why cant i find a guy that likes me for me and not my body? does anyone understand this? i dont get it at all..
2007-11-16 14:45:51 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are so misled.
I'm sure you wouldn't want to be with some ulgy nice guy either, so stop being such a hypocrite.
Women think with their vagina's btw...
You just need to work on your personality and stop meeting guys at all the wrong places. Go volunteer at a food shelter, go read at the library.
Avoid at all costs meeting the scum at clubs, bars and the like. That's where all the losers that you are describing hang out at.
2007-11-16 14:48:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
It is a sign of immaturaty or they are not very smart. Find an older guy that has been through the ringer with a bunch of immature little hotties and he will soon start looking for a girl with personality.
You are probably young too and are wanting more then you think you are getting. Give it time. I was 32 when I finally found a woman that really gave me what I was looking for. She was about 300 lbs. Now she is dieting and under 200 because she loves me. Yes I was attracted to her personality.
Dont worry too much about it and enjoy yourself. Date more men and maybe try some older more laid back guys who arent so aggressive. You will find one somewhere, someday.
I should add that perhaps your personality needs some work?
or your approach to dating / picking a mate?
2007-11-16 14:59:52 · answer #2 · answered by analize2much 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the guys you meet are shallow narrow minded morons who cannot look past your looks and to the person you really are. However, you may have to do the same to find a guy who actually sees beyond looks, because it may well be the kind of guys you are going for are the wrong kind for you if that is how they think.
However as a general rule about 80-90% of men think with their weiners and so finding the right guy will be tough but possible.
2007-11-16 14:51:31 · answer #3 · answered by curethedarkness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a great body, that just means you have to sift through more guys to find one who cares about your personality. Or maybe you are flaunting your body which attracts the kind of guys who care about only your body?
2007-11-16 14:49:31 · answer #4 · answered by arizona wolfman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The male of the species runs on hormones which makes visual pleasure higher than cerebral pleasure. Of course the selfish gene they were born with manifests in sussing out all probable females for mating purposes.
I suggest you wear clothes less revealing and go to a night class or take up a hobby you're interested in. You may meet someone with a similar interest to you. Alternatively, realise there is more to life than having a partner/s, romance/sex. Much more, respect.
2007-11-16 14:56:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
From my point of view, I love a girl's personality and beauty is within the heart and not the body. A girl can be sexy and good looking, but if her heart is not in the right place. Then she just another ho for show...
2007-11-16 14:50:04 · answer #6 · answered by jolmata 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman's body is a perfect form of art work it amazes me of the beauty of it all. Theres nothing like it, sometimes that body over powers everything else and as a man we can become one tracted.
2007-11-16 14:52:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
the same reason that girls could care less about a guys personality and only care for his money.
or find a guy who's celibate, he'll surely be in for the personality.
2007-11-16 16:51:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So make it clear that you like guys only for their bodies as well. The dorks will go away soon and you'll be left with the irresistible studs.
2007-11-16 14:49:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lower youre expectations visually wise, I know alot of gurls that say this but when a fat,or ugly guy approaches them they blow him off, I mean if ur smokin guys are naturally gonna be attracted to u buy that, but its those fat and ugly guys who will most likely come for the looks and stay for the personality give them a chance
2007-11-16 14:53:30 · answer #10 · answered by koolaid3001 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋