when were online, my gf every 5 ******* seconds says "are you going to talk?" or "I guess not, bye im goin since you won't talk"....
how can I say stop asking? i already have 10 ******* times and its so ANNOYING, yes im a big "computer geek" and i hang out with her, but when im online its like LEAVE ME ALOOOOOONE....
then theres the "i suck at english and im american"...she can't spell or speak grammar correctly, yes i cant atm because im typing fast and i got a lot on my mind...so yah wtf do i do >_>...she can't SPELL!
DON'T SAY LIKE/LOVE HER FOR WHO SHE IS, ITS SO ******* IRRITATING, LIKE THESE CAPS.
2007-10-28 06:31:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it sounds like you are both annoyed at each other. maybe there is more going on then meets the eye.
either talk it out and see what is the problem or leave each other for awhile and see if you miss each other at all.
i know that the way you wrote this questions is in total annoyance and if you wrote or spoke to me coming in with this attitude i'd give you the boot.
work it out or walk. why be miserable?
2007-10-28 06:39:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I hate when people talk like that online! It's extremely annoying! If you've already asked her, then chances are asking her again won't get through to her. If you're talking through an instant messaging service, tell her it's annoying. Then if she keeps it up, say that you have the power to block her. If she keeps it up, block her until you're ready to talk to her again. Other than that I don't think there's much you can do.
I don't really know what else you can do. It sounds like she needs to get over the fact that you're doing other things to do and don't feel like responding to her every second.
2007-10-28 13:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by Megan09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her in person and tell her that when you're online, it's like your own time and that you're in your own world and you don't like distractions, so you would hope that she respects this and doesn't pester you anymore. If she still bugs you online, maybe you guys aren't the perfect couple and would be happier out of this relationship if she won't listen to you. But whatever you do, don't be mean to her!!! Good luck!!!!!!
2007-10-28 13:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
calm down 4 gods sake! sounds like she really likes 2 talk 2 you but she needs to gove you a bit of space. the answer is simple; ignore her. it sounds really awful but she has to learn. its a bit like a little kid, when theyre being naughty they're looking for attention so you ignore them right. when she first asks if your gonna talk say i will do just not all the bloody time. the when she asks you again ignore her and shell learn you dont like it. then if she says im going sicne your not talking just say "ok bye" good luck.
2007-10-28 13:38:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her you need some time to yourself and that doing what ever you do on the internet is important to you and takes up your full concentration, if you can try and involve her somehow . She needs to realise that couples like doing different things and going online is one of your things, she needs to get off your f***ing case and go find something to do herself other than whining at you eh.
2007-10-28 13:43:45 · answer #5 · answered by some guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Block her(if u dun wanna fight wif her)....
and she wont know u were online...mmm...unless she knows u too well....
but honestly, the way you put it- she seems kinda annoying...
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if she says ''bye im goin since you won't talk'',etc...
then u should say bye too cause it obvious u dun wanna talk 2 her......(do tis only if u wanna end up arguing and breaking up wif her)
2007-10-28 13:43:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really that dumb . Judging people by such dumb garbage. I think your the moron cause of all the cussing . Let he who JUDGES be JUDGED . If spending time on computor is more important than saving your relationship then TELL HER so she can go find a real MAN
2007-10-28 13:38:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be invisible when you are online and don't want to chat.
Tell you are multi-tasking and busy, but willing to chat for awhile.
Is it the spelling or is it computer talk that bugs you?
Why are you with her if you don't want to talk to her?
2007-10-28 13:37:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol hahh abut yeah then ask her questions like hows here dat wut shes interested about yr plans for next week or something and about that spelling help her out but just bring a topic up it will help be random or something n proably she will stop whit dat "are you going to talk?" or "I guess not, bye im goin since you won't talk
2007-10-28 13:36:54 · answer #9 · answered by stephanie h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her about it and tell her what it is that's bugging you. But talk to her IN PERSON. Not online or anything. I be nice about it.
2007-10-28 13:36:59 · answer #10 · answered by kitn225 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋