i just think is not made for me. people always hurt my feelings, and i never learn my lesson...i consider myself as a mature and attractiive woman, but i always give the best on me, i dont know why i always got hurt,,,
2007-10-28 04:29:19 · 6 answers · asked by walgreenos0519 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Anything worth having is worth undertaking the quest thereof, no matter how arduous.
No one finds the Grail at the pawn shop.
2007-10-28 04:47:44 · answer #1 · answered by Chipmaker Authentic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand where you're coming from. I have the same problem. Maybe, if you are like me, it's because we try too hard and give way too much to the ones we do care about and it makes us look needed or clingy or both. I'm trying to curb that. It always seems like we want the one we can't have. And the one's that do want us, we just don't care to have. Life is already hard and sometimes we make it so much more harder. So much drama. Love is out there for us. Maybe if we just not jump into something head first or in our case heart first we'll end up on top. I feel for you. I too have been hurt, terribly, even just recently. I just scratch my head and ask the same question...Why can't I learn from my mistakes and stop doing this? I wish you the very best. We can't give up! We must pick ourselves up, be a little more cautious and someday love will come into our lives. Take care.
2007-10-28 04:41:45 · answer #2 · answered by Fuzzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the south we have a saying for your situation. "maybe you are fishing in the wrong pond" You are looking in the wrong places and picking the wrong guys. Remember people are just rude so don't let some insensitive a**hole hurt you. just give the best you can and you will find someone to love you.
2007-10-28 04:39:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Universe will be patient with you.
You will be presented with the chance to learn this over a thousand lives if you require it.
You dont find love..... it finds you.
Stop seeking it - make your own life warm and happy.
Only then will you stumble over it.
2007-10-28 05:44:31 · answer #4 · answered by Alexander Shannon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think in many respects we all find it difficult to find true love, partly due to human nature and pre-concieved notions about love,and also we use the wrong type of bait that attracts the wrong kind of fish
or like me I find scorpions
2007-10-28 04:46:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay its like this....maybe u havent find the right boi for u juss yet. It takes time and patience and u will kno when the right one comes ur way. Trust me juss wait.
2007-10-28 04:41:41 · answer #6 · answered by newyorkshorty_9595 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋