My syster in law wanted to be single. She has no affair with anyone. she is 35 now. what could be the reason?
2007-10-28 03:12:36 · 17 answers · asked by Nile 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some people just don't feel the need to partner up with someone. They are satisfied with who they are, and what they are doing. Maybe she has goals in her life that she feels are best served if she is unencumbered with the needs of another person or persons. Maybe she just doesn't want to deal with the stress of living with another human being. If she is happy with herself and her life, then let her be.
2007-10-28 03:20:35 · answer #1 · answered by claudiacake 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Everyone doesn't want to live a life of misery. Most people are happy at first but it doesn't last for everyone. About 1/4 of the marriages are happy most of the time. Most of the rest of them are not happy or would like to get out of it. Your sister in law is a smart girl. She probably would rather be happy than trapped in a nightmare.
2007-10-28 10:33:36 · answer #2 · answered by Barbra 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It was a surprise to me, but not everyone wants to get married and have kids. They like their freedom and independence. I've always thought that everyone takes the same path... childhood, school, career/not, marriage, children... I pretty much chose that path maybe because that's what I believed you're supposed to do and because that's what I want. My husband has an aunt that never got married/ had kids and she really just likes her career and the relationships that she does have...she has her neices and nephews to forfill the feeling of needing kids.
2007-10-28 10:20:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ok, what's the problem? And why does it concern you? If she is happy this way, then let her be. She is 35, what makes you think she's had no affairs? She just may be a very private person. You're really into her business, huh!
2007-10-28 10:18:34 · answer #4 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I don't understand......reason for what? Is she doing something wrong? I'll be 43 years old next month and I prefer to be single also. Who wants a man to come around screwing around with my independence and spending my money? I sure don't! Leave your sister-in-law alone. It sounds like you might be a little jealous.
2007-10-28 10:32:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
There are really a million reasons. Everything from her wanting to be a nun to her being a lesbian or having some other sort of secret life. Chances are her priorities have to do with her job or something else and she doesn't feel like it is fair to start a relationship where she will not see her husband.
2007-10-28 10:18:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Ask her. How should we know? If you need to know that badly then stop being a sissy and ask her. You stated that she wants to be single. Leave her alone and mind your own affairs.
2007-10-28 10:27:41 · answer #7 · answered by Fergy 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Maybe from the look of marriages she's seen, she doesn't want any part of it. Maybe she's just happy being single. Maybe she thinks the whole institution of marriage is bankrupt. Who knows? Maybe you should ask her--and on second thought, maybe you shouldn't.
2007-10-28 10:20:25 · answer #8 · answered by grizzie 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
She likes being independant and has no personal desire for a long term relationship or marriage. There's nothing wrong with that. Marriage isn't right for everyone.
2007-10-28 10:16:33 · answer #9 · answered by some female 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like a sensible girl, whats wrong with that if shes happy?
2007-10-28 10:16:48 · answer #10 · answered by smaxsx1 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋