Family & Relationships - 28 October 2007

My big day is in 7 mth. A few mths ago,the planning started (dress shop.,looking at flowers,cakes,favors etc. When sending e-mails to my 3 BMaids and my MOH,my MOH NEVER replied. We chatted wedd stuff a bit in person, nothing big(she only lives 20 min away). When the shopping started, she came once, other than that she was busy so a bridesmaid came with me. About 1mth ago she called me crying, breaking up with her bf, almost 100% sure that she would be moving 2000 miles for a fresh start. I was sad she would miss all my wedding stuff, only showing up days before the big day. Finally she told me it would be best I ask one of the other girls to be MOH, they would be closer and more helpfull. After asking 20 times if she was sure this wouldn't cause problems between anyone (her saying no) I agreed. NOW this week she admitted she is a little pissed I asked a BM to be my MOH. Saying she only said it cause she thought its what I wanted to hear, that I sounded pissed??

2007-10-28 07:02:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Okay, so she only looks in her early thirties, she`s excellent for her age - but would it be wrong for her to go out with him do ya think?

2007-10-28 07:01:48 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont want it to just say "save the date! 06/28/08 Merry Christmas!" what would be a good way to incorporate it all?

2007-10-28 07:01:31 · 8 answers · asked by flutterflie04 5 in Weddings

Please don't say "offer to clean my house" or buy me diamonds, etc. I'm looking for serious responses. We all have different buttons...good ones and bad ones. I'm looking for good buttons to push that will help turn a lady on. Not to play games, but to apply my energies in ways that will be appreciated. Some guys know how to drive the women crazy with desire. How do they do it? They don't all have six-pack abs and look like Brad Pitt (or whatever hunkster floats your boat). What are the little things they say or do...Or don't do...that really works. There is no magic formula for every woman, but I'm just looking for a diversity of opinion and ideas as to what works for YOU (or have seen work for others). Thanks!

2007-10-28 06:59:40 · 8 answers · asked by John S. 5 in Singles & Dating

Please Help -
But BE SERIOUS.

2007-10-28 06:59:06 · 5 answers · asked by Sarah ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend used to go to strip clubs and it was a big deal because he used to lie about going and i caught him on several occasions; if he had told me straight out i dont think i would've been as offended as i was. In the long run though i think it hurt my self esteem, and i know just because guys go to strip clubs doesnt mean things aren't going well sexually with us but it still left me with feeling not good enough. I talked to guy friends about it and every single one said they wouldnt go if they had a girlfriend and that if he had me then why would he want to go? He's since stopped going, or as far as i know he has, but i still cant help but feel hurt by the whole thing and i think that its now hurting our sex life more than ever, im not as open sexually with him as i have been with guys in the past and stuff like that. What should i do?

2007-10-28 06:57:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

example going like commitment, yes please, respect, yes make it double, obedience to your husband ? Heck no. A husband that lais down his life for his family ? Of course I expect that. Do those so called "modern marriages" work out better than the traditional ones ?

2007-10-28 06:57:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been homeschooled almost all my life... I've been to school a couple times but that's it. I take classes at a nearby community college, but it's only once a week and nobody seems to care that I exist there.
I take Tae Kwon Do, and that's where I met my only ex-boyfriend. I'm single now obviously, but don't know where to meet any guys. I haven't gotten my license yet so i can't really drive anywhere...I think I'm stuck because I don't want to go with the online dating idea.
Of course, I might be able to contact some people at the highschool I went to for almost a sememster, and see if anything happens...

2007-10-28 06:57:17 · 12 answers · asked by KammyTish15 2 in Singles & Dating

yesterday was my first date with this guy,, we seemed to really hit it off but he hasn't called me since i miss him hes my boo SHOULD I CALL HIM?

2007-10-28 06:57:12 · 29 answers · asked by Hot Sauce 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay I have a question for men what is the point of you telling your girlfriend that you would like her opinion and go on telling her that her opinion will be considerd if that is not true you only listen you her opinion but do not realy consider what she has to say or what her opinion is what is the point of us giving you our opinion if you do not either consider or coment it? now be honest is it only so we will not say anything or do you realy consider it? p.s sorry for any miss-spell's.

2007-10-28 06:54:31 · 5 answers · asked by liza200471473 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend loves me a lot but his indifferent attitude towards me hurts me a lot. sometimes he purposely says things that offend me. what do i do to make him realise that it hurts? should i behave nicely without complaining so that someday he realises that he is treating me wrong? or should i behave the same way he does to let him know how it feels? is there any other way? please help.

2007-10-28 06:53:48 · 26 answers · asked by Hannah M 1 in Singles & Dating

i had really bad experience with a bus driver when i was really young. this somehow made me become little afraid of guys outside my family throughout my life. i don't feel comfortable wearing shorts because it associates with my past. when i see a guy looking at me or walking by me, i immediately look down. now this just becomes a habit. i never had a boyfriend or even a guy friend until last year when i was a freshman in college. i know this is pathetic. i try to move on, but somehow i keep remembering my past.

i really like this really nice guy, and we are good friends. but at the same time, i still feel uncomfortable being close to him. he just asked me out...i said i would think about it. i am sorta afraid of going into a relationship with a guy and getting betrayed. how do i feel more comfortable with him?

2007-10-28 06:52:16 · 1 answers · asked by urox555 2 in Singles & Dating

My problem is here in Southern California.
My computer changed the time to fall back one hour which caused him time conflict with his church hours.

My problem is do we change to fall back one hour now or the next weekend. My father told me that on the radio the Congress changed the saving time for the next week.

Can anyone give me a direct web site address addressing these issues?
Oh by the way, you got to see "Dan in the Life" because it is a funny movie.

2007-10-28 06:51:35 · 1 answers · asked by SweetBrunette 5 in Singles & Dating

Ive talked to him a couple of times. Now, i dont see him at all so i just IM him because i dont have his cell#. he responds with short answers and if i ask a question that requires him to elaborate or give opinion he signs off this happened once. when he sees me, which is very rare, he says hi, most of the time he says it first. he doesnt talk much with anyone although he does have alot of friends,he is reserved kinda of person. Most of his friends(which i dont know personally) ive heard refer to me as HIS girlfriend. but we arent together. i once heard a convo of him and his friend, and, his friend saw me and said theres ur girlfriend and he said shes not me girlfriend and his friend said you talk so much abt her i thought you two were dating.to which he said i was cute and funny.his friend said:are you gonna ask her out? HIM: i dunno.his friend suggested inviting me to a party to talk with me more and he said he felt silly inviting me since we only talk on IM most of the time.

2007-10-28 06:47:12 · 8 answers · asked by 101 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-28 06:46:32 · 5 answers · asked by lost1 1 in Friends

on friday i had broken up my relation with my friend(male) and since then we dont talk or even send mesgs. even though when i connect after 10 mins he is online,,, we dont chat he is just online,,,i do not know why he is doing that,,,?

2007-10-28 06:45:07 · 4 answers · asked by me87 3 in Friends

I don't want a traditional church ceremony with the bridesmaids, best man, or maid of honor. What should I do and what are the best locations for this type of wedding?

2007-10-28 06:44:47 · 11 answers · asked by martica 1 in Weddings

2007-10-28 06:43:00 · 5 answers · asked by ANDREA M 1 in Singles & Dating

i need to divorce them for reasons unexplanable... please tell me where i can find paperrs so i can divorce myself fro,m my parents.

2007-10-28 06:41:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

theres this girls and we both realy like each other . we fool around alot and be more than freindly at times . ive got some things happening in my life that mite see her get hurt later on in a relaton ship so i dont no wether to go out with her or not

2007-10-28 06:37:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

At the moment she doesnt talk to me, Although i told her that i was sorry!!
I feel bad, but ......I don't know. Please help.
By the way i said sorry over 3 times and i called her like 3 times!!!

2007-10-28 06:31:59 · 17 answers · asked by whatever_ 3 in Friends

when were online, my gf every 5 ******* seconds says "are you going to talk?" or "I guess not, bye im goin since you won't talk"....

how can I say stop asking? i already have 10 ******* times and its so ANNOYING, yes im a big "computer geek" and i hang out with her, but when im online its like LEAVE ME ALOOOOOONE....

then theres the "i suck at english and im american"...she can't spell or speak grammar correctly, yes i cant atm because im typing fast and i got a lot on my mind...so yah wtf do i do >_>...she can't SPELL!

DON'T SAY LIKE/LOVE HER FOR WHO SHE IS, ITS SO ******* IRRITATING, LIKE THESE CAPS.

2007-10-28 06:31:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A manager has 12 subordinates and is about to get a wedding party. What is the wedding invitation etiquette ? Does he have to follow "invite them all or none" etiquette ? or Does he have the right to choose which one of those 12 he would like to invite? - which may mean (or can be read as ) favoritism. The ones invited will feel "above" the ones not invited and the ones not invited will feel "rejected", "below", "outcast" etc

I personally think that he must follow invite them all or none. What do you think?

btw, the manager invited ALL the 11 subordinates (1 is a woman and was not invited - which is correct) to his bachelor party.

2007-10-28 06:31:24 · 4 answers · asked by Young 3 in Weddings

My friend is madly in love with this girl. And i dont know how to help him anymore. I always try and try to help him talk to the girl and help him ask her out. It doesnt work at all.
He cant make eye contact with her because he gets nervous.
I tell him to make an excuse to talk to her but...
He cant talk in front of her because he gets all red and nervous.
He even tries to avoid her sometimes.
Please help me help him!?
Any advice i can tell him?

2007-10-28 06:22:21 · 2 answers · asked by little one 2 in Singles & Dating

skipping a day. my qustion is is going back thursday waiting to long?

2007-10-28 06:14:59 · 11 answers · asked by donielle 7 in Singles & Dating

i dated this girl i knew for about a year and a half, but then we broke up and went our seprate ways about a year ago, but everyday since then i cant stop thinking about her. not a day goes by that i dont think about her. even though i've thought about her for a year anyway, here for the past couple of days, i have had dreams about her and thinkin of her but not having her is putting me though hell. so my queation is:

if i have a friend of mine that this girl doesnt know deliver flowers to her with my number on a card (she doesnt know my number), and when she calls, i will have a romantic message to her as my voicemail that says how i like her and if she feels the same way, to leave a message. is that too romantic, or will it not work, or what?

2007-10-28 06:14:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

About walking in other peoples shoes?

2007-10-28 06:12:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

& My friend told him that i fancied him & he said orite then, but he looks at me in that certain way as if he fancies me too.. how can i find out if he fancies me? I'm really in love wiv him.. please help !

2007-10-28 06:10:10 · 11 answers · asked by Sarah ♥ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, theres this girl. the typical story. We're friends, we hang out on occasion. I like her, and I thought she liked me, but she stops talking to me every now and then. Like we went out once, then she stopped talking to me for a while, said her phone broke. then we started talking again and then she stopped, probably will say something is wrong with her phone. should i just give up on her? or keep trying?

2007-10-28 06:04:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i broke up and I thought i was over him, but suddenly he decides to come back into my life and now he always picks fights with me and if we want to hang out with common friends he tells me that it would be awkward, but he was the one who started to talk to me again. How do I get over this boy and what should I say to him?

2007-10-28 06:04:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating