is this a good way to get her back??

Question

i dated this girl i knew for about a year and a half, but then we broke up and went our seprate ways about a year ago, but everyday since then i cant stop thinking about her. not a day goes by that i dont think about her. even though i've thought about her for a year anyway, here for the past couple of days, i have had dreams about her and thinkin of her but not having her is putting me though hell. so my queation is:

if i have a friend of mine that this girl doesnt know deliver flowers to her with my number on a card (she doesnt know my number), and when she calls, i will have a romantic message to her as my voicemail that says how i like her and if she feels the same way, to leave a message. is that too romantic, or will it not work, or what?

we broke up, cuz she had a party at her house in the middle of nowhere and we ended up have a threesome in her front yard behind some trees with one of her fat friends and things got weird after that. her friends didnt like me, cuz i smoked weed and didnt look that good cuz i was over weight, and her dad didnt like me, cuz after me and her haved sex at the party, i jumped in my camero and sped off to clear my head about what just happened and i crashed into a guard rail at the end of the road. but after we broke up, i quit all drugs and started working out and taking care of myself. we saw eachother a few times since then and she tells me how good i look and all that, but i acted like i wasnt interested. and i know her friends like me, because i went to homecoming with one, dated one, and almost dated another, but that fell apart cuz she could tell i liked cassie (thats the girl). so i guess the ground work is ready, i just have to make my move, but i'm asking if this is a good one?

Answer 1

First, you can do that. Girls love it when they are made to feel special.

Second, you have to introduce yourself in the message for her to know you and for you to know if she feels the same way.

Third, u deserve to be happy. if you won't do it u will forever wonder if things have worked out for both of you if you had just sent the flowers.

Answer 2

The first answer is great. Yes I think your method is terrific. At least you will find out once and for all. Cleaning up your act....thumbs up for that....good for you. Well for a year you have wondered if you had a chance....take the step and see if she cares enough to leave a message. If she doesn't leave a message, try it one more time after she has time to think about it. Space it apart by about 2 weeks. If it isn't good news then let it go and get on with your life, close that chapter.

Answer 3

my suggestion is that as much as some girls love flowers and candy or whatever, you should gain her trust, because it sounds like you lost it to her, so gain her trust become her friend and try to make you move and find out if she feels the same way about you.