Okay so we've met three times now. Originally met him off myspace. We talked for 5-6 weeks before meeting the first time.
Anyway, I went to him on Thursday night after we talked for like 4 hours. He only lives 8 miles from me. Now, before we met Thursday we did a lot of "sexual" talk. We are both adults and he was talking himself up like how long he could last and blah, blah.
Anyway, I went down on him Thursday night as a "warm up" and he did his thing and COULD NOT get it back up! We tried and tried but he told me he had taken Vicodin. Anyway, I could tell he felt stupid after talking himself up. I left and yeah I was a little disappointed but oh well I like the guy.
I hear nothing from him Friday and when I get online last night he didn't say a god damn word to me! NOTHING. That's not like him at all. He always talks to me. I didn't say anything to him either but wanted him to.
2007-10-28 04:51:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dude, this guy is Bi Polar I think.
Did he feel like I'd reject him last night and is that why he didn't say "hi" to me?
We seemed close and like friends and it sure wasn't me who had a problem Thursday it was him.
2007-10-28 04:55:13 · update #1
No it wasn't a booty call.....we've met before.....
2007-10-28 05:01:30 · update #2
The first time we met was after 6 weeks talking. We met and it went good...hand holding, kissing, etc...
Second time we met he was sick and it didn't go so great....
Yes all three times involved making out etc.....and we had talked about having sex and it's not like either one of us wants to jump into something heavy but I thought we were at least friends and I was thinking he'd say hi last night when I was online......NO I don't expect a relationship....just wondering what he's thinking....I don't think he should feel bad about the other night and NO I wasn't mean or rude to him about not being able to get it up again....not at all in fact we both kind of laughed it off....
2007-10-28 05:43:09 · update #3
Sorry, did you say someting or not? I didn't understand if you did... Oh well..
You can't expect it to "just stand up"... That's how I feel about that...
And, if you want to talk to him, DO IT; I "hate" not hate, as in HATE, but hate as in dislike when girls expect me to do EVERYTHING... If she can't contact me then she is uptight about something and I don't need that... I want secure girls that know who they are and have a solid "inner-game" foundation...
Contact him or lose him... It's not hard..
I've had a similar experience...
I met a girl in a club and I liked her, but she was a little passive compared to my "usual type". I accepted her for it and contacted her over 1 weeks period of time, then I slept with her and I accidentally blew my load fast ^^. Oh well... I got it back up and then we tried again, but it was "weak" so to speak. Then she "got pissed off", but the problem wasn't with me at all, I was laughing about it...
She didn't excite me with her negative attitude and I mentally didn't want her anymore. May have happened here. I know it's in a girls nature to be passive and whatnot, but if I sense a girl just tries... I go for her...
I may be speaking from a "gets a lot of women" point of view and it's true... But it's really hard to find the "golden nuggets" among women because many of them are insecure... It seems like you might be too.. just a thought
2007-10-28 05:15:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should he talk to you? You're the "easy" chick he met offline that came over for one night of sex and now he'll never talk to you again. Get a spine, find some dignity and self-respect. You answered a booty call, why do you expect that to turn into a relationship?
2007-10-28 11:56:46 · answer #2 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You say you have met before, but was there sex involved that time? I think he used you as a booty call, at least it seems that way to me.
2007-10-28 12:35:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋