Family & Relationships - 26 October 2007

he became strict from now on

he dosent evan let me watch T.V.


all he wants is for me is ot get a good education. and i already got that

im 14

2007-10-26 09:11:58 · 12 answers · asked by NONAME 2 in Family

- stuff from bath and body (was thinking gift baskets w/ lotions, lip balms, body sprays, and maybe throw in a little shower radio)
- a spa gift certificate to use at various locations
- clothing of some type - like nice pajamas from victoria secret or something
- some sort of tote bag (without their names on it)
- something more personalized like little jewelry boxes

I'm not going to give jewelry or pictures. Wedding is around the corner and I need to narrow down some ideas quickly. I'd really like to give them a nice yet affordable gift.

2007-10-26 09:11:44 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Today, I received an email from my Honey.

My guy is currently serving in Iraq...And should be back sometime next Spring.

But he sent me an email asking for my approval on the possible part time job offer when he gets back. The job entails driving Legal escorts to their customers and waiting a few hours until they're finished with their business.

He says that he'll only do it with my approval and that he'd be making a few grand-ish a week.

I definitely don't feel comfortable with it for the obvious reasons. Basically, these are prostitutes...Temptation in many ways, I guess.
That's alot of money to just "Drive" around escorts. So maybe he was mislead in that part of the deal.

What would you do or think of this?

Women and men's opinions appreciated...

2007-10-26 09:10:19 · 36 answers · asked by darkening_hope 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have never bought anything for myself and I have always put my Kids, Family and others 1st. I buy nice clothes only on sale and I have recovered greatly after divorce, after leaving with nothing! I work 2 jobs and I never had any toys, "as the cliche goes", I think I deserve to reward myself ... But I am getting neg. feed back, "Going thru a midlife hugh?, With gas going up your going to buy what?, where you gonna put the kids in it? You get the just...

2007-10-26 09:09:49 · 21 answers · asked by JEFFREY L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He's been separated for 10 years and lives in another town. He has a vast amount of assets and so my friends told me that is why he never divorced. I feel he should have been honest and upfront. I don't want to be a "mistress". I feel he wants his cake and eat it, too. Has anyone been in this kind of relationship without regret?

2007-10-26 09:09:46 · 12 answers · asked by lavenderbluelassie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

there's this one guy who is REALLY annoying!!!!! he would always put my hoodie up, or write on my arm, or pretend to write on my jacket or SIT IN MY LAP(?), or sit on the same DESK as me so im all squished up. and he keeps asking what i thought about him when i see him. and he keeps asking what i thought of his shirt and i just went something like, "hidious." or what i thopught of his eyes. then he said he think i look awesome.

why does he act that way???????

he had a gf so he cant like me.

2007-10-26 09:09:03 · 12 answers · asked by yahooanswers 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-26 09:08:42 · 8 answers · asked by patch11 1 in Family

I am not looking to be judged I am looking for advice. I recently left my husband because he was physically and emotionally abusive. On his day to have our son he took him and left and will not allow me to see him, which is apparently legal seeing as how we are still married. I have not seen my son in over a month. I am only seventeen and do not have money for a lawyer. I have spoken to the police and have let them know that I am concerned for my son because my husband has abusive tendancies and they have not been helpful. I have contacted womans battered shelters and other help lines no one calls me back. Please Help Me!!!

2007-10-26 09:07:45 · 20 answers · asked by Lil' Mamma 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-26 09:07:22 · 12 answers · asked by lkk 2 in Marriage & Divorce

please don't suggest bar/club, church, suprmarket or laundry mat

2007-10-26 09:05:05 · 8 answers · asked by At peace with myself 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-26 09:02:44 · 29 answers · asked by questionable 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want me and my fiance' to write our own vows for our wedding but he thinks it's a lil corny. Is it? I think it's sweet and shows more love. What do you guys think about it?

2007-10-26 09:02:15 · 34 answers · asked by nana_14 2 in Weddings

He constantly winking at me and has this freakish grin, he called me a sexy stud soccer player, does that mean anything? Please give me some kind of help. thanks

2007-10-26 08:59:38 · 21 answers · asked by Cassie G 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Italian men are so....................

2007-10-26 08:58:40 · 33 answers · asked by Lily 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, here is the story. My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years. We just recently got a letter in the mail saying that one of his ex-girlfriends is taking him to court for child support. He didn't even know she was pregnant, it is his child, we went for a DNA test. Anyways, now we are upset because he is going to have to pay her and we have a child of our own on the way. I want to know if anyone knows how they calculate how much she is going to get from him. I know they are going to take how much he gets paid and whether or not he pays for insurance or not. I want to know if he can write that I am a dependant of him because I don't work and if they will take into consideration how much he has to pay for rent and utilities. Even though he doesn't want to have anything to do with the child, I would also like to know how to be sure that the baby is still in her care. She has 5 babies by 5 differnt daddies, and she sent one to El Salvador to live with her aunt.

2007-10-26 08:58:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

seems like he rarely make the first move when it comes to sex.
i'm not a beauty queen nor am i ugly, other men say i'm pretty & say i have a great body..i just don't get it
i need more sex than what i'm getting from my b/f

2007-10-26 08:53:09 · 8 answers · asked by kym b 2 in Singles & Dating

Well, I am a store model at the Hollister clothing store in the mall. There is this one girl (also a store model) that I work with that I am so drawn to. Not in a nasty, perverted way, but she just seems like a really nice person. I've bumped into her, and exchanged a few words, but nothing really major has happened. When I walk by her and our eyes meet we both kind of look away. I'm think i'm a nice guy, good grades, i'm not cocky, no drugs or stuff like that. Is there any way I can get closer to her? I don't even know here name!! I know I have to introduce myself and all that but I get so nervous and jumble my words when around her. Any tips on how to get closer with her and help to break the ice.

(Please no negative stereotypes about Hollister, it's so immature)

Thanks again for any help/recommendations you could offer.

2007-10-26 08:52:29 · 5 answers · asked by hollistermatt89 1 in Singles & Dating

what means to out live your husband?

2007-10-26 08:51:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

So my bf is mad at me right now, I didnt do anything bad, just left him an emotional voicemail that for him was dramatic and he says he hates drama and doesnt put up with it. I felt bad and called him two days later and left another voicemail apologizing for my behavior and explained I am really emotional right now because we are in a temporary long distance relationship ever since he left for California 3 months ago. I asked for his forgiveness and told him I just feel really depressed and hope he is not mad. He has not called me for a week now. I will also note he suffers from on and off again depression for years and he is depressed right now.

My question: Do guys ignore you when you have created drama/made them mad? Or is he breaking up with me without telling me directly?

Thank you everyone :)

2007-10-26 08:50:43 · 8 answers · asked by Sad Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

whydo you in aother words, have no committment status, like, going to the end of the relationship wether it be marital or just trying new things(women) persay. can you handle a woman in a steady relationship just like you would do your job, or are you a continous quitter, leaving babies to be raised alone, get my point.

2007-10-26 08:49:15 · 17 answers · asked by Shirleyann L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-26 08:47:10 · 7 answers · asked by The Love Duck 6 in Singles & Dating

She keeps turning them down. Her brother who is 4 years older says she had better settle for someone rather than wait until its too late, Hes been divorced three times.

2007-10-26 08:46:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I haven't heard a congrats from anyone in my family except for my parents and brother. We are 19 and 20 and are waiting 3 yrs till school is done... It seems like mom doesn't approve but keeps skirting around the subject. It is really stressing me out that my family isn't behind me in my decisions. I really need advice!!!

2007-10-26 08:44:36 · 24 answers · asked by jcnosky 1 in Weddings

I think it is. i didn't agree to marry a fatty or to hardly ever have sex. She whines if I whack one off in the shower too, I mean come on.

2007-10-26 08:42:21 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi Guys,
So i have this friend who is dating this guy who is much older than her. She has been with him for two years and in that time the guy had been with another woman (he was with her for five years).. When she found out she was upset but decided to stay with him. my friend and the guy used to see each other very other week or sometimes once a month.. She told him many times to dump the other woman (who is the same age as he is) but he never did anything. Now, two months ago, the woman broke up with him and now he's like glue to her.
She is like a sister to me and i hate been a bad person but i feel he's only glue to her because he was dumped. I feel that his sudden wanting to spend time with her more is only to his advantage.
Please tell me what you think!
Thank you.

2007-10-26 08:40:31 · 15 answers · asked by liza246 3 in Singles & Dating

There is this woman I am talking to, we both enjoy it can I feel make each other laugh. The issue is that she loves country music and I know she likes the cowboy type of man, though she works as an acountant. I have a simalar career. I am not into country music but will listen and have never country danced but am willing. I am in no way a cowboy kind of guy. I'm not a pretty boy either, just a normal city guy. Do you think this could work for her, or will she just not end up digging me?

2007-10-26 08:38:59 · 1 answers · asked by Robert R 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-26 08:36:35 · 17 answers · asked by forsaken49 1 in Singles & Dating

I read the question below and saw some girls saying they wanted to laugh at a guy with a small "member", and won't keep a man like that. But girls would absolutely freak out if guys laughed at their chest size or said something about her being "loose". Don't you think women are unfair when it comes to this?

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AgScbtXNK.ZBKtOOxaonlWPsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071026115320AAINhSt

***I am of average size, not huge and not small, so save your BS comments***

2007-10-26 08:35:09 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A few months ago, we moved from a big house to a small apartment. We're renting two storage units that cost us $150/month. One unit is pretty much filled with computer junk my husband has been collecting since high school.

He's a computer geek, and some of the junk has sentimental value. But most of it he keeps because he says, "Oh, I might need a piece from xxx someday."

My current junk removal policy is: If you haven't used something in a year and you can buy the same thing on ebay or wherever for less than $50, then we toss it.

I think that's pretty fair and reasonable, and so does he, but he is still resistant and claims things are more valuable than they actually are. I mean, he had about 40 dusty monitors just sitting on shelves in the garage that he hasn't touched in ten years.

How can I get him to let his stuff go?

2007-10-26 08:34:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and litterally assumes that he or she is correct all the time and thinks everyone is crazy????

2007-10-26 08:33:55 · 18 answers · asked by ?????? 1 in Singles & Dating