ok seriously.
WHY do guys insist on acting like they like you one minute then acting like they dont even know yyou the next?
because ok.
we went on a band trip that lasted 3 hours. not counting the time it took us to stop and eat.
and for 1 & a half ours of that time.
"t"(we'll call him that) well anywho. t was like all hugging me. and holding me and..such. he even was like.. kissing my cheek and stuff.
and so i was cool with it.
but then all of a sudden.
he moves around. and so i move.
he stops hugging me.
and goes "i have to talk to such and such for a minute. k?"
im like. ok.
so i move back a seat.
and they never stopped talking.
then we got there
and he totally like...ignored me the whole time
and the same on the ride home.
ignoring.
so im wondering if he really likes. me.
or if he's just leading me on.
im so confused.
2007-10-26 21:17:07 · 17 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In a nut shell, I'm guessing that if you were not denying his flirtatious actions, but at the same time, weren't encouraging or reciprocating with your own, he may have moved on to a more receptive girl. Just a guess. I hope this is helpful. :}
2007-10-26 21:24:45 · answer #1 · answered by jlsmith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy likes you. What he did was a little thoughtless, but guys can be this way. It's important to realize that teen guys are just really starting to learn about how to form relationships. It's not easy because there's no rule book. Cut the dude a little slack here and let him know that you like him.
2007-10-26 21:21:48 · answer #2 · answered by Richard B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea why he is like that, I am a boy and i would never do that to a girl. That puzzles me really. Maybe he is leading you on, but dont think this beacuse of that, if this is happening all the time maybe he is. Ask him why he does it, and if he is puzzled then tell him why you arnt happy, if he laughs then he might not be the one for you.
2007-10-26 21:24:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he probably thought of you as a sexual thing.. i mean taht inna nice way.. the other girl could probably hold a better conversation.. right place right time shiit.. ya know? I wouldn't worry about him.. if he likes you he'll come around
2007-10-26 21:21:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys do that, some just want to take your panties off so be careful who you you try to have a relationship with people are funny never say what they mean.
2007-10-26 21:22:24 · answer #5 · answered by boy_jam_arch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey senorina,we guys,we call that a "Don juan move",as my earlier pal said,"hate the game,not the player"dont worry,hes gonna call back and i think he achieved his mission of confusing you a bit.
when he comes back"play hard to get this time"ok?
2007-10-26 21:51:09 · answer #6 · answered by good kisser 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like all he wanted was a physical thing, hun. If you want more than his on/off attention, I suggest you ignore him entirely.
2007-10-26 21:23:44 · answer #7 · answered by Hyabusu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok in my opinion we act like that cuz we are so stupid, my quick advice is that if i guy ignore you when your starting to date, is a guy that never is going to be fully compromise to you. think about it... good luck girl
and well once again think if MR T is really worth going out with you..... take care
2007-10-26 21:23:26 · answer #8 · answered by america_2008_2008 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you guys are young and he is immature. Don't sweat it. If he ignores you just ignore him right back. If he really likes you he'll come around.
2007-10-26 21:20:09 · answer #9 · answered by LJ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you both sound immature and drammatic.
avoid each other.
fine..ppls...mark me as a bad answerer.
im just telling it like it is.
you're being drammatic.
even you "we'll call him that" sounds kinda snotty.
relax a little.
2007-10-29 15:02:46 · answer #10 · answered by Will 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋