Ok this is my freshman year in college and this junior guy is talking to me since i entered, we see each other all the time and we started making out for the last two weeks but he doesn't say anything that he likes me, but he is very affectionate, do you think i should do something about that...like what should i say, im really starting to like him. : / Thanks a lot!
2007-10-28 03:14:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont have sex with him for a few weeks and see if he sticks around,then u would have got ur answer.
2007-10-28 03:25:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he wants to get laid. The question is, what do you want? If you're interested in a casual encounter, this guy will probably be willing to accomodate you; if you're looking for a more solid relationship, this guy has said nothing to make you think of him as a viable candidate. So, be clear on what you want in the equation so you'll know where you stand at all times. That way, you won't end up feeling like a "victim" later on. He's not talking...and that speaks volumes. Good luck.
2007-10-28 10:31:04 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you'd like to define what's happening between you. If he's being affectionate in public, and not pressuring you to sleep with him, just happy to be making out, he could be waiting to see if you're relationship material. This sounds a lot like how things started out for me with my husband. We were both in college, I was 19 and he was 25 (did a stint in the Navy, which is why he was older than the usual college student) and we had casual lunch dates and after a month, he finally asked me on a real date. We'd kiss and make out, and a month after that he introduced me to his family. He never ever pressured me for anything. We're still together after 14 years.
2007-10-28 10:27:05 · answer #3 · answered by ♛Qu€€n♛J€§§¡¢a♛™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's not a matter of whether he just wants to get laid, the question is: "Are you looking to get laid?"
Sounds like classic Jr.High stuff to me, instead of keeping yourself to do all this guess work...why don't you just ask him what exactly he's looking for.
Tell him you don't want to run to the alter with him or anything, but you would like to know what his intentions are. Then he'll answer you...and you can respond accordingly to that.
Got it?
You're in college...come on...THINK... :)
2007-10-28 10:18:10 · answer #4 · answered by Murphy's Law 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you making out with him if you don't know where and if you have a relationship with this guy.... I mean, wouldn't you want to know first before you make out? I would. It might get more serious, if I were you I'd find out where the two of you are going as far as relationship first before getting any more serious.
2007-10-28 10:22:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...if he's is making out with u...it means he likes u.
U mean to tell me that all a person has to do have a chance with u is to talk to u...and then make out with u? He doesn't have to DATE with u...GET TO KNOW u...and go slow...until he EARNS the right to kiss u?
Baby...slow down. Get to know a person before you make out with them.
To answer your question...he does want to get laid with u... and all the other young and pretty girls in school.
Back off a little bit. Get to know him better. Create memories and do things together. Be exclusive with him. If he can't be exclusive with u...
move on. Just don't give yourself away to just anybody so easily.
Make 'em EARN the right to be with u!
Let me know how it goes. Take care.
2007-10-28 10:55:22 · answer #6 · answered by joseph t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him work very hard for it and make no confessions of love. All the women I know who were successful with men were the ones who gave them a hard way to go and who made the man confess love, first.
2007-10-28 10:20:12 · answer #7 · answered by darkdiva 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A forced compliment is not worth having. I would not have sex with him for about 6 months, if he is still around, then yes he likes you, if he leaves or finds another girl then he didnt like you in the first place and you have your dignity and pride intact. good luck.
2007-10-28 10:20:20 · answer #8 · answered by raggyann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should have a talk 2 him tell him how you feel, he migh be shy and thinking the same as you he mght think you want 2 keep things cool......
he sounds keen on you.
but if h isnt you need to no now because it sounds like you falling 4 him and you dont want 2 get hurt!!!!
hope all goes well.............
2007-10-28 10:20:34 · answer #9 · answered by Sam T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't in 5th grade anymore. Does he actually have to say the words "I like you"? Can't you tell that he does by his actions?
Why would he make out with you if he didn't like you?
2007-10-28 10:18:24 · answer #10 · answered by WilmaF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋