Ladies, how important are a guy's looks to you ? Whatelse do you consider important ?
What do you consider MOST important ?
All opinions are welcome.
2007-10-26 15:25:16 · 27 answers · asked by JustANiceGuyHere 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Appearance is not that importance to me. Personality and Value are, sense of humor, too. All of my former boyfriends are tall and good looking, but they did not have the family quality I was looking for. My husband does not have the great look, he is average, but his heart is so much bigger. We've been married for over 10 years with 3 beautiful children.
2007-10-26 15:31:30 · answer #1 · answered by TheOne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, looks are important because women judge guys based on looks from first impressions. However, once they get to know you, the looks aren't the most important thing anymore, it's more about the personality and who you are. So, looks first and personality comes second. Many women want a guy who can provide for her too and would do anything for her. Most women just want to be in a secured relationship, meaning that they can be fully dedicated to them.
2007-10-26 22:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
looks, humor, intelligences and style but over all if a guy has a nice personality it really doesn't matter what they look like because love doesn't have a shape, color or form it a feeling you have for someone but at the end of the day you have to think of whats best. The nice looking guy with money that beats the **** out of you or the guy that is ugly but has personality that treats you well that is not rich with money but rich in love and would never lay hands on you. what would you rather have?
2007-10-26 22:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by muggimoms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, looks aren't *that* important to me. I wouldn't date a butterface, but he doesn't have to be drop dead gorgeous either. Above all, TRUST AND HONESTY are top priorities to me. If there's no trust in the relationship (any relationship, even just friends), there is no relationship.
Sense of humor is another important thing to me. If you can't laugh at the little things at life, you're way too effin serious for me.
Someone who can hold a good conversation, respect me and my family, have a good time (either kick back with a beer, or a night out works for me), are also good qualities to have.
2007-10-26 22:28:42 · answer #4 · answered by your_star_03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not quite sure what I consider the MOST important. However, I think a sense of humor and a nice smile are my two major things. If a men I date has the ugliest face, but a gorgeous smile and a great personality, I'm all up for it.
Be happy with who you are!
2007-10-26 22:28:57 · answer #5 · answered by Alice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.....some of us women like looks and some dont care like say i think a guy is cute and my friend dosent its from a different point of view what else is important of a guy would have to be hise colonge/best is adidas or axe/ if the ladie dosent l;ike it switch immediatly and most of all if she seems annoyed by you some days let her be or ask her wats wrong its a chance for you to get closer
2007-10-26 22:30:06 · answer #6 · answered by of_course_sarah101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean I'm not gonna lie, the first thing i notice is a guys appearance, and i'm not going to be with someone i'm not attracted to physically, but you don't have to be a model,i just have to find you sexy..thats all.
But without a doubt, the most important and defining thing about a guy is his personality, because i have met a lot of beautiful men, but they're jack******. So there you go.
2007-10-26 22:30:00 · answer #7 · answered by Scooby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well looks are important but I really love a good sense of humor and someone who is humble. Arrogant, cocky guys are a huge turnoff. Also when guys are athletic and fit, that's really good. Personality is a huge thing too, someone boring and flat is just that blah. Confidence is a great thing to have and GOOD TEETH!!! Bad teeth are just so...ugh, I can't even look at guys with bad teeth.
2007-10-26 22:38:10 · answer #8 · answered by Call me K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They way he treats me is more important than the looks....I mean there has to be some attraction but not the only thing that matters.....I like honesty so I would say for me that is the most important part....... I hope this helps :)
2007-10-26 22:29:54 · answer #9 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somewhat important in the looks. It's not necessarily the main deal. Integrity, character, what is he made of. Upbringing, morals, family background all this makes the man. Job or career goals. Where is he going in his life. Does he have a life....what does he do for fun, or activities. Does he know who he is, and does he stand by it. What are his admitted faults....we all have them. Hope this gives you an insight into what women want.....
2007-10-26 22:34:20 · answer #10 · answered by Toffy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋