Family & Relationships - 26 October 2007

2007-10-26 05:09:40 · 31 answers · asked by angel168_kc 1 in Singles & Dating

Do u like it when girls have it shave/waxed down there or does it matter?

2007-10-26 05:09:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So after hs, I started treating women like objects and I didn't really care about any of them. I have my reasons. Finally a good girl comes my way, someone I could really see myself caring about, after we started hanging out she started dating her X again! I know I can treat her better than he can and I want her really bad. Is there anything I can do to show her that without ruining our friendship? Is there anything I can do besides wait for them to break up again?

2007-10-26 05:05:41 · 6 answers · asked by Nate 6 in Singles & Dating

unforgivable.I am madly in love with my husband.He has never showed any signs of violence but the other day he shot and killed my 8 year old dog for kiling his chicken..How do I ever forgive him???????

2007-10-26 05:02:21 · 26 answers · asked by gin2634 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, both of my parents are retired and living on fixed incomes. Their not rich but their far from broke. I recently received a $300 dollar gift voucher from work that can be used at 3 specific stores. I can't decide on whether to purchase a PS3 using the voucher or if I should take both of my parents shopping for items they might want instead - what would you do?

2007-10-26 04:57:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

explain in detail

How would you like to be seduced

thanks in advance

2007-10-26 04:55:36 · 17 answers · asked by Noneofyabusiness 4 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating separated man for 7 mths. He doesn't live w/ his wife but he still hasn't filed for divorce & wants to file jointly & not "make it messy", so he's letting her call all the shots. She doesn't want divorce & always tells him things that she/ they have to do b4 she'll agree to file & drags her feet & he lets her.

I finally got tired of waiting for her to agree to file & felt guilty for being w/ him while they're still married, so I broke things off w/ him last night for good until he's divorced. Today he forwarded me an email from her that she wrote this morning, saying that she did one of the things she'd said needed to be done b4 they file. This is the 1st time she's ever taken any initiative towards divorce & the 1st time he's ever shown me email from her.

I find the timing very coincidental/ suspicious. Could he have fabricated/ modified email? Did he call her after I broke up w/ him & say "get a move on it" & she finally did? What do you think this means?

2007-10-26 04:53:26 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been together since 2004 and we have a 2 year old. I work as well as he does...though I do not make the same amount. Both our checks go into a joint checking and then he pulls $x,000 per month into a savings acct to which he refuses to include my name. He also will not put my name on all the credit cards. I have never stolen any money from him and I have to ask to even spend money for a copay to the doctor.
I don't feel like this is normal. He threatens me with divorce/seperation like every other week. I cook,clean, work, do everything. He never lifts a finger or helps me with anything.
I feel oppressed. If it makes a difference in the answer- he is from India and I am a white American. Maybe thats part of the reason? Maybe if I was an Indian wife I would be treated equally? I feel so depressed and miserable. If it wasn't for my son....I don't know what I would have done by now
Please help.

2007-10-26 04:51:21 · 24 answers · asked by Jersey Mom 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-26 04:50:00 · 20 answers · asked by victoria v 1 in Singles & Dating

I had this dog befor I was married. She like my dog when we were dating, we married and last year and had a child. She now says she does not like his drooling and shedding. I got him shaved and now keep him outside. He use to be an inside dog for the last 7 years. She does not like him and wants to get rid of him.What should I do???

2007-10-26 04:49:48 · 39 answers · asked by RealityCheck 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-26 04:48:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wfe and I have been having problems for 1.5 years. We are legally seperated but are still living together for financial reasons. She wants us to work things out and get back together. We have an 11 month old daughter. I don't like the thought of my daughter not having a real family. I don't think I love my wife anymore and I am not happy in my marriage. We haven't had sex since June and I am not really interested in her that way anymore. I am so confused about what to do. Should I just get out of this marriage even though it will hurt my daughter? Don't I have the right to be happy? I am just curious about what people think.

2007-10-26 04:44:37 · 83 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay I have been with my spouse for 15 years and for some time now we have been arguing like every day and a lot of time it is cause of our 15 year old . She doesn't do anything wrong she is always with me , she helps around the house, helps with her younger siblings. The poor girl doesn't get out much at all either cause of my spouse. All she does is talk on the cell with friends and is on the computer when she is not helping me out around the home, but he'll be all over asking who she is on the phone or he will be looking over her shoulder to see what she is doing on the computer and grilling her.The thing is he thinks she is always up to no good.. He always has he's head in the gutter thinking bad. That is because we have 2 more girls that are 6 and 7 and he even comes out saying stupid things.. He's head is so corrupted that I don't know what more to do . Is this normal ? I can not recall my father being like this with me.. & my daughter is more behave then I was growing up..

2007-10-26 04:44:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

because I have a friend and he seems kind of moody with me asking me other questions thatI don't even know and I really want you to help me you all... please?

2007-10-26 04:43:46 · 10 answers · asked by Coleen H 2 in Friends

Do you get along together? My mother and I do, but her mother and her do not. Just wondering about others out there.

2007-10-26 04:43:41 · 74 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My mil has been nice to me and there were times she has been very evil. Why do they play these back and forth games? How come they can just be only one way without being ugly?

2007-10-26 04:41:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

please help,i have heard that many marriages end beacause of this.any advice will be greatly appreciated thank you!

2007-10-26 04:38:41 · 36 answers · asked by amy m 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance would prefer cash gifts instead of a toaster.....is it rude if we don't register in a store. His explanation is that we can get what we want with the money we get.

2007-10-26 04:37:44 · 31 answers · asked by lulu 3 in Weddings

2007-10-26 04:36:42 · 13 answers · asked by 360 HEMI 2 in Singles & Dating

ok men. with 4 kids my husband and i are losing touch quickly. what i want from yall is to honestly tell me what turns u on? what can i do to add the sparks again? serious answers only. im 28 and hes 32 you would think we've been married for 50 years lol. help!

2007-10-26 04:34:14 · 23 answers · asked by myourchisin 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My grandmother is very mean. She will never let you talk back to her in a respectful way. She does not like to hear your opinion. She wants to be able to say every word without you responding. Why is this so?

2007-10-26 04:32:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If a man is hit do he just take it and walk away. Are should he hit back? They discuss this shortly on The View. What Do you think?

2007-10-26 04:30:49 · 31 answers · asked by shellnpepe 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well we're living together right now, and we've only been together a year only. The problem is that it feels like we're an old married couple. We HARDLY have sex, he hardly kisses me or hugs me. He NEVER compliments me and tells me hey you look nice today. NEVER! I do. When I like how he looks he knows it. I am always down for sex! I am always there for him. I dont understand why he treats me like crap. If we get into a small argument he ignores me the rest of the night. He is a jerk. Like last night we got in an argument and I told him what i thought, i didnt insult him or anything and he didnt talk to me the rest of the night. I wake up early every morning to go to work. yet i go to sleep late because i pick him up from work every night, he wakes up late and he doesnt care if i get enough rest or not. why is he this way?? I think he should take the bus but he says its dangerous and what not. I only get like five hours of sleep he oversleeps if anything. If I wake him up in the morning when I go to work he complains oh I’m so tired because someone woke me up to early, what the hell! We are living at him mom’s right now but we got our apartment which wont be ready until next Saturday, I am having second thoughts about him going with me. Guys: do you act this way with your gf or wife and expect them to know you love them? He neglects me and treats me like crap. I know I’m not the greatest price but for the most part I give him what he wants and needs. What more can I do? In your opinion, should I move out by myself?
Oh and we’re really young, so I don’t understand why we act like an old married couple. He’s 19 but acts like he’s 50! I’m a bit older I’m 23, but I’m a pretty hot girl, I don’t understand why he hardly touches me at night, or kisses me. When we do have sex its great but I’m clueless, guys, any advice???

2007-10-26 04:26:31 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Last night he told me a divorce would be a blessing.Than he said if I was gone for days on end he would not even care.It broke my heart and I told him I was going to sleep in my car.I could not bare the pain on being in the same house or him getting more ugly.It was 30 degrees last night I sleeped in my car at Walmart.hunched in a fetal position.He knew where I was and never even came and checked on me.
This morning I came home he was not at work said he was sick.Remember he hides doing meth from me.He took my china cabinet threw it in the floor and kicked apart.That was a wedding present from my family.Scared to death I attempted to call 911.He pushed me out of the way and tore the phone cord out of the wall.Smart me I knew where another one was.Called the pollice and he is in Jail for keeping me from not being able to make and emergency call.I am divorcing him and getting a TPO.He is already not allowed on this property or anyone that would harrass me.
So did I do the right thing

2007-10-26 04:24:39 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

theres this guy at a homecoming football game who i really liked and when i first met him, he high fived me and asked what school i went to. the next week, i said, " oh, you're the guy from homecoming, right?" he said," I don't know you". that confused me a lot. does he not like me, or is this his way of playing hard to get? i really hope to see him again.

2007-10-26 04:22:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend, roommates and I were drinking....we all passed out and when I woke up my boyfriend was having sex with me....I was drunk and kinda pretended to sleep more, but was really awake. I would turn over and stuff and he would still go at it. Finally I woke up woke up.... Pretended I was cold to cover up and he got really really mad.... I sat up and was like what are you doing... he's like it's me it's me... and I started crying. then made him sleep on the floor. I am REALLY scared and don't know what to do.

2007-10-26 04:21:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please help. My husband just expressed his feelings on 3-somes. I knew this was a fantasy of his but was never brought up this way. He expressed how he feels about what he calls a "hot lesbian" that comes into his work. He just found out that she is a lesbian and wants her to "interact with us". I just had a baby 3 months ago. So I have a lot of stretch marks and excess skin on my tummy. I have been working out, and now at a weight of 140. Lost 40 pounds. My husband made the comment on how goregeous this lesbian is and how great of a body she has. And how he has been looking at her. I feel it is wrong to bring something like that into a marriage and a new family. But I didnt shoot him down right away. I kinda fished. I said to him I dont feel comfortable because I just had a baby and Im not in the best of shape to compete with her body. His response, lets find someone who has a body like yours so you can feel comfotable then. I dont want to do this, I think its wrong. Help?

2007-10-26 04:20:32 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so theres this guy that i have known for almost a year, (he is one of my friends) and he has just told me that he likes me but he wants to get to know me better before concidering the whole dating thing, later after i get to know him better, if he asks me out should i give him a chance, he is a nice guy , but he is generally not my type , so any ideas?

2007-10-26 04:19:22 · 25 answers · asked by starchild447 2 in Singles & Dating

okay, i had to get someones attention, i dont really think that , but Im tired of hearing ..


"WHY GET MARRIED!??!?!
why would you want to do that??
wait as long as you possibley can IF you even decide to get married!! "

Why do people look down on marriage sooo much now-a-days????
Its not a BAD THING!!

whats your thoughts??

2007-10-26 04:19:15 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We have a child together and right after I broke up with him I found out I was pregnant again. He started seeing this girl that has no kids no responsiblity and she parties with her friends every weekend. He hasnt told her that im pregnant again. He says hes moved on. Im trying to do the same but its hard when he calls me all the time just to talk. Says he wants to go to counseling to try and make it work but then hes to busy to go. He invited me to dinner with his parents and texted his gf the whole time and she doesnt know how much we really talk or see each other. If I bring anything up about us getting back together or whats going on with us. He says he doesnt know and that a lot can happen before the other child is born. Or he ignores my questions and changes the subject. We hug goodbye everytime. Has he really moved on like he says. Or does he really want me back? im confused, if hes playing games why?

2007-10-26 04:19:01 · 7 answers · asked by awsome_angie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships