Family & Relationships - 26 October 2007

My brother is 19 and lives with his girlfriend.
He is always getting into trouble or wrecking his car which therefore costs my parents a lot of money to fix. My parents are always in a bad mood and aren't able to get me the things I need because they are too busy spending time and money to clean up his messes.
My brother only thinks of himself and doesn't take anything seriously. He works at a fast food place and uses his money to make his car payments and buy drugs and thats it.
I'm afraid that my parents aren't going to let me drive or get a job when I want to because they're afraid I will end up an idiot like him.
I strive to be the perfect child everyday.
I do chores without being asked, maintain good grades, and don't get into trouble. But all their attention is always focused on my brother's latest incident.
Is there anything I or my parents can do?

2007-10-26 16:06:09 · 18 answers · asked by Kinzi 4 in Family

This guy and i for years are friends in love.When we met he gave his number address then he moved years back he hasnt given his number address.Hes given number which he says is his friends number if i need to talk to him but i suspect its his number.Hes given all his number address around me but not me.Hes single in his 30s professional.All he ever talks asks is about me with my friends or making his friends do that when they are with my friends.He wont meet in person directly but i see him at parties where he comes to check me out.He wont admit if i confront him.Why is he singling me out,treats me special,treats others normal when obvious to all he loves me.

2007-10-26 16:05:52 · 12 answers · asked by aaffairtoremember 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do we write the names on the rsvps or does the guest write their name and return it to us?

2007-10-26 16:01:18 · 8 answers · asked by nataliexoxo 7 in Weddings

I am looking for a relationship but the hunt is not going good...should i just not try and see what comes my way??

2007-10-26 16:00:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I go out alot

2007-10-26 15:57:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-26 15:55:01 · 5 answers · asked by donielle 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-26 15:54:56 · 13 answers · asked by retired coach 1 in Weddings

I’m a 32-year-old Heterosexual/Straight, Single Male who desire seeking a peer-aged Woman as both my friend and my ‘social dance’ partner whenever I go social dancing(Salsa, Two-Step, Swing, Hip-hop, R&B, etc.).


Q u e s t i o n:

If my venues to meet peer-aged Female(s) are o n l y: At/during work, Off-line(in-print or telephone) Personal Ads/Profiles, and On-line Personal Ads/Profiles; w h a t are the “How-to-do Step(s)/Tip(s)” to initiate meeting/mingling with this peer-age Woman(of any race/ethnicity) who I desire as either a platonic companion/friend or a “friend-with-benefits”? ? ?

2007-10-26 15:54:19 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I was married 11 years. I met up with an old highschool boyfriend at my 10 year reunion and we started talking and found out we were both still thinking of each other. I stayed married for a year but then we started talking on the phone and I couldn't stay away. When my husband found out I had been talking to another man we ended up in a divorce. All through the process we remained friends. I even stayed in the house with him and my two children for two months. We were a very close family with a lot of traditions that I really miss now. My son always wants to be with his dad and my daughter is a mess going back and forth. We were great but it was mostly friends. My new guy and I both have two children but we have lead very different lives. Our relation is awesome but I hate missing out on my childrens lives. I finally feel like I have the love I have always wanted but is it enough. When do you know when to move on or to turn and run back?

2007-10-26 15:52:12 · 14 answers · asked by ekceb08 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-26 15:51:21 · 5 answers · asked by My Name Is Ken 5 in Singles & Dating

do you like it/would you like it when/if your partner wakes you up by kissing you until you open your eyes?

2007-10-26 15:47:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-26 15:45:55 · 15 answers · asked by janila 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you tell your friends a family that you bi?

2007-10-26 15:43:14 · 18 answers · asked by ♥Cassie Wassie♥ 2 in Friends

2007-10-26 15:41:59 · 50 answers · asked by Pluto VT 3 in Friends

This really is crazy! My mother had been having an affair with a man for 21/2 years. Not only did she cause me to have an unbelievable amount of stress, she caused it on the whole family. She lives 800 miles away and I found that he threatened my life while I was pregnant with my daughter in June. He didn't directly threaten me but left a message on my mother's cell phone. Well tonight, I found out that he now has threatened my 8 week old baby girl. Again by leaving a message on her phone. My mother broke up with him and he is beyond mad. To top this all off, he is a multi-millionaire that has many "connections". My husband talked to my mother and told her that it is either she can never see this man again, or she can never see her grand daughter. If you all are wondering, I'm 26 and my mom is 41. Yeah, I know she was young. I am so upset and that's putting it lightly! We can't use the voicemail that he left because he accessed her account and deleted it. Help!

2007-10-26 15:39:53 · 14 answers · asked by sparklelove8702 2 in Family

There is this girl who i fel in love with. She was everything i would ever want. I never could get the courage to ask her to be my wifee. We talked all night everyday. Then the calls got shorter until they were little to none. We told each other we loved one another and everything. Then she broke the news that she had a boyfriend for the peirod of the time we was talking. so she claims she didn't want to tell me cause she felt if i knew i wouldn't talk to her. I was heart brokin but i looked over it. Earlyer today she states that she is done with me... My question is. is it really over?

2007-10-26 15:39:43 · 8 answers · asked by yshforever 1 in Singles & Dating

I left an 11 yr relationship that went bad. I've been celibate for 1 1/2 year,and am dating again. I am afraid to have sex. What can I do?

2007-10-26 15:38:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I did not give her permission and she has done it to 2 other relatives but they dont know.

2007-10-26 15:38:04 · 7 answers · asked by ellenloveslee2003 2 in Family

.a girl i have known for more than half my life and ex girl is dating a guy. i have lived in washington for the past two years and could do nothing about it.i moved up back a couple of weeks ago and the tension between us was huge.we would give soft and delicate rubs to the each others sides when no one looks and other things.one night it was just me and her on the couch and things started off buy just tickleing each other then it led to massageing then before i knew it all i could see feel or touch was her her lips her neck everyhting whent white except for her face and i was fine with that.i love this girl more than i love anyhting i would live without everything just for a night with her.before i moved away and we were dating i told her every night in her ear i would wait for her if we ever got seperated.for two years i never touch another girl never kissed another girl.and now i seem to be to late becouse of this new guy what do i do.do i say somthing at the wedding please help!

2007-10-26 15:36:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was married 11 years. I met up with an old highschool boyfriend at my 10 year reunion and we started talking and found out we were both still thinking of each other. I stayed married for a year but then we started talking on the phone and I couldn't stay away. When my husband found out I had been talking to another man we ended up in a divorce. All through the process we remained friends. I even stayed in the house with him and my two children for two months. We were a very close family with a lot of traditions that I really miss now. My son always wants to be with his dad and my daughter is a mess going back and forth. We were great but it was mostly friends. My new guy and I both have two children but we have lead very different lives. Our relation is awesome but I hate missing out on my childrens lives. I finally feel like I have the love I have always wanted but is it enough. When do you know when to move on or to turn and run back?

2007-10-26 15:29:15 · 8 answers · asked by ekceb08 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ladies, how important are a guy's looks to you ? Whatelse do you consider important ?

What do you consider MOST important ?

All opinions are welcome.

2007-10-26 15:25:16 · 27 answers · asked by JustANiceGuyHere 4 in Singles & Dating

My soon-to-be step daughter is 4 and she will be in my wedding.

The thing is, the dress me and my fiance picked out, they stopped making so now we need a new dress!

The JBMs are wearing periwinkle, the BMs are wearing evening blue and my MOH is wearing a sky blue dress, so I'd perfer the dress be blue. I don't want to spend more than $1000 so please keep it lower. Thanks!

2007-10-26 15:06:41 · 15 answers · asked by Jasmine 4 in Weddings

would you ever date a girl that dresses preppy one day and kind of emo the next?

2007-10-26 15:06:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-26 15:05:19 · 1 answers · asked by Jessy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-26 14:59:22 · 4 answers · asked by dumbuglyweirdo 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

A few days ago I had a long talk with my husband about our relationship. I explained that I didn't think we should be married anymore. He had a difficult time with the news but accepted the fact that there wasn't anything he could do to change things. It's a long story. Anyway, because of our financial situation we both agreed that we should continue living together for now until we can afford to sell our home. Ever since our conversation, he's been doing a lot of nice things for me. He's been cooking, giving me massages, and trying to have sex with me. I've asked him several times not to cook for me.. it just doesn't seem right.. More importantly I'm not sure if I should give in to the sex because I don't want to send out any mixed signals. It's over and I hope he knows that. What should I do?

2007-10-26 14:59:05 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we've been together for almost 4 years now. i love her more then anything but she now says that she doesnt love me anymore. she said she still wants to talk on the phone and see each other at school. she said shes happy with me and has fun and that she really cares about me alot. she said she still wants to spend the rest of our lives with each other. i really believe her about this. she says she just doesnt feel the warmth around her heart anymore. she says its been about 4 months now. someone please help. whats going on? is this normal with women?

2007-10-26 14:50:58 · 22 answers · asked by cucumberman 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 17 and he's 31. I know that at my current age it wouldn't be a good choice, I wouldn't even approach him for any kind of relationship. But would you please specify at what age I could finally be ready for someone like him?

2007-10-26 14:49:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yup. Title pretty much sums it up. OH! And it's going to be a weekend in Vegas before we fly back up and let him get married. Haha

2007-10-26 14:48:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-10-26 14:47:56 · 1 answers · asked by Cristy V. 2 in Singles & Dating