Family & Relationships - 28 October 2007

Finally after 3 week of not very close friendship I decided to ask a girl who I like to come to the cinema with me today. the story is that last night I went to the my friend party and I said to her that I have two tickets for cinema and if u want u can come with me, and she said ok, but she said that she has to do some thing important around 9pm.At the end of party I called her and ask her again about tomorrow and she said that she is not very sure but there is 50% change that she come with me, so I asked for her phone number and she gave me her phone number and at the end she hugged me.

The question is that what do u think about her, does she like me or not?
Because in this party she did some attitude which I thought she like my friend more than me. for example (she called him with funny name, and also touched him 3 times)

2007-10-28 06:00:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

busy so he asked how i was i said hi but barely. so when should i go back again? thursday or is that waiting to long?

2007-10-28 06:00:20 · 5 answers · asked by donielle 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-28 05:56:52 · 13 answers · asked by Jas 3 in Singles & Dating

I love this song called -apologize-by one republic and timberland,should it be a song for me and my boyfriend? it is a great song,it will NEVER get old for me.BUt should i ask him if we should have a song??

2007-10-28 05:52:25 · 11 answers · asked by <3(I have a HUGE thing 4 him) 1 in Singles & Dating

my wife always want to do stuff during the week and the weekends . she always wants to be out with the kids . I myself just want to get home and work around the house and then rest. she is making me feel guilty by saying that i never want to go out. I do go out but not as much as she wants to. am i wrong for not wanting to go out all the time or do i need to give in to her always being out ?

2007-10-28 05:45:10 · 7 answers · asked by Ray 2 in Family

We have been Together now for 2 whole yrs...do you think I should?

2007-10-28 05:44:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i love hearing about this!

2007-10-28 05:41:58 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I had to perform oral on him. He has been under a lot of stress lately..so I'm sure it has to do with that...but should I worry? Is this a fairly common thing? We've been together for two years and eveything has been great until this. I'd like to hear about others' experiences...

2007-10-28 05:38:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well i moved from my mother in texas to live with my father, stepmother, and little brother in minnesota. im a freshman in highschool and have very few friends since i moved. i really miss my home in texas because all my family and friends are there. i think i made the worst choice i couldve made. i really feel guilty about wanting to move back with my mom after a year because my dad and stepmom went through alot of trouble and shelled out alot of money to get me here. also i am scared to tell my dad that i want to move. im afraid that my stepmom and dad will be ashamed of me and never look at me the same. i just dont know what to do. i really miss texas and ive been like this for months and it hasnt gone away. please i really need advice. what should i do????

2007-10-28 05:38:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've been hearing this often because several of my friends have turned 23 receintly. I feel out of the loop here. someone please fill me in.

2007-10-28 05:37:22 · 6 answers · asked by pgroove75 1 in Friends

Is this ok for october? I'm thinking mostly black & white (classy) with a little touch of hot pink here and there to keep it fun (and very "us"). Is this appropriate for October?

My idea is bridesmaid dresses black with white sashes, and the MOH will have a hot pink sash. The groomsmen will be in black tuxes with white shirt, black tie, and BM will have hot pink tie? I want the MOH and BM to stick out from the rest, but not enough to overpower me and my hubby-to-be.

I'm not totally sold on it, so any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!!!

2007-10-28 05:35:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Why is it that when us girls go out and we are married/engaged/living with someone that you have loads of men wanting your number or to take you home, yet when you are single you can't get a bloke for love nor money!!

I ask because I went out last night with 3 of my girlfriends, 2 of us are married, 1 is engaged and the other is living with her partner. We had men coming up to us all night asking for our numbers and so on. When we all single, yes we had boyfriends but never have I had so much attention as I did last night. It was even happening quite early on in the evening so the beer wasn't even a factor in a few cases.

What's going on - do men see us marrieds as a challenge ?

p.s Before you ask - none of us were unfaithful.

2007-10-28 05:34:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok. so me and this guy have been going out for almost a year now. we love eachother bery much but i have a real bad jeaousy problem.he has this friend thats a girl and they sit next to eachother in a class and all class they write notes back and forth about her and his sex life and all thats stuff.it really hurts me when he talks about other girls and i dont kwno why. i tell him that but he just dosnt understan, i dont even want him to tell me about when he talks to other girls and what tehy said because it makes me so mad. i need help on how to deal with my jealousy promblem and how to explain it to him...please

2007-10-28 05:30:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

..your ex's new girlfriends or boyfriends always seems to hate you, eventhough you're completley civil towards them???

2007-10-28 05:30:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I screwed up with my boyfriend. i'm 21 hes 27. He was talking to a girl on messenger and instead of stopping and asking him about it i went off on him. I said "your playing me" "your looking for someone else". Yes i know really uncool to do. after i cooled off i told him that i was so sorry and he said "it will be ok" since it happened i have talked to him and everything seems like its ok. but i still feel really bad about what i did so i was thinking there is this game for his PS2 that he really wants that i would get it for him. So what does everyone think should i suprise with it? Guys if your girl done this to you would it help if she got you something that you really wanted to make it up to you. Please tell me what you think. Thanks so much

2007-10-28 05:30:33 · 6 answers · asked by Julia M 1 in Singles & Dating

just curious,cuz when I disagreed w/ a male last night,that was the first thing he called me.

*note...this DOES NOT pertain to all men.

2007-10-28 05:26:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i have been dating this guy for about a month or so now and we were best friends before we started dating so we tell each other everything well latley he has been tellin me when he gets "really happy"
is that supposed to mean something or not?

2007-10-28 05:25:34 · 2 answers · asked by babecakes 2 in Singles & Dating

I have 3 kids and I work full-time, 60-70 hours a week,12 hours a day. I still manage to keep up with my hair, make-up and nails. I try to look decent atleast...

I have known that I had low to no self esteem for awhile now, but it has gotten worse. My husband left me about a month ago. When we were together my husband didnt show my alot of affection and sometimes wouldnt even want to have sex with me - and that made me feel unattractive and hideous. Even though he would say it wasn't about me, it felt that way. Now he is seeing a woman that is not the least bit attractive...from the craters in her face to her teeth all messed up. That has only made me feel worse.

All my friends tell me that I am beautiful, but thats what friends are supposed to tell you. Does anyone have any ideas on how I can get my self esteem up?

2007-10-28 05:22:02 · 29 answers · asked by тяιηα 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am feeling really depressed at the moment. I have generally a good marriage and am told a lot that I am extremely attractive but I am consistently paranoid about my husband seeing other women and thinking they are attractive. He has never cheated on me and is extremely attentive and affectionate but I hate it when we are in the same room as an attractive woman as I always wonder that my husband is thinking she is good looking too. He says he feels he can't talk to another woman unless she is totally unattractive for fear of what I will be thinking. He says he isn't interested in anyone but me , however I know this doesn't mean that he doesn't think that other women are pretty and it drives me up the wall. I wish he didn't ever have to see other women, but I know this is childish and unrealistic. Please help

2007-10-28 05:21:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He says I am his best friend but I am scared that we will get too close and I will hurt him. I trying to get in to med school and I do not want any distraction. I really like him but I just not sure. He is 22 and I 21. I think we are very young. He wants to be a pastor. I want to be a doctor. Our careers are different. Any advice?

2007-10-28 05:20:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was in a very abusive relationship that ended a little over 3yrs ago. I have since moved on w/my life. Bought a house, graduated from school and moved out of town. This guy still tries to contact me from time to time. Sending texts, calling from different phone #'s, leaving letters in my mail box at home (which is in a different state, thank God) and setting his sister up to contact me in various ways. My thing is he put me through sooo much hell and pain the nearly 6yrs we were together I don't want to hear from him at all! Everytime he tries to contact me it gets me upset. He called the other day at 4am saying he had the wrong # (yea right) I still have thoughts of what he has done to me and how it has affected me to this day. Just the other night I was bawling about something he was responsible for. I don't want to carry any of this baggage into a new relationship. So my thing is, contact is few and far between, maybe every 3 mths or so. Would you change your # if you were me?

2007-10-28 05:20:09 · 14 answers · asked by Sweet Honey 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-28 05:17:20 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i look average. but am extremely popular with the rest of the girls n the prof too. but, why do I gt noticed by the guys when I dun look like a model? btw, some girls think i look good.

2007-10-28 05:15:55 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have an female enemy who started working at my husband's place of employment. She pumped a friend of mine to find out where he was working, and then, bam, she ends up working at his place of employment. I was not aware of her working there until another friend informed me. My husband did not tell me about it. When I asked why he hadn't told me, he got very defensive and talked to me very mean. To be fair, his mother had been in a car wreck at the same time I confronted him, and he said that is why he was mean to me. However, he's done some very questionable acts since my "enemy" has came into our lives and we have gotten into some very vicious fights. He has put his hands around my throat twice, but did not squeeze tight---just threatened and said he would like to. He's bruised my sides from squeezing me when I try to leave. The entire time we dated I did not see this behavior, but in all honesty, it all started when she came into our lives. (cont'd--read additional details)

2007-10-28 05:14:29 · 37 answers · asked by Ida T 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i just wanna improve my english and b fiends as well

2007-10-28 05:13:29 · 27 answers · asked by reflection 2 in Singles & Dating

So almost 26 years ago I married a man who was not exactly ideal marriage material. We're both in our 50's now and have found each other again, quite by accident, through our daughter, who had not seen him for almost 8 years. We have been talking every day since that, he has been over to spend time with our daughter and granddaughter, and he seems to be a much different man.
He wants us to be married again and says things like how it would have been better if he had been ready back then and that now we could have so much better a life together.
Any thoughts?

2007-10-28 05:09:27 · 31 answers · asked by Que bella 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm going to be starting birth control pills but I am thinking I am not going to tell my boyfriend. I know him and I know he will not want to use condoms if he knows i'm on the pill.

I just want birth control as a backup method to be extra safe, but i don't feel that it is safe enough on its own!

Am I being smart about this, or is this just wrong?

2007-10-28 05:07:29 · 41 answers · asked by starryeyed 5 in Singles & Dating

She calls me a b*stard and screams at me. Says im stupid and things like that because i dont want to live with her anymore. She tells me i cant live or support myself on my own and threatens me if i try or if i do she will be angry and worse. Im 26 and she will guilt trip me into trying to live with her. Why does she call me a b*stard and do this?

2007-10-28 04:58:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

usually after sex i get up 25 mins later and leave since i thought it was just a sex thing with him, well one day when i did that he stopped talking to me, he use to call me everyday, long behold he called me yesterday after 7 days of not talking, ofcourse he was at a buddies house drunk, he asked me to come to his house so he can see me, told him upfront i didnt want sex, he then asked me to pick him up, ofcourse i did, i didnt want one of his buddies driving drunk either just to take him home, we get to his house, he asked me to come in i said ok for a few mins, while on the couch he started saying again he missed me and he likes me. myself i knew that i already liked him but never told him cause i thought he just wanted sex, tears started to welt up, he said i know you been hurt, so have i but you might regret not giving me a chance and will regret when i am gone, he said we clicked so well n likes/cares for me, was this the liquor talking or does he really have feelings for me?

2007-10-28 04:57:13 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I was at a school dance yesterday. I asked a girl if she wanted to dance. she was around all her friends and when i asked her she said no quickly and acted like it never happened. With her being around her friends, does that lessen her chances of saying yes or does it not matter ? The wierd part is she knows I like her and when i was going up to get a drink, I heard one of her friends say I was up there getting a drink so it seemed like they wanted to know what i was doing at all times

2007-10-28 04:56:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating