Family & Relationships - 16 November 2007

My ex-husband started dating a girl in Aug. Engaged in May. Haven't met her in person. I tried to get to know her with hopes of being friends. Sent card to congratulate on engagement to her, sent emails, invited to be "friend" on myspace so she could see pics of kids. Recently had a falling out with my ex (usually we get along good) over a situation with his new fiancee spending the night at his house with the kids there; we had signed a legal document in front of judge stating several things including that we would not have members of opp. sex spend night with kids there. He was trying to sneak it behind my back, but I figured out what he was up to prior to it happening & stopped it. Anyways, the new fiancee flipped out & started sending me text after text, email after email calling me names, etc. I have told her to stop all contact with me but she persists. It's aggravating.

2007-11-16 15:23:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-16 15:22:48 · 43 answers · asked by Midwest Social Worker 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend has very protective parents. She's 19 and although over legal age, still gets her parents permission for everything she does. My fiance and myself are going to Thailand and we want her to come with us and another friend. We're all convinced that her parents wont let her. I understand they want to protect their daughter but she needs to have some freedom and room to make her own choices. We've tried the whole "I'm 19, I'm an adult and I'm old enough", it doesn't work. What can she do and how can I make sure that by trying to help her I'm not hurting her feelings?? The last thing I want to do is upset her.

2007-11-16 15:22:36 · 5 answers · asked by ~(Tinker) Belle~ 3 in Family

let me start off by saying that im 15 and im in highschool about a yaer ago it was this girl that liked me but at tha time i nevaer new we were jus cool till one day over the phone she told me how she felt about me and my mother over heard and she got really upset and was thinkin i was gay but im not, and so from that day on i guess she always thought that i was but never said anything about it until tonight. ii have this boy friend thaat i jus loe to death and i am always on the phone with him all day all night, so i got off the phone with him to get ready for bed, and i put my hair in a pony tail. and she jus told me that i look like a boy and that the boy that im with (who is jus a ffriend) is suppose to be some kind of cover up. so i jus went off and told her that i hate her and she has failed as being a mother and then she was like i don't care and that i can leave if i want to. i live with both parents and my father has tried to stop the madness but unfortunately it hasn't work

2007-11-16 15:20:56 · 8 answers · asked by ~**ThE oNe AnD oNlY**~ 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I have decided to move back to my hometown in the minnesota from where we live now in CA (where my fiance's from) We've just had enough of the traffic and people and its really starting to effect our quality of life. We're both looking forward to a smaller town. the only problem is my soon to be father in law is less than excited that we're moving back to my hometown. He doesn't seem mad that we're moving in general, just that we've chosen to move back to where I'm from. Are there any suggetions on how to convince him that this is a good move for us? We are adults (25) and will move regardless but we would like to have his approval. Any suggestions?

2007-11-16 15:20:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

It's not public, it's in a fitting room. Could I get in trouble if I did that with my husband?

2007-11-16 15:20:33 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

even know your marred andmadley in love....do you still see people that you think are hot and like get a feeling that you rellly like then or somehingsimular ever.......if you do should you feel gulity or is it just human nature to be attracted to then??????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-16 15:19:28 · 12 answers · asked by got.to.get.over.him. =] 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-16 15:14:52 · 12 answers · asked by Queen of Pentacles 3 in Friends

I feel like my sister and I are slowly drifting apart. We have always had opposite personalities (my sister is the liberated party girl and I am the responsible goody-goody). We have had fights before, but recently our arguments seem to be getting serious. Sometimes I wonder if it is because I am jealous? Sometimes I blame it on the fact that some personalities really just do not jive. (For example, I hate how she flirts with guys all the time and brags about her many friends. She hates how I follow the rules and am just too conservative) Tough, huh? Sometimes I can't even stand looking at her. I dont know if I am mostly mad at her or jealous? I tried ignoring her, and maintaining the minimum amount of conversation. I felt that by doing that, I will be decreasing the possibility of engaging in another argument. I feel that our relationship is going nowhere - and fast. The thing is, its hard to be this way since we live in the same house.

2007-11-16 15:12:24 · 9 answers · asked by ParisLiz 1 in Family

When I saw my crush afterschool, he asked if I wanted a smore, because he made them in chem. I took one (he had two), and told him I had made them earlier that day too, because I had the same teacher at a different time. He said, "Oh, so you're taking advantage of my generosity." I didn't really know what to say, so I said, "But you offered me one. I thought you knew I had (teacher's name)."

I would probably have tried to give it back to him, but I had already bitten into it. I don't remember exactly what happened afterward, but he asked when I had chem at some point in the 2-minute conversation we had while walking downstairs.

What's he thinking? A friend told me he might have been joking, but I couldn't really tell. He's really generous- to everyone- and it didn't occur to me that he would mind that I took one when I already made some of my own hours ago.

I don't think he said it to be snippy, but out of honesty. I feel like a jerk, but I don't know what to do about it.

2007-11-16 15:11:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anita 5 in Singles & Dating

I am a single mom with 3 boys who fathers do not have time 4 them. 2 by the same person.

2007-11-16 15:10:46 · 4 answers · asked by alwaystheone_4_u@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family

My husband and I are separating (for reasons I will not fully go into, except to say that he has some issues...and he agrees) and the idea of not having to see him when I walk through the door makes me happy. I am not mad, sad, or hurt. I am ready to move on. Did you feel similar to this at first and then change your mind...or are you still happy to be separated?

2007-11-16 15:10:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend will go out with his friends late even when they ask last minute....but he never invites me anywhere and never stay out late with me...i have to plan everything and tell him a week or two in advance...what should i do?

2007-11-16 15:09:46 · 20 answers · asked by Lysie 2 in Singles & Dating

She already said she's happy..

2007-11-16 15:08:53 · 14 answers · asked by Rungkit V 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Except that you find married life utterly boring?

2007-11-16 15:07:04 · 19 answers · asked by male.confused 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Have you ever had a jealous mate?Did the relationship become violent?
I met someone online. He and I have not met in person yet. We have been talking on the phone and chating online.I asked him about his past relationships.He told me that his past girlfriends said that he was too jealous.When he told me that I became worried.Should I continue to talk with him?

2007-11-16 15:00:47 · 9 answers · asked by KISS ME♥*´`*•.¸★ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

so i had a high school sweetheart for all 4 years of high school... but when it came time for college we went seperate ways and decided to break it off... well she is depressed now and is transfering to my school next year. she is expecting us to get back together but i'm kind of enjoying the single life. any suggestions?

2007-11-16 15:00:12 · 9 answers · asked by NCSUwolfpack22 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i went to work for my dad and his gf ! they own a small business the whole idea was to learn the stuff and take over from them. but when i was there they never gave me anything to do and my dads gf used to have a go at me for silly things. because i have always lived with my mom i was unsure on how to talk to them as they are strangers to me, they used to send me to my dads gf duaghters business and do work for her and she never spoke to me. i left and got upset eventually because my dads gf had a go at a worker and i smiled and she swore at me and told me to stop laughing. now my sister who worked there aswell is on twice the pay we both got and is learning everything . am i being silly by this making me upset??? i love my sister and i am not jealous because she deserves everything she gets i just feel like they have done it on purpose to get at me.

2007-11-16 14:59:55 · 2 answers · asked by betty b 1 in Family

why are guys so into these??

My boyfriend just told me one day i have to get him one so when i cook him dinner i can wear it. I'm like whatever and he said a nurse one too..

Like if i wanted to do get the costume why would i have to wear it when i cook cause i probably wouldnt be comfy and it might get dirty

2007-11-16 14:59:41 · 5 answers · asked by rayray 1 in Singles & Dating

There are different opinion and views of separated and divorces issues But, you can blame the other spouse all you like and vise averse. But, You can't get away of the reality of it. the problem where you are at teh time.

Unfortunity you can involve others or others causing the marriage brake up.

There the line

the are people put their children in the middle and manulate the children which on the same hand is wrong.

It's a waste of time to take up the lawyers time to put lies on Legal papers.

It not going to make yourself look good.

So, why do it????

2007-11-16 14:57:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Kirsten from the moment we fell in love
i knew it would last 4ever
i love you
you are amazing
you are girl that makes me whole
i dont want there 2 be any1 else but you
from this moment on my heart is always urs
i want want 2 spend the rest of my life with you
your my dream come true
will you marry me?

2007-11-16 14:55:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 7 years. Now, I have a new job offer in a different state and he wants to move in with me when I leave.

I don't want him to because he is bad with money and he has a ton of bills. He said "you will have to pay for everything for a while." To me, that is unfair because I have already passed on opportunities because I used the money I was going to use to relocate to help him pay his bills.
Yes, I believe in being there for your partner no matter what. But how much is too much?

Am I a bad girlfriend because I'm unwilling to take on his responsibilities anymore? Should I let him move to this new place with me?

Any advice is greatly appreciated. Thank you all in advance!

2007-11-16 14:54:48 · 16 answers · asked by Enigmatic 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex bf that I broke up with about 4 years ago has been messaging me online for the past week and talking to me like we talk all the time but the thing is we really dont!!! Our conversation was pretty typical besides the fact that he would add in comments about missing certain elements of our relationships. He has a gf (the only one he'd had after being with me) and I have a bf ( ive had many since being with him)

I broke up with him but we went out for about 3 years.

Do you think hes just being nice?? Maybe he needs advice??

It's just surprising that he all the sudden contacted me again... maybe im over analyzing....

2007-11-16 14:54:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've got headaches & problems in my life right now, will anyone be my friend, i feel lost & alone :(

2007-11-16 14:54:09 · 30 answers · asked by Allstar 3 in Friends

This boys # I have in my phone. Well we have been talking lately..This boy named *Cody* gave me his # Saying that call him he wants ot hook up with you!
Well ive` been getting that the boy i`m talking too is the same boy. That we were alone and crap..Like even when i asked him what she looks like it kinda matched up too me
I don`t know about you..But to me that`s fishy!
He texted me..And stuff askin me what i`m doin..
And then he said somethin about ''forget it'' Remember?
What does that mean.Also he doesn`t go to my school..But i think he is lying..I`m not shure.
What do you think i`m tired of being confsued!!
The bad thing of it is..What if i think this is the boy..But then i find out it isn`t what should i do?

2007-11-16 14:53:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if youre going on the computer and talking to other people like guys in chatrooms and youre husband doesnt know is it wrong but only doing it for conversation and its fun

2007-11-16 14:52:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when you sleep with your husband or wife, do you cuddle to sleep, or do you sleep on opposite sides not really touching?

also pleae add how many yrs you have been married

2007-11-16 14:50:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A girl is asking the question
You guys are at the same college and started eating dinner or lunch once or twice a week. And the both of you ususally have dinner on a day at the cafe or another food place at school. She metions if you guys are going to do this. You say if she wants. So you end up doing this. And it seems like you guys are starting to get a long great and are able to open up.
Would you eat dinner with her every week on a day if you didn't like her more than a friend??
Would you do this if you didn't want more than a relationship in the future?
How about if she doesn't want one now, but she might want one later (so she just wants to wait) to get to know him better and see where things go?
The guy has not said the exact words "I like you", or has not metioned if she wanted to be more than friends

2007-11-16 14:50:39 · 16 answers · asked by calmgirly 1 in Singles & Dating

wat happend a stray dog got into the school so me and these two other guys had to catch it.. one guy went one way and the other was with me.. so we were checking in the guys gym locker room and i didnt want to go in couse it was in a diffrent building than the real school so he jus pulled my hand and said "dont worry we could just look jus in case "so i said "I guess.. "so we went in and no one was in the building exept us so we looked in diffrent parts of the gym and he called me to the locker room and he said "come here real quick !"(i am 16 by the way and i sorta like the guy) so i come and he grabs my hands and puts me against the wall and was like "you r so cute and al mine and i would love to hear wat u sound like when." and instead of fineshing he was started to kiss my neck and he said something under his breath i think it was "I like u alot and u..!"we both fell on the floor, i was on my back ,and on.. but it wasnt sex But the q is does he like me and what do u think of him?

2007-11-16 14:50:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-16 14:49:49 · 1 answers · asked by winterbby 1 in Singles & Dating