do we write the names on the rsvps or does the guest write their name and return it to us?
2007-10-26 16:01:18 · 8 answers · asked by nataliexoxo 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
They write their names BUT some forget.
You could put their return address on the RSVP return envelope just in case some don't put their names on the RSVP card.
It happened to me. Thankfully I had the return address put on so I knew who responded!
2007-10-26 16:08:50 · answer #1 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They will write their names.
And when they mail it back, most people will put their return address on the envelope, so if they forget to write their name, it will be on the envelope.
While some of these suggestions were good, I would have wanted to shoot myself if I had to create a numbering system to track them or some other super time consuming task. I am far too busy for all that nonsense.
While planning my wedding, I still had to go to work every day, cook dinner, do laundry, do dishes, go grocery shopping, and take care of my baby boy... among other things. But if you are young, live at home w/ parents, don't have a job and have no kids, I can see you having time to number every RSVP card going out.
2007-10-26 23:18:59 · answer #2 · answered by Proud Momma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They write their names in themselves, but my sister-in-law had a great idea for the ones who forget:
She assigned each person on her guest list a number (it was on an Excel spreadsheet, so that made it easy). Before she sent out her invitations , she penciled in the guest number on the back of the RSVP card. It was a lot quicker than having to write out return addresses on the RSVP card envelopes, and it saved a lot of confusion when guests forgot to fill out their names.
2007-10-26 23:12:22 · answer #3 · answered by Emmy Jo (13 weeks with #2) 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They write their own names....also include a space for them to write HOW MANY PEOPLE are coming..that way you know if people are going to be bringing their guests or not.
2007-10-26 23:35:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of RSVP cards show something like
M_________________ (they fill in Mr. Mrs. Ms, and their name)
Attending __ guests
wont' be attending
Enjoy!
etc.
2007-10-27 02:07:29 · answer #5 · answered by Asked and Answered 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They write their names.
2007-10-26 23:05:42 · answer #6 · answered by OCMama 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
they write their names and the number of people that they are bringing,, ie Mr. and Mrs Smith 4 (that means they are bring the 2 brats with them)
2007-10-26 23:07:09 · answer #7 · answered by hello kitty 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They call you and let you know who is comming.
2007-10-26 23:04:20 · answer #8 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 0⤊ 5⤋