and they both die and leave you their child, what do you do? should i love this child as my own? or put him up for adoption, as he is not mine, or do i keep him and tell everyone he's not mine, and that i don't love him?
please help, my parents dont know i have a child. they are very christian and would not approve. i am going home for christmas, and it would be a lot easier if i knew what to do about this "thing" that was so nicely dumped on my lap
2007-11-16 14:31:29 · 11 answers · asked by watermeloniegirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
u said, "about this "thing" that was so nicely dumped on my lap"?!
wtf is ur problem? its a baby. it's not his fault. how would you like if that happened to your baby, or better yet you? give it to adoption. most likely they won't be as cruel as you. (:
2007-11-16 14:47:21 · answer #1 · answered by BlinkOnce 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I'm reading this right, this child is the adopted brother of your child. Either accept him and treat him as an equal to your child or let him be adopted by a family that will love and care for him. A baby needs more than a home and food. A baby needs love and acceptance. If you can't be charitable and love him, let someone else do it.
2007-11-16 14:38:42 · answer #2 · answered by Just Hazel 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-11 21:17:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? Take care of the poor baby. It didn't ask to be put into this situation. If you really can't deal with it then give it up for adoption. Lots of loving families are waiting to adopt.
2007-11-16 14:35:52 · answer #4 · answered by adrianne 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No one on Yahoo! answers can tell you the correct answer. I can't and neither can the next person. Instead do what you know is better for you. By the way you speak, I would guess you don't like the child so I would recommend you put him/her into foster care
2007-11-16 14:35:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are not going to love it and care for it then let someone else adopt it and give it a good home. every child deserves that.
2007-11-16 14:35:12 · answer #6 · answered by Aloha_Ann 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a babysitter and go see your parents and act like there's nothing you left back home...if I were you I'd raise the child as my own though..they left you the child for a reason if they wanted to put him up for adoption they would've
2007-11-16 14:37:32 · answer #7 · answered by Love always, Kortnei 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
that's the worst thing to say in the world. it's yours because it was a gift to you and all babies are a gift from god. if your "christian" parents can't see that they need to reread the bible and learn what a christian value is-gay parents or not. that's the worst thing to say, calling a baby a "thing." you certainly don't deserve to be a parent in the first place. go through some parenting classes and see what appreciation is. every life is important.
2007-11-16 14:36:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not gay, but what does your ex being gay has to do with ur decision. if he was with a woman and adopt a baby and they both died. would you adopt the kid then. the question is. do you want this kid or not? but i believe your looking for an excuse not to keep him. instead of just saying his not your responsibility. and you don't want him, but a part of you do.
2007-11-16 14:45:34 · answer #9 · answered by bthat 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey a child isn't a "thing"
Since you can't love the child,
you should leave it to a foster home
poor baby =(
2007-11-16 15:06:25 · answer #10 · answered by lala 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋