so suicidal?

Question

let me start off by saying that im 15 and im in highschool about a yaer ago it was this girl that liked me but at tha time i nevaer new we were jus cool till one day over the phone she told me how she felt about me and my mother over heard and she got really upset and was thinkin i was gay but im not, and so from that day on i guess she always thought that i was but never said anything about it until tonight. ii have this boy friend thaat i jus loe to death and i am always on the phone with him all day all night, so i got off the phone with him to get ready for bed, and i put my hair in a pony tail. and she jus told me that i look like a boy and that the boy that im with (who is jus a ffriend) is suppose to be some kind of cover up. so i jus went off and told her that i hate her and she has failed as being a mother and then she was like i don't care and that i can leave if i want to. i live with both parents and my father has tried to stop the madness but unfortunately it hasn't work

and so at this moment im looking at life and it seems worthless to keep goin through this day after day i mean can any of u imagine it som one soclose jus constantly hurting u and this is not healthy i no for sure.. i no i might sound crazy but i love life and if u went through wat i have been through u would understand mabe.. so please help any thing to calm me down. help me deal with this.

Answer 1

What is your question?

You should not commit suicide over this! If your mother is homophobic then there is nothing you can do to fix that. You know the truth and you have a dad that loves/supports you so just forget your mother!

Maybe you should have sex with him in her bed while she is home and call her into the room? (JUST KIDDING! Please don't do that!)

Answer 2

Just remember there is a light at the end of the tunnel. You will probably only live with your parents a few more years. So if you can survive your mother's harsh treatment for 3 or 4 more years you will still have 50 or so years where you won't need to listen to her. A life is a long journey and if you never experience struggles then you will never truly experience happiness. If every day of your life was perfect then a perfect day would just be any other day. I hope you decide to fight through the next few years and not give up.

Answer 3

How did your Mum get this silly idea by over hearing a phone conversation. Has your boyfriend met your Dad yet, if not then I think they should meet, you are still Young so don't expect your boyfriend to be the only boyfriend you will ever have. Your Mother sounds as if she is not understanding of anyone not even your Dad , Another thing you could do is to speak to a Auntie and tell her everything, your Mum might just listen to a female member of the family. Please don't do anything drastic you have a lot to live for.

Answer 4

Im not being funny, but your mum being homophobic is no reason to kill yourself.
think about what other people go through? loosing loved ones, being terminally ill... etc etc etc.
If your straight.. why does it matter? end of the day, looks like its your mum thats got the problem!
Just ignore her. you obviously have good friends, so if you really cant stand being at home with her, why not stay with them for a while?

Answer 5

your mother is guilty of abuse,believe me you are being abused.and that is a crime she sounds totaly heartless and cruel.but start thinking positive tell yourself she is wrong and you will not be beaten,even if you have to report her.this situation cannot be allowed to carry on.for she may be ill and need treatment.have a talk with your dad tell him the way you feel,if thats no help talk to a teacher,doctor,or ring childline on 0800 1111,but please dont hurt yourself i care as im sure a lot more people on here do. i truely hope things get better. www.childline.org.uk

Answer 6

just remember this is not your problem its theres. if you like the way you are be happy about it. when they have a go smile
at them . it will wind them up well bad. i maybe able to help more but i would need more info . mail me any time .
take care be happy x

Answer 7

wrong place Hun! talk to a counsel

Answer 8

Huh?