I have a big group of just friends. It's fun to have them around, but other times I just like being with maybe two or three of them. Sometimes when I get together with only a few of them, the others find out and get sad or jealous. We're friends, but we can't always be together. :-/
Sometimes I wish there weren't so many of us.
What do you prefer...a few BFFS or a big group of friends?
2007-10-28 04:46:51 · 22 answers · asked by Smileyy :D 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I believe that if a person manages to have one truly sincere, trusted best friend in his/her life, that person is very lucky.
2007-10-28 04:49:53 · answer #1 · answered by laurel g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always been content with just a small group of friends. My hubby is my bestfriend. It just seems more personal and I can be closer to just a few rather than 100. I'm a shy person anyways so having to deal with alot of people in general just doesn't sound appealing.
Plus it sounds rather time-consuming. I'm a people pleaser type of person. I think I'd wear myself thin if I had to worry about a huge group of friends.
Also it's very difficult to find "true" friends. You know, the one's that will be there through thick and thin, those who don't go chasing drama and those who you just have an inner connection with. Those are the lifelong friends that will always be there.
2007-10-28 04:56:14 · answer #2 · answered by BeLLa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good the have a few close friends and to have a large group of friends. In my experience my close friends sometimes change so I find others among my friends.
2007-10-28 04:51:41 · answer #3 · answered by ashleysperiod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would rather be close like BFFs with a small group of like 2 or 3 then be friends with a huge group.
2007-10-28 04:50:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A small group of close friends like I have now. I'm talking the kind of friends that will drop everything to show up at your grandfathers funeral a 4 hour drive from their house.
2007-10-29 02:35:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally i like to hand out in the bigger groups and have better friends with in the group. People seem to not get hurt if your hanging out with them but with other people. Hope i was a help
2007-10-28 04:50:27 · answer #6 · answered by kklm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a large circle of friends but in this large circle is a smaller circle of closer friends. In the smaller circle of closer friends is two best friends. As for the ones who get jealous or sad, that's life...you can't please everyone all the time so don't even try or you'll be miserable and no one will be pleased.
2007-10-28 04:52:33 · answer #7 · answered by BGBear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Small group is best
2007-10-28 04:49:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No doubt about it - small group of close friends - I can always count on them and they are always there for me.
2007-10-28 04:50:22 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A group of friends is fine. My husband is my best friend.
2007-10-28 04:49:19 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i prefer to have lots of friends but make sure there is a special few, 2 or 3. that you can really talk to and connect with.
these are the keepers
2007-10-28 04:51:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋