Family & Relationships - 26 October 2007

2007-10-26 07:35:56 · 45 answers · asked by porscheharris38 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-26 07:35:21 · 22 answers · asked by sexy♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

Honest answers please

2007-10-26 07:31:50 · 80 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Please help!!!

2007-10-26 07:30:45 · 9 answers · asked by Beach Babe 08 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-26 07:30:42 · 6 answers · asked by Briana T 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-26 07:29:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys, what are some of the first things you notice about a girl? What makes you become attracted to her inside and out? What makes her a girl mysterious? Thanks!

2007-10-26 07:25:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

His parents currently live with him, and he has never lived alone. He plans on selling his house and moving to the area I live in to keep my 13 year old in the school of her choice. He has a brother and 2 sisters, but due to circumstances, my fiance is the most practical choice, as they both have a full house with their children/grandchildren living with him. The father is retired, the mother has never worked, and currently, the father pays utilities. The thing is, I prefer my space and I am afraid that if they move in, I will feel like a visitor in my own house. The parents will be there more than I am. I am afraid that my daughter will be uncomfortable as the marriage and move is going to be a big enough of an adjustment. The parents SEEM easy going, and I don't have any problems with them so far, but I haven't been around them very much either. I am afraid that I will resent the situation and that there will be tension once we are married, where we have had no tension thus far.

2007-10-26 07:24:02 · 33 answers · asked by lbar7442 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My BF & I broke up for about a month and all that month he has been calling me like crazeeeeee trying to pursuade me to get back with him! I just wanted to take some time off from him because the relationship was too much at the time, so I just broke up with him for a while hoping we can miss eachother and things might change. Come to find out he was HUMPING this one girl for 2 weeks and he so says they stopped HUMPING right before we got back together! So now it has been 1 year that passed and i trust him completely cus I know he has no interest in anyone else, but sometimes it still hurts me, TECHNICALLY its not cheating since we were not together at the time, but the fact is that he was calling me like crazeeee that whole month telling me he wants me back and that he wasnt seeing anyone else! i had to go thru his phone bill to find out he was talking to another girl! i trust him now, BUT SHOULD I JSUT FORGET ABOUT IT AND NOT BRING IT UP ANYMORE?

2007-10-26 07:23:17 · 17 answers · asked by sexyexotik 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been asked out by a really good-looking guy. I don't know him well but he seems really nice. I assumed he was 25ish, I've found out he's just turned 20! He looks and acts older than his age and I always get told that I look younger than my 32 years so we'll look okay together but is it a bit sad to go out with a guy 12 years younger? If he wae 25 and I was 37 I wouldn't bat an eyelid, but the guy was a teenager not so long ago!
HELP! No nasty comments please.....

2007-10-26 07:17:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is the dress...
http://lea-annbelter.com/2007.html
Click on the 04 to the side of the picture, the name of the dress is Kaitlyn and costs $3,300. =0(
Can anyone find a similar dress thats closer to $500?
Knock offs? Suggestions? A dress with a similar feel? Help!!!

2007-10-26 07:15:17 · 28 answers · asked by jennifersthegreatest 4 in Weddings

Someone on here answered a question of mine about cheating. She made the comment that, if you're not married, then its not cheating. Only married people can consider cheating, cheating. If you're not married, then you're just two people haing sex.

What do you think of that? Isn't that like saying cause your not married, its not a real relationship?

What are your thoughts on that?

I personally think its a flawed logic! Lying and hurt, is lying and hurt. Married or not!

2007-10-26 07:14:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

well am 22 and single, i was with few ppl just 1 was serious, and he cheeted.
so now am such a ***** with guys i like hurting them, i like when they look at me so i look back is if (i like u too), just to hurt them.
please dont be harsh to me as am not having sex or promising any thing, but i dont know why
how can i trust again

2007-10-26 07:11:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-26 07:11:09 · 9 answers · asked by sshhmmee2000 6 in Singles & Dating

My friend and I were talking about this. Obviously when you've been dating a guy for awhile, it's unfair to make him both drive and pay every single time you go out. Sometimes, I drive and my bf pays, other times he drives and he pays, other times he drives and i pay. for things like movies, dinner, amusement parks, etc.

So, which action is more gentelmanly? Is doing the driving (picking up the person, taking them to the place, dropping them off at home) more gentelmanly, or is paying for the two of you more gentelmanly? Girls, which would you rather do, and which would you rather have your guy do? Guys, which would you rather choose?

Just wondering what everyone else thinks. =) thanks.

2007-10-26 07:09:31 · 39 answers · asked by girlygirl8 5 in Singles & Dating

Your in a room all alone somewhere that u don't know...a beautiful girl with long black hair and eyes walks in with a skimpy black dress that barely covers anything. She looks at you and asks you to marry her and be with her until she dies because every man only wants her because of her beauty. What do you say and do?

2007-10-26 07:07:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Oh dear.

My brother's fiancee wants me to be in her wedding. I'm honored, and I want to be in my brother's wedding.

The problem is that the dress is OUTRAGEOUSLY expensive and there is no way at all whatsoever that I can afford it unless I go without eating or pass up on other bills for a month.

Has anyone ever been in this dilemma? What did you do?

2007-10-26 07:06:40 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My husband and I just found out that we are going to have another son. Our first son is 2. He says that I'll be the special one in the house because I'll be the only female. Is this true? What is it like for mothers who have only sons? Is their marriage better? Do they get respect in the home? Are they special, since they are the only female in the home? Do they go crazy with constant football games?

2007-10-26 07:04:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-26 07:03:21 · 13 answers · asked by Keri M 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-26 07:00:21 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-26 06:58:59 · 24 answers · asked by The Lost Elf 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Every guy I have ever dated turned out to be jerks is there any good ones left

2007-10-26 06:58:57 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-26 06:58:30 · 32 answers · asked by seaview 6 in Marriage & Divorce

This girl has sent me mixed signals for awhile. I helped her w/ career stuff (we're in b-school) & she asked me to dinner. At dinner she flirted heavily, but suddenly talked about her BF in a diff city, then asked about my situation. I said I'm single but she said I should go after girls who even have BFs, it's fair game. Then, she sent me a card from spring brk, but ignored my email when I asked her out. Wks later, she was flirty/asked me to dinner. I refused (I hate games) & we stopped talking. 4wks later, I gave in/said hi. Later that wk, at a party, she asked me to dance, we rubbed up on the dance flr, she said "I'd like to get to know you". But next day, at dinner she again talks about BF, says she's in love, but then says she falls out of love easily, acts disinterested & says "I'm a ball of sexual tension" - WTF? I got sick of it & didn't contact her for 2 mnths. Suddenly, she calls again, but when the phone tag ends, says her BF's in town. We haven't even kissed yet. Help!

2007-10-26 06:56:29 · 16 answers · asked by riddler 1 in Singles & Dating

Just yesterday, my girlfriend told me she needed some time off because she feels restricted. However, honestly I can't say that I'm doing anything to restrict her. It could just be being in a relationship in general. She's gone through a lot, and has a lot of stuff going on in her head, and doesn't really know who she is. She claims that she needs some time off to get her act together. I said alright. I was a bit suspicious at first, because things are going great between us. So she got the space she needed, i haven't contacted her and i blocked her on AIM and im not picking up her phone calls. (just in case it's not really what she says it is. aka using me for backup if she's found another guy) So, she goes ballistic on me, calls me like 30+ times and gets my friends to IM me to see if I'm online. I'm not quite sure what to do. Should I talk with her or resume the no contact policy?

2007-10-26 06:53:55 · 20 answers · asked by Jedi Knight 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay. I'll be brief.

This past spring my stb ex and myself sold our first home and bought a new one, spent a good deal of money of decorating and about a month afterwards, I discovered she had a fascination with a married co-worker.

She stuck with her story of there is no-one else, I am not cheating, it's just a crush. In addressing this situation she immediately asked for a divorce. She moved out of the house a month later and moved in with a nearby relative.
Ssince that time I have twice been informed of infidelities with at least two different individuals and have discovered that I contracted herpes

She filed a restraining order on me earlier in the week saying I was harrassing her. and that what she is doing know is none of my business. I am asking about situations that happened during the marraige.

I've been traumatized, emotional, financially nd now will have a physical reminder for the rest of my life.

Do I deserve an explanation?

Am I out of line?

2007-10-26 06:53:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife likes to drink when we go out 3 or 4 times a week, but she more often than not gets drunk.

The other night she drunk so much she was crawling around on the floor when we got home. When she went to work the next day I had to go pick her up because she had the shakes and felt dizzy.

I take care of her when it happens but it worries me that she always has to drink so much.

2007-10-26 06:52:26 · 33 answers · asked by Hypnotoad 2 in Marriage & Divorce

On july 6th of 2007 I married my army soldier through court. Hes been in the military since 2003 and wont get out later than 2012. Hes leaving next year but not sure when and not sure when he returns. Its been pretty difficult to plan my formal wedding because of the army. I would love to do it before he leaves but theres not enough money.

2007-10-26 06:52:24 · 8 answers · asked by Marcy 1 in Weddings

Okay..the other day I went to my bank to pay for my mortgage. The New supervisor there was very friendly to me and I didn't think anything of it. Anyway..the other night I came home and my boyfriend was like listen to this message..he played it and it said," Hi it's me ******, from the bank..I just wanted to call you and let you know that I liked talking to you the other day when you came to the bank, my phone number is ***-*****, give me a call and maybe we'll go out to lunch or something." I did not give my phone number to the guy (I think he got it off my account) and my boyfriend says he's gonna confront the guy..what should I do?? I told him not to and he's like, are you hiding something. Should I call the guy and explain what happened?? Any advice??? THANKS!!

2007-10-26 06:51:17 · 11 answers · asked by Miss H 3 in Singles & Dating

i cheated on my ex should i tell him? now me and him a just friends with benefits

2007-10-26 06:47:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating