #1 · answered by Ducky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ya, you can initiate the kiss. Maybe at the dance, or afterwards when you guys are close you can just go for it. Or, if you want him to be ready and maybe lead than you could say something sweet like "You know what would make this night the best ever? -or- All I want for Christmas is a kiss from you... -or- O look, there's mistletoe (and when he looks to see that there really isn't any then you give him a cute smile and lean in)" Maybe you could try one of these. Hope this helped!
2007-11-16 12:36:44 · answer #2 · answered by Cali2AZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow,that is so nice you guys have been boyfriend/girlfriend for 3months and haven't eve kissed,I commend you and him,that is really great,and you know what if he is shy,he may want to,but he might not,I mean,it's awkward if you ask him right before you go to kiss,if he wants to kiss you,then it's like pressure to do it and gets all messed up.So,you can try to get him alone,and sit next to each other. You can rest your head on his shoulder and then look up at him and give him a kiss or you can be sitting or standing next to each other and move close to him,and as soon as you feel it's the right moment you go in slowly and half way look at him and smile and see if he meets you half way and gives you a kiss,if not,just move in slow and give him a little kiss. If he likes it,he'll go in for more,but then again he is a young boy who is shy,so he might always expect you to kiss him,try to get him to kiss you,go in half way like I said,and then let him meet you half way...Good Luck with your kiss and don't force it,if it happens let it be natural,like let it just fall into place.
2007-11-16 13:55:45 · answer #3 · answered by Himynameis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that mybe u should get together some place alone and try to act kinda flirty like he should know u wanna kiss him. Then, if u think he is really into it then u could probably go in for the kiss. the worst tht can hapen is he'll baq away nd if tht oes happen u can ust b like, im sorry i didnt wanna make u uncomfortable and rush things too much. if hes a nice guy he'll be fine with it and you'll know that if you really like him, you know u can b patient and wait for him.
2007-11-16 12:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by :-)_4_me!!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that hard... just lean in, and get him on the cheek, then while he's looking at you in shocked surprise, go in for the kill!
He'll be really glad you did if he's shy.
plus, NEVER ask him to kiss you, or ask if he wants to kiss, or announce it in ANY way before hand. he might chicken out and sy no, even if that's not the true answer.
2007-11-16 12:34:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow so you havent kissed yet? well i think that if you go to the dance just look at him straight in the eyes.. it will most def send him a 'message' . he is probly waiting for that time too. dont rush these things because mayb its not worth it.. if you've been dating for 3 months and its your 2nd time .. theres something kinda wrong there. maybe hes been out kissing other girls besides you. well thats what i think..
2007-11-16 12:37:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 and you've been "dating" your boyfriend for 3 months and haven't kissed him?? AT 13 you shouldn't be worry of such things that you aren't mature enough to do.
If you need adult advice just for kissing, skip it and just enjoy him without all the pressure. If he feels to pressured he'll find some reason to break-up because he can't stand all the BS of it.
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2007-11-16 12:40:39 · answer #7 · answered by Shel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately at 13 you have no clue what love is and are to young to be kissing, platonic friends is the best thing at this young age my friend.I am not trying to be mean, I am just concerned about todays youth and the way they are left to do there own thing.
2007-11-16 12:37:00 · answer #8 · answered by georgewarren93 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when your dancing with him just...... at the right time! Close your eyes and make you lips like your kissing... And I think he would know you wanna kiss him!
-3- Good luck
2007-11-16 12:35:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're aiming for your first kiss to take place at this christmas dance, i wouldn't count on it. especially if he's shy. go somewhere with him, or invite him to you house. sit reallly close to him, and give him a hint that you want to kiss him. look into his eyes, and slowly move your face closer to his.
it should all work out from there :]
2007-11-16 12:35:58 · answer #10 · answered by jesslistenstomae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋