Family & Relationships - 28 October 2007

2007-10-28 04:26:28 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i dont know if she is using me or what,but she does it like it doesnt even matter.she is from jamaica so i dont know how it works over there,but damn she acts like she isnt even doing it

then she rubs against my penis (which im ok cause im not gay)

so my question is what do i do to make her feel the same way i do? i hugged her, lol

2007-10-28 04:22:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

makes you cry every time you hear it...
Mine is White Christmas, Bing Crosby, I remember my Mum crying every christmas after her Mum died.... now I cant stop myself from crying when I hear it, I just remember feeling her pain....expect my kids will think of me also with this song when Ive gone...

2007-10-28 04:18:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it possible for a 21 year old guy to be in a long term relationship (2 years) with someone that he considers "the love of his life", "his future wife" and his "soul mate" only to later on feel confused about what he wants?

My ex and I had, what seemed to be, an amazing relationship. I was his first love and he was mine. We were very close with each other's families, and spent alot of time together. We had a strong bond from the very first day that we met, and we also had an amazing sex life. (he said it ALL the time...I'm only mentioning that because I don't think that was an issue)

But after he started to meet new girls that were showing him and immense amount of attention, he is now confused about whether he is ready for a serious relationship or not. We are now broken up.

I am deeply hurt because I thought that we really loved each other. I feel that if he was truly honest about what I meant to him, he would not have the desire to be physical with others

2007-10-28 04:16:47 · 8 answers · asked by HoneyChild 2 in Singles & Dating

i am getting ready to get a breast augmentation. there is a part of me that thinks the novelty of it will be fun, but i really don't care either way if i do it. my husband is super excited (he just sometimes misses what he used to have)- i am pretty much doing this for him. don't get me wrong- he loves me and is always telling me i should be a model. i don't think there is a husband out there who finds their wife more beautiful than mine does me. i am only getting it to look normal again after nursing 4 children- nothing huge or anything. i guess my question is, is there other women out there who did this mostly for their husbands and are happy now?

2007-10-28 04:15:19 · 24 answers · asked by DotWarner 4 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this guy (isn't there always?) who I met through a class. We never really talked (we're both very shy), but his partner for class was friends with my partner and we all sat together about a semester ago. Well now I see him every now and then and I happen to see him this past week. I was walking with a friend down a sidewalk and he was riding his bike talking to a friend on the opposite side. Our eyes met, we both smiled, and I looked away. When I turned my head his direction, he was still staring at me and naturally, I blushed and quickly turned away again. I'm not used to anyone staring at me and I know little about the opposite sex. Does this mean anything or was he just staring? Since I wasn't walking right in front of him, he had to turn his head to the side to look at me.

2007-10-28 04:14:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is girl at my skl whom i really like, she in grade 10, iam not a great looker, im one of those big muscular kids in skl, and the girl whom i realllly like has crush on my little bro he's grade 9, and hes the good looker . So am confused dont know wat to do. {and this is kinda making me hate my bro plz help!!}

2007-10-28 04:10:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with my partner for some years now but recently she has gone completely cold towards me,she never wants sex anymore and on the offchance that i do get it she doesn't want to face me or kiss me,she asn't mentioned anything that's bothering her and i've asked her if there's anything she wants to tell me she says no.Even the conversation in our relationship has gone stale and i just don't know what i'm doing wrong (if i'm doing owt wrong) i have said i'll leave if she doesn't want me here but she says she does.I just don't know what to do, we can't go on like this for much longer. What do i do?

2007-10-28 04:09:49 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, well this is kinda weird but i need a little help....

how can i keep from getting a b o n e r when im hanging out and doing stuff with my gf/crush?
I think its really emarrasing, even if no one notices anything, so can anyone help me out?

2007-10-28 04:08:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last year, I married a wonderful woman I had dated for three years. Ever since a few months before we married, she insists I am interested in another woman and she can not trust me. This is absoultely not true! I have done everything in my power to convince her how much I love her, but no matter what I do or say, she always picks something out of the conversation to claim proves that she is right. She has taped my phone conversations, gone through my personal papers, checks my computer history. There is no evidence for her to find because I am doing nothing, but she still insists I am. She says her "instincts" are never wrong. What should I do? I know she is miserable and I love her so much. This is taking its toll on both of us. How do you get through to someone who is convinced that you are a cheater? How do you prove that something that does not exist is not true?

2007-10-28 04:07:54 · 21 answers · asked by William K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my boyfriend with all of my heart!! I found out he cheated on me with his ex 7 months ago!! I'm still hurt, she calls him still, how do I forgive him?? I know he's the one I love, I don't want to lose him because I can't trust him.

2007-10-28 04:07:08 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

A friend of mine met her boyfriend on an online dating site. She is 42 but looks about 32. On her profile she stated that she was 32 and her picture supported this. She met a guy online and they chatted for a couple of months then he wanted to meet her. On their first meeting she told him her age as she wanted to make sure he was ok with it before getting involved with her. He didn't have a problem and they've been together for years. I'm interested in what men think of this? Personally I think it is fair enough as lots of guys dont care about the actual age but the look. If you put over 40, you often get filtered out of many searches. I'm thinking of doing internet dating and am just wondering?

2007-10-28 04:05:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Everything was going fine between the two of us in the beginning. After maybe about 6 months, it started going downhill. He is always questioning me about where I am, what I'm doing, who I'm with, what time I'll be home, etc. But they're all specific questions, like he wanted to know once how many guys and girls I was with and what their names were. I'm so frustrated because I really love him, but when he does these things, I really just want to leave him. We've had countless talks with each other. We work it out, but then it just goes back to the way it was. I know that some part of it is my fault, but for the most part, he is very paranoid about things. He says he trusts me, but by these questionings, it really doesn't seem like he does. I'm so confused, what should I do?

2007-10-28 04:05:13 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My heart is broken
I thought we could move past what was tried to be forgotten
But the pain lives on inside of me
This was not how my life with you was suppose to be
Given her what was promised to me amd me alone
But you put our promise aside for one night of pleasure with the unknown
That pain will never be forgotten, it is etched in my heart
Everyday it will slowly tear my soul apart
You was the man that my heart adored
I have never felt this kind of ache before
The thought of your body against another's was my worst fear
But the truth that our vows were lies has appeared
Our trust, our love, our life has been lost
Was her touch worth everything it cost
Absence will cure a broken heart, as some teach
But how to find the courage to leave is no where in arms reach

2007-10-28 03:55:58 · 23 answers · asked by Misused 3 in Marriage & Divorce

today i am babysitting my boyfriends daughter at his home, answerd the buzzer to a caller, he askd 4 my boyfriend i explind he wasnt here, i asked who was calling and he then said i cannot diclose that information 2 you, any 1 hav any ideas who it cud b becuz im a bit confusd, ur supposd 2 have these buzzers 2 stop people geting in2 your building by asking whos there before alowing them in, any ideas ??

2007-10-28 03:53:06 · 1 answers · asked by stacey c 1 in Singles & Dating

Yesterday a bunch of us went to a bar and finally this girl I like from my university also went. Struck up a conversation, got her digits and may have noticed a bit of interest on her part. However, this is not the issue. We're talking and she tells me its time for her to go. Now comes the goodbye part. Normally this wouldnt be a problem but this group is VERY diverse regarding nationality; so now i dont know the appropirate goodbye: handshake? head nod? single kiss? double kiss?

In a split-second decision i go for what is normal to me: the "sort-of-hug-single-kiss-in-the-cheek". But something goes wrong and I give the "sort-of-hug" but the kiss ends up in her shoulder (dont ask me why i was nervous & wasnt drunk)

My question is: should i call today, say hi & use the opportunity to kinda let her know that if she notied somethig wierd it was beacuse i was nervous? Or should i pretend nothing happened and see on monday, by her attitude towards me, if ended screwing it up.

2007-10-28 03:51:49 · 4 answers · asked by JJR Keit 1 in Singles & Dating

guys there this girl my school and i hate her and i think i am falling in love but i like onother girl what shal i do help.......?

2007-10-28 03:49:40 · 4 answers · asked by jeffrey 32 1 in Singles & Dating

Who is responsible for what and what is a reasonable amount to spend. Money is not abundant but not a major problem either. I make good money and so does her mom. Her dad will help some too Hs dad is a jerk and will not. So that leaves only me on his side. Help

2007-10-28 03:47:08 · 28 answers · asked by Special Edition 3 in Weddings

Or do some people stay single forever?

Is love over rated?

2007-10-28 03:42:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband & I have been married 2 years. 3 kids. Well 2 biologically (my oldest sons father passed away,he only knows my husband as his dad) The kids are 9,2 and 1. A month ago he told me that he doesnt want to be married anymore & left. He is now staying with his mom, paying no bills & enjoying being single. I am working 60-70 hours a week to make ends meet & taking care of the house & kids alone. My husband tells people that he only married me for the kids & that he has been miserable with me. That devastates me because I thought we were happy & I gave him everything & anything he wanted. I have always been the breadwinner & everything is in my name. I want him to come home but he said he doesnt love me & doesnt even like me. Those words killed me or atleast made me wish I was dead. I am having a hard time getting over this. I dont like giving up on marriage. I hear hes with someone else - the girls ugly & has a drug problem. Why leave me & the kids and then be w/someone like that!

2007-10-28 03:39:30 · 15 answers · asked by тяιηα 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-28 03:32:00 · 7 answers · asked by maddi 2 in Weddings

2007-10-28 03:29:23 · 28 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Friends

My daughter's estranged husband "disowned" his 17 year old son because he isn't living up to his standard..I sent grandson to Israel to a Kibbutz with his nice friends to get away from the friends who were a bad influence. We are not Jewish though..He loves it and is doing well. I am 71 yr old grandmothe an work 9 to 5 earn 40,000 and have borrowed from my retirement to send grandson.Cost $12,500..His father earns over $150,000. Can I get him to refund this money to me..When he made low salary,we paid for all clothing,shoes and whatever since our 3 grandchildren were born. The youngest is 15..Now he earns$150,000or more..Daughter has been hospitalized for bipolar she has had for years.Cannot hold onto a decent job..Help me please...

2007-10-28 03:29:04 · 13 answers · asked by Penelope 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well my gf of two weeks just broke up with me. Just random really. I don't want to go in details. We have talked about it and I think that I understand although I never fully understand what happened and why it happened. Well now I miss her and I felt like it was going to last a long time and it sucks seeing her at school and all. damn I really miss her so how should i get rid of the pain she has caused and how should I move on. Or should I even just wait a few months and ask her out again before prom comes along

2007-10-28 03:26:20 · 8 answers · asked by running08 1 in Singles & Dating

Well ive just started secondary.. i'm trying to come out of my shell, you see, im a really shy girl.. how can i make new friends (from my class)

2007-10-28 03:23:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I constantly feel sad when I look at my 15 year old daughter's life.

She has not had a good childhood. When she lived with her father, he basically ignored her and did not help her with her schoolwork or give her rides to different places easily.

He moved and now sent her to me in a different state. She does not have many friends and has had to adjust to living with me and dealing with my parents. She is used to her dad and grandmother and has been brought up by them.

I feel bad because she has not had a life like her peers and friends with a stable family and good social life. She has had to struggle and really raise herself.

I am doing as much as I can now, but it is not enough and may be too late.

I constantly feel like crying when I see how she is doing. Its not how I envisioned her or my life.

I wish I could have given her a better life with stability and more happiness.

2007-10-28 03:21:23 · 10 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Family

his style is sorta gangsta.. he's 14.. ive been with him for 4 months

2007-10-28 03:19:59 · 9 answers · asked by F r A n * 2 in Singles & Dating

i am a person who is with my child hood friend,,,but we have even had many periodical break ups in the between...and knw too i am with her...will this end up possitively...or it will end up with another issue...will we be able to stay away from each other after being togetether all this while...im just not sure...

2007-10-28 03:17:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok this is my freshman year in college and this junior guy is talking to me since i entered, we see each other all the time and we started making out for the last two weeks but he doesn't say anything that he likes me, but he is very affectionate, do you think i should do something about that...like what should i say, im really starting to like him. : / Thanks a lot!

2007-10-28 03:14:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My syster in law wanted to be single. She has no affair with anyone. she is 35 now. what could be the reason?

2007-10-28 03:12:36 · 17 answers · asked by Nile 1 in Marriage & Divorce