Family & Relationships - 26 October 2007

2007-10-26 21:24:57 · 13 answers · asked by Yzma 3 in Singles & Dating

This is a serious question.....How does a person fall back in love with the same person? MORE INFO!
Been married 26 years, he was not nice, abusive verbally. (I know the problem there!) but the thing is I have fallen out of love with him and he keeps asking and trying to have me fall back in love with him. He thinks hes changing But I dont. I have told him I want out that I dont love him anymore but he keeps trying. He's afarid of being alone. (so am I )So do I try and I find that love again?

2007-10-26 21:23:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Our relationship was not very stable. But now it seemed to be getting o.k.Then I discovered this past bit of unfidelity. He's swearing that he'll be faithful from now on . But should I take him back

2007-10-26 21:19:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok seriously.

WHY do guys insist on acting like they like you one minute then acting like they dont even know yyou the next?

because ok.

we went on a band trip that lasted 3 hours. not counting the time it took us to stop and eat.
and for 1 & a half ours of that time.
"t"(we'll call him that) well anywho. t was like all hugging me. and holding me and..such. he even was like.. kissing my cheek and stuff.
and so i was cool with it.
but then all of a sudden.
he moves around. and so i move.
he stops hugging me.
and goes "i have to talk to such and such for a minute. k?"
im like. ok.

so i move back a seat.
and they never stopped talking.
then we got there
and he totally like...ignored me the whole time
and the same on the ride home.
ignoring.

so im wondering if he really likes. me.

or if he's just leading me on.

im so confused.

2007-10-26 21:17:07 · 17 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-26 21:15:02 · 19 answers · asked by XtremlyME 3 in Marriage & Divorce

From an ex, to his ex over myspace--things like-

You were my heart

I wanted to marry, even to this day I knew you were the one

If it wasnt for your family hating me, we would have still been together.

your more beautiful now then when I first laid eyes on you.

All I know is, I put all that time into our relationship, and the other guy ended up with you.

(these ex's have been apart, leading seperate lives for the past 10 years. One happily married, the other with someone for 7 yrs, and has a 4 year old kid)

2007-10-26 21:13:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Im starting to think Australia is the "lucky country". I have answered questions about child support and divorce and get the thumbs down quite often. Maybe they are from people who live in the U.S and dont have the same kind of services...although I thought child support was world wide....I thought it was the same in every country. The more questions I answer and get the thumbs down, the more I am thankful I live in Australia. We obviously have a better system over here....its much more simple. Do Americans really think they are superior...do they really think their government is good? Gee, from what I have seen and read, Aussies are far better off than the Americans.....we have better pay rates, we have better conditions. Child support handles child payments without the need to go to court.. Ok, Amercians do you really think you are the superior race...if so, tell me why?

2007-10-26 21:11:14 · 8 answers · asked by rightio 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I just recently got a job and my hubby is still complaining about how he's paying for things. I've told him once I get paid, I'll give him money. I truly appreciate what he does. Why can't he appreciate that? I clean house and cook, too. He says with the "food I [he] buy[s]".

2007-10-26 21:10:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-26 21:09:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I found his myspace by chance. He acts pretty innocent and respectful. A very sexy guy but i was surprised at his myspace.
He says hes addicted to Porn, porn stars, and his hobbie is fornicating,sex, is a swinger and does not list his sexual orientation, has tons of girls leaving him messages on there.

Is this a red flag?

2007-10-26 21:06:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Did you marry past the age of 30?
Are you married or divorced?
Why do you think you are still married or not married?

How old were you when you married?
How long did you date prior to marriage?
Are you still married?

Please do not answer, "dont know", since that is not an answer. Please answer all 6 questions. Please write more than 5 sentences. I am doing a research project on love.

Please share a story. Please use detail because that is what I am seeking. I got the time to listen.

Thank you for respecting my wishes and for answering my questions.

2007-10-26 21:05:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, My hubby used to smoke pot that bad years ago that he put himself into rehab. He has started it again behind my back a few times now and stoped again. He is now smoking it again ( i know as he hides in his shed to smoke it and i know where his stash is). He is smoking it more and more, and what pisses me off is that he smokes it while he is looking after our two kids while iam at work. I have tryed bringing it up in the past and telling him how much i hate him smoking it, but he gets defencive and pretty much abusive and argumentive to the point iam to scared to confrount him now. it has totaly changed who he is now from when we met and the longer it goes the less iam liking him........... anyone have any ideas how i can confrount this issue with out him getting argumentive about it?

2007-10-26 20:57:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-26 20:48:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If love means not giving up on each other even in times of good and bad, how do you know when to let go. My husband and I just recently got married and he is in the army stationed in korea. I am asking this question because even when I'm crying my heart and I beg and plead for him to stay on the phone with me, he leaves anyway. I still remember when he broke up with me on christmas day and my grandma was sent to the hospital because she was sick. I cried and begged him to give me more time because everything was happening all too fast, he said "too late, already done." I married him anyway because I thought he would change. I have forgiven him for all his mistakes in the past such as cheating, yet he won't even stay with me on the phone. I have given up everything for him. I am scared to imagine my future if one day he is determined to leave me even when I beg on my knees. Will I ever get past this? I love him so much but how do I know when enough is enough? How do I let him go?

2007-10-26 20:46:41 · 30 answers · asked by Loving.You 4 in Marriage & Divorce

it was mostly his friends and 2 other ppl that dnt kno me..

2007-10-26 20:44:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there's this one girl at my high school we dont talk but she kept on looking at me in the hallway and sometimes even stare at me but when i look back she seems to start looking away. When she sees me in the hallway she start to scream her friends name loudly, one time she even dared one of her friends to say hi to me. One day in the hallway she push one of her friends into me. but when in the hallway with just me and her she started screaming boys name push other guys around and then she turns around as if she was checking if im still looking

2007-10-26 20:43:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

conceder the following
1- your 1st is wife is very sick
2- your 1st is wife cannot get breath
3- your have relative she is widow with kids cannot support her self
4- you need some body helping you in your live
5- woman need protection and love
6- you love the new woman and you do not divorce the first one
and you don’t want to cheat on your wife all the relation must be legal
7- you know there are more woman than men

2007-10-26 20:23:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-26 20:17:31 · 2 answers · asked by soldierboy75496 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

A bit of background info: My dad died two years ago and at least once a week my mom lectures me about not loving her or my siblings. This lectures last about an hour and I NEVER can say exactly what SHE wants. What do I say to her. I want to scratch my face out after being lectured to. I hate that I look the slightest bit like her.

2007-10-26 20:14:25 · 14 answers · asked by Treefaerie 2 in Family

2007-10-26 20:01:06 · 5 answers · asked by rin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been married for 5years and together for 9. My h has always been rather depend on me for house work, and meals. He does not cook, nor does he clean up after himself. I made a mistake 4years ago, and feel like I am still paying for it now. I work full time, 13-14 hour shift, and I get NO help with anything around the house. Im not sure if I am just whinning, I know that I should not have let it start, but I came from a house where I was the caregiver, and needed to continue for my own transition. Now I feel that I have grown and he hasn't. I need help and don't know how to ask for it.

2007-10-26 19:49:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I always try and text back as soon as I can once I receive a text. Often my friends take a while.
What is/how long is considered bad manners?

2007-10-26 19:47:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my ex bf is going to marry hes wedding day is tommorow..what will you do?hes my 1st love,they said 1st love never die.i knew it because he told me..and he said he wants me back because he still love me even hes married..im 21 and hes 23.and hes girl going to marry is 26.i dont know what in hes mind.he said hes life is too complicated.he still communicate w/me if he have time because he is too busy in his wedding..but for me i want to be his friend and dont want to be his mistress..why some guys cheating?is he not satisfied w/ her wife to be?or his such a coward?

2007-10-26 19:47:09 · 18 answers · asked by mariecris 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend have alot of issues!!! he's lied to me atleast 6 times in the last year.. and when i met him he just got out of a 2 year relationship with a woman who he cheated on and she cheated on him. he tells me he doesnt love her and he loves me, but yet he lies to me?? i've talked to her and she had told me they tryed to get pregnant.. he swears he didnt want a child with her because she already had 2... people have told me shes a lier but hes also lied to me, but his reasons for lieing to me was because he was scared of what i'd think of him and he'd loose me is that true???he ells me im the first girl hes ever propored to and wanted a child with... could that be true??? help me please....

2007-10-26 19:44:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Mormon?, Islamic?

2007-10-26 19:43:36 · 7 answers · asked by Mark 7 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to make our reunion extra special for my husband. For those of you who are soldiers and away from your wives, how would you want her to greet you?

2007-10-26 19:43:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm going thru some"stuff" right now and I really need some support. I don't want to"burden" him with my issues. I've cried alot lately and I know I'll get through this thing I'm going through, but I really need his support and I don't want him to feel like I'm crying again, ya know?....but the thing is..to get through it, I need HIS support....i have no one else I can be open with like I am with him.(he's my hubby!)..and it's so personal that i don't want to turn to friends.
So my main question is...
Should i tell him I really need him right now?...OR...
Do I suck it up and deal with it on my own?
I just don't want him to get tired of my tears...

2007-10-26 19:42:14 · 10 answers · asked by surat108 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is in the military and I got pregnant before he left for basic. Since Feb I've seen him about 3 weeks total..Actually less. This will be the first time I will be seeing him since I gave birth 6 weeks ago. Any creative ideas for him? I missed having a good romp, and I think it would be really special and cool for him to get something new after 9 months of belly...to go along with my new bod. Down 2 jean sizes from before I was pregnant! But like I said we haven't seen each other since I was in the hospital! Thanks for any new suggestions!

2007-10-26 19:41:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i didnt know me and my bf were going to have sex, so i wasnt smelling so great down there. but he didnt say anything he kept doing it and even went down there. its was so embarassing. i know its kinda gross, but should i like apologize or something? lol

2007-10-26 19:38:24 · 11 answers · asked by ☮ 3 in Singles & Dating

I know that every couple is different, but still from your own experience how long should it take? Ive been dating for 3 months and been talking about family and stuff. I wouldnt say that i know for sure that i want to marry him but wanna know when he might propose( hopefully its gonna be romantic cuz he's not). I asked him when he thought a guy should ask girl to marry him and he said from 6 to 12 months dating. He already finished college a few years ago and has stable salary. I just went to college and work part time. We re in our 20. Also, how long do u think is enough to date in order to know your partner and be ready to have healthy longlasting family? Thanx a lot!!! All oppinions about this topics r welcome:)

2007-10-26 19:36:21 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce