He says I am his best friend but I am scared that we will get too close and I will hurt him. I trying to get in to med school and I do not want any distraction. I really like him but I just not sure. He is 22 and I 21. I think we are very young. He wants to be a pastor. I want to be a doctor. Our careers are different. Any advice?
2007-10-28 05:20:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Absolutely tell him!
Sit down and tell him what you have said here. Lay it all out on the table and see where it goes from there.
I think it's great that you are taking the time to consider your future and recognizing you don't want to rush into anything.
Good luck!
2007-10-28 05:26:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have some very valid reasons to not want a committed relationship at this time. You told us why; now tell him. When you're giving "bad" news, use the Sandwich method. Tell him something good about your relationship first. Then tell him why you're not ready for a committment. Then tell him something good, such as how you treasure his friendship and how you might be ready to move to a new level later on.
2007-10-28 12:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactly what you have written here. It's clear and concise and straight to the point.
2007-10-28 12:45:38 · answer #3 · answered by Scorpio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋