2007-10-26 07:00:21 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my husband and i like to know where the other is all day. my viewpoint is, if there's an accident or if he doesn't show up somewhere he's supposed to be, i know when to worry and when to take action. i know that may seem totally weird or over-the-top, but i like to be prepared. if i know my husband is on the interstate headed somewhere during a certain time of day and i hear on the news that there is an accident, i'll know to call him and check in. if he says he has a meeting somewhere and he never shows up back home, i know exactly what to tell the police if i have to report him missing. now that i'm writing this down, it sounds macabre, but like i said, i want to be prepared. it's not that i'm keeping tabs on him or that i don't trust him, it just reassures me to know where he is and to know how to contact him if i need to.
2007-10-26 07:13:16 · answer #1 · answered by hh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, why not..... if you go home at night and talk about what you both did during the day it most probably will come up... I like my BF to tell me where he has been and what he has done, although since we don't live together it's a bit different and I don't expect him to tell me EVERY SINGLE place where he's been..... Also, if it's something as unimportant as going to the store to buy milk I might not mention it (or if I went somewhere to buy him something I wanted to give him as a surprise), but in this case it's not that I have something to hide. So I would like my BF to be as honest as I am, not for the sake of "checking on each other" but just know more about each other... nothing wrong with that. Now if the spouse wants to know your very single move and expects you to report yourself every 1/2 hr. and not do anything without you knowing about it, I think that's a bit out of the line and might lead to misunderstadings...
2007-10-26 09:28:34 · answer #2 · answered by Lprod 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going somewhere that is out of your normal daily day activity. I think that it would be approiate if something was to happen at least she would know the last place you were at.
Not unless you are hiding somethng from her which wouldnt be to good at all.
best of luck
2007-10-26 09:41:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, especially if its out of the normal daily activity. Its just common courtesy.
2007-10-26 07:06:59 · answer #4 · answered by onehotmama 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Certainly so in mature relationships anyway. Unsure of what you did but might be best coming from you rather than hearing about if from a third party. Because if she does hear from someone other than you the story might be completely different and blown out of the water. Don't know if it is my age or what but I still believe that honesty is always the best policy.
2007-10-26 07:05:40 · answer #5 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think it is respectful to let them know a general idea of where you will be and when you expect to be back incase something happens, but you shouldn't have to call if you are on your way to the store and unexpectedly decide to stop at the gas station or something.
2007-10-26 07:58:24 · answer #6 · answered by jess4u2c2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better question , how would you feel if the shoe was on the other foot. would you want to be told??
how would you feel if you found out the other was not telling you about the days activity.
THERE IS YOUR ANSWER.
2007-10-26 07:05:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
We share our "whereabouts" - both normal activities and anything out of the ordinary.
2007-10-26 07:03:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to, that's fine. It shouldn't matter really but it is common for couples to talk about what they did that day, if they speak later in the evening.
2007-10-26 07:02:46 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you want to sure, but it sounds like you think he's keeping tabs on you...that's not cool. I tell my fiance if I'm talking to him--but not everywhere I go...and he's all over the place with work, so he doesn't always tell me, either....
2007-10-26 07:34:10 · answer #10 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋