A girl is asking the question
You guys are at the same college and started eating dinner or lunch once or twice a week. And the both of you ususally have dinner on a day at the cafe or another food place at school. She metions if you guys are going to do this. You say if she wants. So you end up doing this. And it seems like you guys are starting to get a long great and are able to open up.
Would you eat dinner with her every week on a day if you didn't like her more than a friend??
Would you do this if you didn't want more than a relationship in the future?
How about if she doesn't want one now, but she might want one later (so she just wants to wait) to get to know him better and see where things go?
The guy has not said the exact words "I like you", or has not metioned if she wanted to be more than friends
2007-11-16 14:50:39 · 16 answers · asked by calmgirly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'd do dinner if there was gonna be dessert.....wink wink
2007-11-16 14:53:15 · answer #1 · answered by T-Ferg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you eat dinner with her every week on a day if you didn't like her more than a friend?? YES
Would you do this if you didn't want more than a relationship in the future? What do you mean by more than a relationship?
How about if she doesn't want one now, but she might want one later (so she just wants to wait) to get to know him better and see where things go? Now you are really confusing me.
2007-11-16 22:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by arizona wolfman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In college, you're not "friends" with any girl first. As a guy, every girl you establish a relationship with is a "potential". If it doesn't lead to casual sex or a dating relationship or anything in between, then maybe it turns into "friends".
Guys view college like a giant buffet. Nobody puts Brussels sprouts on their plate at a buffet.
2007-11-16 22:57:22 · answer #3 · answered by Big Red Ten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever happened to just being friends. I truely feel that a man and a woman can just be friends. The important thing is to make that clear, and if your feelings change, then let that be known also.
2007-11-16 22:55:21 · answer #4 · answered by bill s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why not.
2007-11-16 22:54:54 · answer #5 · answered by vrvmpp20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont see anything wrong with having dinner with a friend every week.
2007-11-16 22:54:38 · answer #6 · answered by jd5051 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't you just say it as in your own words?
No he or she cuz it gets kinda boring [[no offence]]
He may not like u more than a friend but he possibly could well ask him not ppl on the internet!
2007-11-16 22:54:02 · answer #7 · answered by ツLuv~u~2ツ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be friends! Sometimes ppl. just need a friend and it sucks when someone tries to make it more than just that! Be easy! Good luck
2007-11-16 22:53:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i will do all those things if i did not have feeling for her because good friends are hard to find now adayz
2007-11-16 22:57:04 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's eating w/ you on a weekly basis he's obviously some what interested in you
2007-11-16 22:53:13 · answer #10 · answered by NCSUwolfpack22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I guess so it depends on what we eat and talk about.
2007-11-16 22:53:00 · answer #11 · answered by Domo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋