Family & Relationships - 26 October 2007

2007-10-26 14:47:39 · 12 answers · asked by robeen c from MAURITIUS 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-26 14:45:05 · 17 answers · asked by Jordan 24 2 in Friends

Howdy, I like this girl at work and i my ex also works there,...she told me one day that i should stop talking to the girl i like cuz i was annoying her....however, later I talked to another guy at work and he told me that the girl i like was wondering why I hadn't talked to her yet....so my ex says shes annoyed by me, but my other friend at work tells me she wants to talk to me...so who do i believe..the ex or the other guy friend?

2007-10-26 14:45:00 · 16 answers · asked by ipodmaster2688 2 in Singles & Dating

Just looking for some stories of personal experience. Why did you let your lover go in the first place? What made you realize that you wanted them back? How did it turn out in the end?

( I was the one who was let go...)

2007-10-26 14:43:34 · 21 answers · asked by HoneyChild 2 in Singles & Dating

Ive only been working for about 2 weeks at this job and I just got engaged. I started wearing my engagement ring and I noticed a lot of reactions at my job. A couple of people were curious if I was married and I said I am getting married so they said congrats. I noticed a few girls that seemed to react differently towards me than usual. They didnt ask me if I was married they were mostly quiet around me, but acknowledged that I was wearing a ring. One girl who I usualy talk to seemed to be very disrespectful to me since I started wearing the ring. Can someone tell me whats going on here? Why are these girls mad at me?

2007-10-26 14:38:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My husband and I had a huge argument tonight. It was over something stupid that I overreacted to. I said a lot of stupid stuff that I didn't really mean because I was mad. He said he wants a divorce...he says that everytime we have a big argument. He called me names, told me I'm stupid, that I'm ugly and fat and how he can't stand fat people and that he doesn't love me. This situation has repeated itself a few times throughout our two year marriage. Things always get better, he apologizes, I apologize, etc. I really love him. I've been working at keeping my impulsiveness under control and I'm trying to lose weight...both because he has said those things about me and because they are things in myself that need to be fixed. I really do love him and can't imagine life without him...that may sound kind of pathetic, given everything I've said here, but it's true. But I'm tired of apologizing and trying to make things right. Do I need to change or is this marriage meant to be over?

2007-10-26 14:37:52 · 17 answers · asked by Angelia 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Today during Language arts, we had to get in these groups and I was with two of my friends that are girls and my best friend that's a guy. Well this other girl that hates my guts for some reason was talking about how she got busted by our assitance principle for breaking the dress code. So I'm like who are you talking about? They said, "That fat lady!" Then I'm like, "You mean Mrs. H, she is one of the sponsers for student council. She's cool!" Then this other guy who was running against me for student council president said, " I'm proud of you livvy." What does he mean by that?

2007-10-26 14:37:41 · 3 answers · asked by livvy 3 in Singles & Dating

I was with my ex 4, 4 years. we had a little girl, n that seemed to change how we was, always on, off. then i discovered i was pregnant again, n planned to get rid {sorry i know that sounds cold} He begged me not 2, saying that we'd make as a family. as soon as my son was born, he left me saying he needed space. He hasnt made no effort since, never calls, texts. he hasnt 1ce spent ne'time with his son, my little girl never got a 2nd birthday card. but then i get texts saying that him n his horrible mother wanna c my babies. This as happened so many times on n off 4 the past 8 months. My babies need consistency. There not toys u can play with when it suits. n i've told them this. Now xmas is cuming up n i know all the s**ts guna start again.. Wat do i do. bcoz its about my babies not me. I can just c them hurting them, Well my girl, coz my boy has only had me 4m birth. But my little girl asks 4 daddy. i seriously don't no wat 2 do...?

2007-10-26 14:34:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am looking for a gift for him. I want to get something elegant that 20 years from now he'll be able to look at and remember his son got this for him when he turned 50. He doesn't tend to wear jewellery of any kind though. Any suggestions?

2007-10-26 14:30:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

In the past year now sex between my wife and I has gone downhill.She will lay there and tell me she wants some loving,but refuses to return any affection.After watching on of the tv talkshows about men she has decided that men require no stimulation and she's not going to waste her time trying to please me,since that first time she's gained 100 lb's,which IS A MAJOR TURNOFF for me.our marrage of 15 years is getting closer to an end,and she refuses to go to counceling as it's my problem that I must get over.Any advice out there???

2007-10-26 14:27:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Some marriages, turned out to be very successful and lasting, while some other marriages turn out to be very unsuccessful and horrible, thus resulting sometimes in a divorce or separation. I do not understand WHY some couples live a good successful relationship while others are not that successful in their relationships. WHY IS IT LIKE THIS??? Is this part of life, that everything and everyone's luck is different from each other or something???? Sometimes, I feel so unfortunate and unlucky as a husband in general with a horrible wife. Till tis very day, I always dream of a much better woman in my life. I am 40 yrs old and been married for 15 long years. I am positively sure, that I married the wrong woman in my life, but now its too late. I am suffering the consequnces. I only stay because of my kiddos. I feel trap in a tight security prison forever, a unhappy husband with a horrible wife in general.

2007-10-26 14:27:00 · 19 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I was married last year and we still have not sent it out to people to said thank you card because we was moved, and just got a baby, also money...but we feel soooo bad for still not sent it out so now we finally going sent it out but i do not know how to said we are sorry for this really late card?... should i said " we know this is very late card but want to said thank you for the wedding gifts and very sorry for late card because due moved new house, had a baby boy, hope you forgiving us for this late card and thank you so much for the wonderful wedding gifts" i will sent it out with our wedding picture and our baby boy together with the thank you card.. how that sound? or if you can help me what to said how really sorry for we for sent it late card? with your help will be wonderful and thank you...

2007-10-26 14:26:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

1. When are you more prone to initiate sex with you husband?

a) After he's bought me flowers or taken me to dinner. He has to do something really special for me to initiate it.

b) Anytime and anywhere. He doesn't have to do anything special for me. It's my duty as a wife.

c) Never. Regardless of what he does I never intiate sex with him.

2. How does your husband treat you when it's time to get intimate?

a) Like a piece of meat. He gropes me and goes straight for the goods. You can forget foreplay.

b) He is very gentle with me and makes sure that I am warmed up and in the mood before anything takes place.

c) My husband never wants to have sex with me, so consider yourself lucky if he gropes you.

3. Does your husband literally get mad when you're not in the mood for sex?

a) Sometimes he gets irritated, but it's no big deal.

b) Yes. He gives me the silent treatment and treats me differently until I give in.

c) No, not at all. He understands.

2007-10-26 14:26:11 · 10 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have tried to forgive and forget,but I still get disgusted when we have sex,and am not aroused at all,this bothers him.

2007-10-26 14:26:07 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So me and my girl have been goin out for like 4 weeks now and ive just had enough. Its not her at all i just dont think im the relationship kinda guy. I havent kissed her yet and today at the dance you know her plan was to kiss me at a certain thime and the girl would freak and be like 5 min 3 min 2 min and jank. but when the time came she gave me a smirck i guesss epectiong me to put on the moves and i didnt. cuz the truth is i dont want to kiss her. i mean i kinda do but that kinda is just cuz im a dude. you know what i mean. Thanks and just what do i say to brake up with her

2007-10-26 14:25:34 · 5 answers · asked by sdfgsehrgd 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you still have to get a blood test before you get married? If so, why? What are you tested for?

2007-10-26 14:19:07 · 29 answers · asked by Brittany L 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my hubby for 8 years. I go salsa dancing alone all the time. Just recently he told me that he gets upset & jealous when I go. (he used to dance too but a few years ago gave it up). An old dance partner made me an offer of a life time -he wants to partner up again & compete & thinks we could win the championships & earn lots of $$ doing shows. I was extactic as it is something I only ever dreamed of (I retired from pro. dancing 5 years ago to have kids). this is my chance to make a come back but my husband said he is very uncomfortable with it & doesn't want me to do it. I am absolutely crushed & depressed about it. I don't want to hurt my husband but how can I give up on a LIFE long dream? ANY advice would be so helpful please!

2007-10-26 14:16:50 · 12 answers · asked by cabritamarie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i like this guy and he knows it and he likes me and i know it but he wont go out with me because he doesn't want to ruin our friendship....

2007-10-26 14:14:59 · 11 answers · asked by the helper lili 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-26 14:06:03 · 1 answers · asked by Fly Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

my parents think i'm anorexic. I am so not anorexic! I love food and I eat all 3 meals every day with snacks and dessert. I eat just as much as I always have. I am not fat- I'm 113 lbs and 5' 5". im 14. the BMI calculator says i'm healthy. so did my doctor. I wear a size 2 or 4 in jeans. I wore my sisters skinny jeans and cowboy boots to show my parents my halloween costume I'm planning as a cowgirl and they were like "you have lost a lot of weight. you should eat more. i'm surprised you fit into your sisters jeans." my sister had always been super skinny. she's 5'8" and 110 lbs. she is almost 16. my parents have always labeled her the skinny one. everyone thinks of her as the skinny one. now that i'm getting taller, my parents think im getting skinnier but im just growing! high metabolism runs in my family and its just normal. It hurts my feelings that they accuse me of being anorexic or bulemic when i'm just normal. I talked to my sister and she said the same thing. i'm normal right?

2007-10-26 14:01:38 · 7 answers · asked by 12345pony 1 in Family

im planning a wedding for sep 2011. when should i start planning?

2007-10-26 14:01:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Ladies,would you ever want to get married to a man that wants a sexless marraige because he is shy?Like me myself,im 20years old, a virgin,never smoked or drinked,never went on a date,never done nothing with a girl never kissed or even hugged one,and im very shy,i mean very very shy,..and im about to become a mulit-millionare in few montsh because im gonna be a vice president of a company..anways would you want to marry someone like me that wants a sexless marraige but only hugging and kissing because im very very shy and i wud be very shy 2 get naked in front of a woman because ive never been with one..thanks and im serious are there any woman out there that would like a marriage like that?thanks

2007-10-26 14:01:06 · 21 answers · asked by ESPN NEWS 1 in Weddings

If ur 17 but will be 18 in a month and a falf and u tell your parents you want to leave home but they wont let you so you leave anyway could u get in trouble if they got the police involved. and if someone left and stayed gone would they still be in trouble after they were 18?

2007-10-26 14:00:09 · 5 answers · asked by Atashi G 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

most of the member of our basketball varsity..we know each other since 4th grade being member of the midget team, then jr. team now sr. team..weve been comfortable with each other naked in the shower since we see each other way back when were not circumcised yet until now that we all have pubic hair except me which i only have very few pubic hair and none in my legs and armpit. all of them had sex already that according to them, of course i know some may be lying but it seems that they descirbe it very accurately whats the feeling of having sex. it leaves me the only one who is still a virgin. my GF since i was 14 we plan to have sex when we're ready and this time we thoughts its not the right time, i dont know when. though there are other girls who want me to have sex with them i thought i will not cheat my GF coz i love her. life is good for our team and we have won some championship and defeat as well. should i freak out being a virgin at 16...whats your thoughts..thanks

2007-10-26 13:59:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

smoke and do drugs? I am 16 and before and after school I see hundreds of kids in high school smoking. Half of the people in my classes smoke. Also, a lot of people just talk openly about the hits they want their friend to bring over that night or if they want to meet after school to smoke some crack. Why is it that so many people want to this when they know the consequences? It sickens me!

2007-10-26 13:57:59 · 1 answers · asked by charley 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm an Indian girl (east Indian) and I have an elder sister who is lying to my parents. About six years ago she got into a relationship with some guy.After a couple of years he got married to another girl since it was a forced arranged marriage. His parents found out that their son and my sister were still seeing each other even though the guy was married. His parents said that they'd take legal action if my sister didn't stop seeing this guy. After a couple of months they started meeting each other again and continued to remain as boyfriend and girlfriend and have sex with each other. Apart from this, she also has another boyfriend who is a drug addict and an alcoholic and is using her money to buy drugs and alcohol. He claims to love her and even has sex with her. My parents don't know anything about this and think that she's an angel.I cannot tell any of this to my parents because my father is suffering from high blood pressure and my mom would not be able to digest this information

2007-10-26 13:57:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is that supposed to scare me?

2007-10-26 13:57:09 · 19 answers · asked by Sunshine 1 in Family

i know i should be original but most of the guys steal all my ideas.This is for prom/homecoming. I want the girl to think that' i'm like the cutest most thoughtful guy ever
use your thinking caps everyone :)
PS thanks for even looking at the message

2007-10-26 13:55:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you flirt with guys? I think this girl at school likes me but im not exactly sure.

2007-10-26 13:55:30 · 7 answers · asked by Kenley y 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is it not OK for me to marry my BF of 8 years and it is OK for someone who's not known someone for more then a week to get married and devorce in a month. How is that noe runining the sanctity of marriage?

2007-10-26 13:54:26 · 23 answers · asked by Michael K 4 in Marriage & Divorce