Family & Relationships - 26 October 2007

A couple of months ago my best friend found out about me having sex with her boyfriend. She cut our friendship off and they decided to stay together and try to work things out. Unfortunately for her he decided recently that he didn't want to be in a relationship and they broke-up. She called me last night and wants to be friends with me again. I don't think I should because she was a bad friend to choose him over me in the first place and she got what she deserved. If I become friends with her again how can I trust that she won't choose a guy over me again?
My other friends say I'm wrong but I really don't think I am! Shouldn't she have to prove her friendship to me before I become friends with her again?

2007-10-26 04:16:48 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm a 16 yr old girl. i have a bro who is 2 yrs elder 2 me. the prblm is tht i feel jealous of my bro sometimes. he's simply perfect in all matters. he's good lookin while i'm fat due 2 hormonal prblem. he's a 90 % scorer while i'm an average student wth around 70%. he'a a genius in mth and science whereas i'm completely a dunce in those subjects. he's witty, humorous, stylish and has loads of g.k while i'm usually shy,scared to speak out, with hardly any gk. i'm constantly compared with him at home. i'm unable 2 bring myself up 2 his level no matter how much i try. i feel very angry and insulted when ppl compare me wth him. my bro also keeps teasing me bout my weak academic performance and though i know tht he does it in good sense and means no harm, it hurts me. no one has confidence tht i can fulfill my career goals. i love my brother a lot but i dont know why i feel so angry, dejected and jealous. i'm unable 2 sort my feelings. am i a bad sister 2 feel jealous of my bro???plz help

2007-10-26 04:16:07 · 11 answers · asked by confused 2 in Family

Besides park your car?

What do you do when you enter your home?

2007-10-26 04:14:53 · 14 answers · asked by ? 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

My sil said that she has white and Indian in her family. She does not look like it. I have white and Indian in my family but I look like what I sat that I am. I am not calling her a liar. The truth can be told on what I do know. You can look at some people and tell that they are mixed with something. I believe that my sil is jealous of me. She wants to be something that she is not. She is jealous because she does not look waht she say she is..

2007-10-26 04:12:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i have been dating this guy for three months and i love him he invited me to his house for the weekend and i fear for sex im 21 and he's 27 and earning less at work what should do

2007-10-26 04:12:47 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married next year and the only thing that I am stressing about is the "Father/Daughter" dance. I haven't seen my father is over 10 years and don't plan on ever seeing him again. My question is, for the Father/Daughter dance, what do I do? I have talked to my fiance about this and he says to ask his father if he would dance with me. The only thing about this is that I feel it would be stepping on his sister's toes. That is her father and not mine. I don't have any other male figure in my life. Any suggestions???

2007-10-26 04:10:12 · 15 answers · asked by Jay's Girl 3 in Family

Guys, do you like it whn your lady is vocal during sex? Why?, Ladies, do you like it when your man is vocal during sex? Why?

2007-10-26 04:08:41 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been single for 2 1/2 years and I've gotten comfortable being that way. I don't like being committed to someone. I am the type of person that does things on the spur of the moment. I don't really make plans, unless it's with my family. When I'm with someone, I get this feeling like I am being selfish for keeping that person hanging around for me, when they could have someone else's full attention. I have to say this, I was with someone for 5 years the first go around then with someone else for another 5 years then married for 3. Now I've been single for a little over 2 years and don't know how to be any other way anymore. Sometimes, I get the feeling that after going through what I went through with those relationships, I am ruined as far as, ever having a relationship with someone and I don't know how to over come that.

2007-10-26 04:07:43 · 10 answers · asked by Jody 829 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 24, will have my 1st baby in Jan. Since I was 14 I resent my parents, they were extremely harsh and tortured me emotionally when O made some mistakes many teens do. The knew I regretted my mistakes and was a good girl, but anyway punished me hardly and for months didn't trust me, though they knew I sincerely regretted my mistakes and their trust was important to me. I pleaded for it but they were unforgiving, a true emotional massacre. When I got it back it wasn't so importabt anymore, I had found people who trusted me, gave me moral support and were emotionally more important to me than my parents. I became old, distant, though I made them proud. Today I'm graduated, hubby and I work, I have a good life, fortunately. But I don't talk to my parents, though they insist and want to be with me when I give birth to my baby a boy. Of course he'll make mistakes, but I'll never do to him what they did to me. Am I wrong in writting off my parents? Some people think so, but it's my right.

2007-10-26 04:06:57 · 11 answers · asked by Helen 1 in Family

Ok so me and my boyfriend Matt are going to formal and i had to sign us up b/c he wasnt at school. Well ne wayz hes a sophmore and im freshman, so i went on freshman day and signed us up and i told him who we sit with and he said he didnt know ne one and then he said i shoulda signed up on sophmore day idk if hes mad b/c then he siad he had to go, and im not sure whats going on and now i wont see him till monday! help me!!!!

2007-10-26 04:05:54 · 8 answers · asked by Linny love 1 in Singles & Dating

Does a married man ever leaves his wife for the woman he's been cheating with? If so, does that relationship last? What if the woman that he's cheating with leaves him alone, but he still chases her? What if the woman that he's been cheating with moves across town away from him, but he tries to get her to move back? Does he really care for her or what?

2007-10-26 04:05:32 · 26 answers · asked by W.O.W. 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 months now. In the beginning when we met we both agreed that we found our soul mates, true love and the one we would marry. For the past 5 days she has become distant all of a su. Intially she told me just to give her a little space.(Not cheating) She just claimed to just want some alone time with herself to preserve her identity as a independant women. Last night we spoke and she is now telling me she does not know what is wrong with her and it is bothering her that I am hurting cause of her recent behavior. She stated that she feels resentful in a way becaue i may have smnothered her. She continusoulsy states that she is not breaking up with me or plans to and loves me.. She has started a new birthcontrol (ortho trcycline). I feel it may be that, because 5 days of her taking it this all began. Basically i am looking for some help as to understanding why she has pushed back when everything was great. Any advice would be great. Thank

2007-10-26 04:01:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In a relationship for 5 years and they started living together. The woman was paying for all the bills such as rent, food and bills. The man got a $1000 plus coming in to him as income. It fights started because the man was refusing to contribute to the household. His excuses was the place was not in his name so he should not have to pay rent and that he was in a relationship with her. He didn't want to help out with purchasing the food either or bills. When he gets his check he would immediately spend it and by the time it came to the following weekend for them to go out he would say he was broke because he blow all his money when he was out with his friends all week. So that costed even more money to her for them to go out. There are children also involved that they had together. The man had got mad because the woman refused to lend him any money but yet he didn't give her a cent when she ask him for money to help out with living costs. He left left and told her to grow up

2007-10-26 04:00:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If so, how do you cope?
I exercise.

2007-10-26 03:58:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been seeing this man for a little over a month now and he is great. I had just three months earlier gotten out a 1 yr relationship which was dreadful. He knows what I went through and has been standing by my side. We were friends first so keep that in mind. He tells me all the time he is so happy things happened the way they did that we are together now. It just happened neither one of us were looking for a realationship we like i said were just friends enjoying each others company. Then one night we kissed and it has been nothing but up hill from there. There are so many times that I feel I am falling in love with him already and I feel real strong he feels the same way we are just (I think) both scared of the other persons reaction. He says everyting he can possibly say to me about how he cares about me except those 3 words. Me to.

Is it to soon to love someone and when is it appropriate to say it to one another????? Please help!!

2007-10-26 03:58:12 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

iam a man of 22 years.....do u think in general if i marry at the age of 22 can it be more advantages or disadvantages for me..

2007-10-26 03:57:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think that it was a plan by yahoo the whole time to grab my money?

2007-10-26 03:55:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We've lived our entire lives in Michigan.

It's a promotion and a great opportunity for him. He said he's not going to go if I'm not on board - so of course I'll do this for him.


Has anyone uprooted themselves from job, family, and friends to help your significant others career?

2007-10-26 03:55:45 · 18 answers · asked by Maeve 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-26 03:54:44 · 12 answers · asked by Rajinder K 1 in Weddings

2007-10-26 03:54:18 · 5 answers · asked by Rajinder K 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-26 03:53:15 · 10 answers · asked by jstnconley 1 in Singles & Dating

the one that call everyday to talk about other people or the kind that seldom call but come over to go somewhere with you onces in a long while.which and why?

2007-10-26 03:52:45 · 16 answers · asked by @NGEL B@BY 7 in Friends

I made a guy cry , he says because a always tease him on his stuby legs no i feel bad because i think he likes me so what should i do to make him feel better?(i already gave him cany and said sorry twice even though he replied it's ok)

2007-10-26 03:50:24 · 6 answers · asked by GenGen 2 in Singles & Dating

she waited until she was 4ths to tell him she was pregnant???

2007-10-26 03:49:36 · 6 answers · asked by TT 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you accept your spouse fantasizing about another when making love to you?

Would you feel cheated? How would you react?

2007-10-26 03:47:26 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i mean hes jus not good @ the whoe girl thing cuz hes used 2 girls lykin him & him not lykin them back but now he lyks me back & i guess its new 2 him. but i no that he wouldnt play with my head lyk that cuz hes 2 nice. so should i listen 2 myself & my friends that no him or 2 my mom who doesnt no him @ all?
i jus dont think she wants me 2 havea bf

2007-10-26 03:46:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have been together for about 5 mths but we have known eachother alot longer. we barley talk and when he wants to see me he wants some.... we live about 30 min apart. we havent seen eachother in over 2 mths.... i lost in love.... and i dont know what to do......HELP!!!!!!!

2007-10-26 03:44:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My parents (who live on a fixed income) have always given a gift or sent money in a card to my husband for his birthday, but my husband's parents have never acknowledged mine.

The drama capital of the world is wherever my in-laws are, so the lack of this acknowledgment truly doesn't bother me. Even my husband would prefer to be around my family than his own.

I'm wondering why there is such a disparity. We have lived with, nearby and far away (1,600 miles) from both sets of our parents since we married, so physical distance is not a factor. My in-laws were thrilled when I married their son because his first wife was such a "manipulative flake." I'm told that I am much more stable, level-headed and reliable, and they could see that my husband and I made each other happy. His family celebrates the birthdays of my husband, his sisters (but not his sisters' spouses) and all the grandchildren.

Why do you think this is? Is it the same way with your in-laws?

2007-10-26 03:42:01 · 22 answers · asked by DJ 7 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance does not have health insurance with his current job. At this time I have health insurance and if we got married I could cover him on mine. He's coming down with strep throat and has a tooth that needs pulled. He also has some back problems that require care. We were thinking of having a "shotgun" wedding soon so that he can have health coverage, but we cannot afford to have the reception now. The problem is - I already bought my "non returnable" wedding dress. Would it be tacky to have the wedding now and wear the dress to the reception in May?

2007-10-26 03:37:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

A friend of mine has heard something that may be rubbish or may be an old obscure law; that (in the UK) as a man cannot be inferior to his wife(!), if the wife has a PhD and can call herself 'Dr' (for example), then the husband can also call himself 'Dr'.

Now this sounds like rubbish to me, and I cannot find any reference to it anywhere, so has anybody else heard of this, and if it's true, does anybody have a reference for it?

Thanks.

2007-10-26 03:34:01 · 10 answers · asked by Hannah T 1 in Marriage & Divorce