Family & Relationships - 28 October 2007

2007-10-28 04:56:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've just started seeing a conservative Jew, I'm a episcopalian. I know his parents aren't crazy about it. is there anything I can do to make the situation a little less awkward>?

2007-10-28 04:52:02 · 22 answers · asked by skycat119 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay so we've met three times now. Originally met him off myspace. We talked for 5-6 weeks before meeting the first time.
Anyway, I went to him on Thursday night after we talked for like 4 hours. He only lives 8 miles from me. Now, before we met Thursday we did a lot of "sexual" talk. We are both adults and he was talking himself up like how long he could last and blah, blah.
Anyway, I went down on him Thursday night as a "warm up" and he did his thing and COULD NOT get it back up! We tried and tried but he told me he had taken Vicodin. Anyway, I could tell he felt stupid after talking himself up. I left and yeah I was a little disappointed but oh well I like the guy.
I hear nothing from him Friday and when I get online last night he didn't say a god damn word to me! NOTHING. That's not like him at all. He always talks to me. I didn't say anything to him either but wanted him to.

2007-10-28 04:51:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

They disagree on everything like the bridemaid dresses and everything else, they are stressing me out. What do I do?

2007-10-28 04:49:33 · 7 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Weddings

So I am going on a trip to Ecuador for 4 weeks. It's a college planned trip. I am a mother of one and I am 19. My son will be 3 at the time of the trip and I will be 20. My mom said to me that she thinks "I am going on a 4 week vacation and mothers don't do that stuff after they have a child. You don't think he will miss you." I do not think that this is considered a vacation I am going to volunteer and get expeirence from the outside world. I understand a mother has her duties but this is not like I am leaving him for a year. Or trying to live in india or something. Besides have you ever felt like there was a calling for you to go some where. That being there will teach you a lot about your self? That is how I feel. I also know that taking care of my self will also benifit my son. I am one of those people that are always looking to learn. And I am not planning on doing this every year. This will probably be the only time in a long time. Your opinion, thanks.

2007-10-28 04:49:25 · 29 answers · asked by Random 3 in Family

2007-10-28 04:47:57 · 6 answers · asked by SLAM-SLAM 1 in Singles & Dating

So I had this huge crush on this girl for the better part of a year. Thing is my confidence was horrible, I couldn't flirt, I couldn't just ask people out. It was little pathetic to say the least. Anyway my best friend knew I liked her and in his greatness tried to coach me and help me out. Anyway it failed, I still had a crush on her up to the day I started my first real relationship with this other girl. Anyway thats over and I'm done with her. But as a result I'm a much more confident person now. So I've started to flirt with her and I know any minute I could ask her out and she'd say yes. Here comes the twist though, my friend, the one who helped me deal with my feelings before, has developed a serious crush on her since I introduced the two of them.

No heres the thing, my friend, is, a bit of a manwhore... He dates girls without any real discernment he just likes sex too much. And this girl is a bit of a prude so them dating would be horrible. So how do I tell my friend whats up?

2007-10-28 04:46:51 · 5 answers · asked by Nicholas A 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a big group of just friends. It's fun to have them around, but other times I just like being with maybe two or three of them. Sometimes when I get together with only a few of them, the others find out and get sad or jealous. We're friends, but we can't always be together. :-/

Sometimes I wish there weren't so many of us.

What do you prefer...a few BFFS or a big group of friends?

2007-10-28 04:46:51 · 22 answers · asked by Smileyy :D 4 in Friends

The first one was at a fair, I never seen her. I was bumping into her family members and asking have you seen her? I never found her.
The second was I went to her freinds house to see her and something was wrong. Her friend told me she didn't want to be with me anymore. My girlfriend told me she wanted to try to be with a man instead.
The third one was at a amusement park. We was looking at a ride then walked off to go on others. She didn't want to, so she started to tell me she's fed up with me. I kept asking her why? She just kept saying she can't stand how Iam and she only been holding on. Woke up in tears.

2007-10-28 04:46:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The pain inside me, is painfull. I can’t take it anymore. I want to have someone to pour my words too. It is too painfull, the cut is so deep. I really want to end my life right now. Nobody loves me, nobody listen to my heart beats, nobody gets under my skin. I fell billions of tears, but , i am still visible. I want to fly to another place, start a new like, and see a the me. I don’t know, who am i , where am i lying. Where is my LOVE? Where is my HOPE? Where is my reason to LIVE? i am a hopless ugly girl, who wants me? Nobody~! I am stuck inside this feeling, nobody sees me.

2007-10-28 04:46:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok. Im involved in an online relationship with a guy who is living in the UK. Im living in the USA, but i really feel that i really love him. I have seen pictures, and Im almost positive he wouldn't lie to me. I've known him for 5 years now, and I'm not quite sure what I should do because I'm only a 15 year old girl and he's 19. What's your opinion on all of this?

2007-10-28 04:46:00 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do 2 girls and a guy have sex???

the guy only has one part for the girl 2 go into how does this happen???????

2007-10-28 04:45:55 · 4 answers · asked by I am CANADIAN!! 3 in Singles & Dating

Met a girl months ago & kept in contact even though she moved to another country
She had invited me on a trip but I couldn't go due to work
I later visited her & we became a bit closer but no chat about
our feelings
She contacted me &I invited her to visit me, she said she would, but that it's hard to find me at home (as I often head off travelling)
I invited her again & she said she would come once she gets
free time..she has a heavy study load
Next time I asked her if she could get some time off & she asked me for how long I will be around.
I told her I'd be around for a few mths & she said she has a vac'n coming up though she's thinking of visiting her parents but she then said 'we'll see'.
One more thing, she told me one time a few mths ago by chat that she was falling for me.

2007-10-28 04:43:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He argued with me vehemently about his inappropraite communications with a lady . He said many hurtful things to me, including ' you are a witch'. Did not tell me his friend was coming over for the weekend until next day when we were both leaving the house for work. They both came to pick me up after work and i was very civil with his friend, who i'm usually friendly with. When i offered his friend some snack he said he was full up since he had eaten chinese food,(with him i think). So i did not bother with dinner, and not feeling well as well, i went straight to bed. Usually i would wake up early and made breakfast for them, but i thought witches don't tend to their husband's guests so i stayed in bed till they left at 11.30am. Was this wrong? I was trying to be firm 'cos he does it to me too often. shouldn't i have been told before hand of a visitor?

2007-10-28 04:42:01 · 17 answers · asked by sweet-innocence 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok there is this guy i have a crush on, and yesterday i went up to him and asked "do you have a girlfriend" and he said "um...no" what do you think was going through his mind after i asked that and after i walked away?

2007-10-28 04:41:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-28 04:41:29 · 12 answers · asked by Thiza 1 in Singles & Dating

Yeah, i'm a begginer so can you answer with simple suggestions, oh and yeah im 15 so not too dirty. =) thanx

2007-10-28 04:40:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to go to a boarding school that offers higher education than your average high school, a long with getting a new experience away from home. It just seems like a good idea for me.
How do I tell my parents this? They are not going to agree because they don't want to see me leave for a long period of time as I am only 15.
How do I go about telling them this?
Please help!

2007-10-28 04:40:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hiya,
I was wondering if anyone can help me, I'm not sure what to do.

One of my primary school teachers died last week, she was only 38. She was an amazing teacher, and did a lot to help me. I was really upset so I wrote down all the things I wished I could have told her before she died in a letter.

I was going to send this letter to her mum to show how much her daughter meant to me, and what a lovely person she was, but now I don't know whether to or not.

Do you think I should?

Thank you in advance. xxx

2007-10-28 04:39:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He's a year older than me. We knew each other two years ago because our sisters were best friends and now that we go to the same school I see him 1-3 times a day. Pretty much everytime we say hi to each other. At homecoming we said hi like twice and then he put his arm around me and talked briefly. Than he requested me on facebook, even though I only have two friends which means he looked my name up or he knew one of my friends and saw me on her page? I'm not sure. Than again sometimes we don't say hi skgjdfkgfd; but I think he's "interested". I don't want to make a move, I want him to what do you think I should do?

2007-10-28 04:38:54 · 5 answers · asked by arwww x p 1 in Singles & Dating

He's incredibley cute, funny and a really dead on guy but every single girl he's gone out with is pretty, popular and a complete and utter *****! They all wear four tons of make-up and fake tan and wear skirts that don't even cover their ****! But I'm not like that! He just thinks of me as a friend (i got someone to ask for me). I don't wear makeup (apart of lippy) and i'm naturally tan so i dont need fake tan. My skirt is short but not super micro mini. And he isn't bothered at all! As long as their pretty and popular. Someone please help me!

2007-10-28 04:37:51 · 22 answers · asked by SummerAfterAll 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-28 04:37:49 · 2 answers · asked by MJ 6 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is very beautiful. And I found that while being with her That other females give her dirty looks and also that there is more sex eyes going towards me than ever before........ whats the deal with it.... I know 90% of its haters... but If I would have known this 10 years ago......... it would have wonderful........................... Females whats the deal with this..... My girlfriend isn't self conscious and pretty much brushes it off so I cant complain..........Dudes Get a hot girlfriend and others will your p#$^* count will be sky high

2007-10-28 04:35:19 · 11 answers · asked by Ollie Williams 2 in Singles & Dating

I love massages. Probably more than the average person esp. b/c I got into a car accident a few years ago and I am always at the computer, so I have a lot of pressure points that need work.
I have a male friend who offered to massage me. Initially, I declined b/c I know he likes me, but with the cost of massage therapy being so high, I am very tempted to take him on his offer.
How do I go about getting the massage but clearly explaining to him that that is all I want? We had met through an online dating service about five months ago and had gone out a few times, but I am not attracted to him and he should realize that by now, I am not interested in him other than being a friend (he tried to kiss me once, but I didn't respond. Still, we continue to talk).

Should I go ahead and take him on his offer? Mind you, an hour massage is around $65. Someone told me that I would probably need at least two per month.

2007-10-28 04:35:07 · 4 answers · asked by corsettesandkimonos 3 in Friends

2007-10-28 04:34:32 · 13 answers · asked by Bats 5 in Weddings

My wife asked me to have sex with her sister, so I did. After, my wife has become more sexual towards me then ever in our marriage. She told me that having me have sex with her sister turns her on big time. My wife is a very good looking gal, her sister is an average type woman, a bit overweight and no beauty queen. She is a very nice woman and she said she really enjoyed the sex and was looking forward to it again. My wife wants me to see her sister again so she can get her jollies on this strange situation. Am I crazy for going along with this?" I must say that the sex with my wife is now the best ever.

2007-10-28 04:32:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Help me. Im 13 and she walked over o me and asked me to dance for a minute
i really like her. Her friends said i should ask her out but she said i didn't have to
i remained quiet. what should i do. She is always with her friends and iget shy. what should i do. I can't stop thinking bout her.

2007-10-28 04:32:28 · 5 answers · asked by Vinod P 1 in Singles & Dating

i just think is not made for me. people always hurt my feelings, and i never learn my lesson...i consider myself as a mature and attractiive woman, but i always give the best on me, i dont know why i always got hurt,,,

2007-10-28 04:29:19 · 6 answers · asked by walgreenos0519 1 in Singles & Dating

help!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-10-28 04:28:49 · 28 answers · asked by Warrior 5 in Singles & Dating

Your sitting at your computer when out of the corner of your eye you see something scurrying across the floor. You jump out of your chair and are about to stomp the little bug when you notice it is your ex, only they are really tiny. What would you do??

2007-10-28 04:27:56 · 28 answers · asked by ripstang3000 3 in Marriage & Divorce