my boyfriend will go out with his friends late even when they ask last minute....but he never invites me anywhere and never stay out late with me...i have to plan everything and tell him a week or two in advance...what should i do?
2007-11-16 15:09:46 · 20 answers · asked by Lysie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to tell him your feeling. Altho it might be hard, you won't regret it. He might understand, he might not. Perhaps he just didn't notice it, and doesn't know that you feel hurt about it. You need to express your feelings so that he'll know. If he still doesn't care, then something might be going wrong. =]
2007-11-16 15:12:44 · answer #1 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, u gotta tell him. Guys are always doing that, u just need to let him know that if u guys plan to go anywhere with the relationship then hes gonna have to make more time for u and less for the guys.
2007-11-16 15:15:42 · answer #2 · answered by c93swimmer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel! Don't antagonize him or anything, but just bring it up and say, "I feel like I have to plan to hang out with you a week in advance" and take it from there. But he probably doesn't want to bring you around his friends because 1, he might be embarrassed of them, 2, they are up to no good, 3, his friends might try to "steal" you from him...I know I never brought a girl I just met around some people because they flirt with her constantly and stuff like that...
2007-11-16 15:15:54 · answer #3 · answered by puffer fish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going out with your friends and find a guy who wants to spend some time with you, or at least respects your plans. He sounds like a jerk...Run Forest Run!!! Good Luck.
2007-11-16 15:13:50 · answer #4 · answered by Rambo 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he likes the grog more than you. That's a bit sad... And weird, there's nothing better than drinking with your girlfriend. Haha, makes for some interesting nights.
2007-11-16 15:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What should you do about a boy who likes other boys more than he likes his girlfriend? I'm pretty sure the worst thing to do would be to assume things will get better with time.
2007-11-16 15:19:03 · answer #6 · answered by Nomadd 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should talk to him about it.. but seriously .. its NORMAL! he's just that type of guy a lot girls can accept it. try going out yourself instead of waiting out home for his calls. and things dont change i guess you will know what are his prioritys are and that he's a greedy mcshady
2007-11-16 15:44:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have problems now that bother you in this relationship, he apparently does what he is comfortable with, and not to concerned with your needs. I would move on unless your really into this guy, then sit him down, explain how you feel, and put the ball in his court, if he cares he will attempt to think of you to, if not, it is your decision if you want to put up with it.
2007-11-16 15:14:10 · answer #8 · answered by do.drop 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first, i dont think you would want to go with him and "the guys" its not very enjoyable... second, i think you shoul dmention to him that you wish yall could be more spontaneous... then, lastly, if that doesnt work, think about what you like in this guy that you should stick around for...
2007-11-16 15:14:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree, he might be gay, find out where he goes and what he does, then givehim an ultimatum to either include u more in his life or dump him :)
2007-11-16 15:14:21 · answer #10 · answered by Alqahinyo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋