Family & Relationships - 26 October 2007

Well, I have only been in 1 real relationship so far, everyone knew he was a jerk and somewhat abusive in a way. When this guy was at my house i was being silly and threw some pillows at him, like a joke. Then he came up to me and grabbed my arm.. like hard. It was odd because I knew it was somewhat a threat, but i kept smiling. Not long after that he were argueing and he threw every nasty word in the dictionary. The thing about him was that he was muscular.. and handsome.. Somewhat like the artist Frida Kahlo and her issues with abusive men, but she couldn't resist the connections she had with them. Now, there is this sweet boy who I think that really likes me. He isnt muscular, somewhat handsome, but I don't have many feeling for him as the last guy. I know it's bad but why do I feel this way or other females?

2007-10-26 12:11:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like if ur just gf/bf in school or watever, and you never actually go out to the movies or dinner or anything. is that possible? is it stupid? please answer! I am mostly looking for answers from middle schoolers though.

2007-10-26 12:07:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

y is my x ignoring me at school but when we see each other at other places, he is all lovey dovey kiss kiss LOL.we only went out like for less than a week. he isnt really the kind of a guy 4 a relationship cuz when we were going out he was getting pretty close with an old flame if u know wat i mean. he would hold her hand WHILE GOING OUT WITH ME!!! wen i found this out i couldnt believe it. am i holding on too much, we broke up on monday and its friday. or do i have a reason to b upset cuz i am very upset. we still kiss and everything but if he doesnt want to reunite or watever... i know i probably shouldnt be his little pet in the offseason huh. PULEEZZ HELP ME ASAP!!!

2007-10-26 12:07:27 · 5 answers · asked by "Sophya Roxy" 2 in Singles & Dating

What would you say of a guy came up to you where you work, so you know you're gonna see him again, and he asked you out?

If he was a guy that you were not attracted to?

If he was attractive but you didn't know if you should say yes?

And would you mention that you are talking to someone else, if he was a person you might say yes to?

When would you say "I'll think about it"

I know it's a lot of questions but your advice would be appreciated.

2007-10-26 12:06:45 · 15 answers · asked by mc 2 in Singles & Dating

im very shy person and when i do something my family makes a big deal out of it and they will embarrass and tease me about it.

like when i was 11 and i started to realy like girls they teased me about it big time not on purpose but they did. and when they do things like that it makes me not want to do what it was i was going to do.

so how should i tell them so that they wont act like they usualy do?

2007-10-26 12:06:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well, my husband and I have been together for going on three years now and we have 3 kids together. Recently things have gone down hill. He and I have recently become homeless due to a mild heart attact he had, he lost his job which meant we lost everything. Well, he went off and is staying with my dad and I am staying with my mother. Well, latley he has been hanging out with my 16 year old brother (my husband is 31) and going out on drives mostly all day. He and I have grown apart and I am starting to rethink my marriage. Hes never there for me. Hes always out and I never ever get a break. I don't know what to do because a part of me loves him and another just wants to walk away. I just don't understand how a grown man can just ignore his kids and wife. It just doesn't make sence. I guess my question is, is he cheating? And should I find something better?

2007-10-26 12:05:53 · 8 answers · asked by Lisa B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How can a father call his own daughter a stupid wh*re and useless because she will go into the real world and get pregnant and he will disown her. He's said so many manipulative and demeaning things to me throughout my life, and he thinks it's because he was trying to discipline me. When i finally stood up to him and told him to stop talking to me that way, he stoped talking to me and hasn't for the past 5 or 6 months. He wont even look at my face if he were to see me in a room. How can a father do that?!

2007-10-26 12:01:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

In my opinion, the answer is "no" Your vows plainly state forsake all others. My friends husband gave his phone number to some girl he met and they had been calling each other. My friend knew nothing about this other woman. When she found out, she confronted her husband and he told her the other woman was a friend and the relationship is strictly platonic. Yet the messages this other woman, was leaving on my friends husbands voicemail, suggest otherwise. My thinking, why is he trying to acquire female friends, regardless of the degree of the relationship? He's married. What are your thoughts?

2007-10-26 11:57:47 · 66 answers · asked by forever charmed 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Never mind... Today it is free because I like you. I have no idea who the young lady is, but if you do please share the information.
Thanks for helping.

http://video.yahoo.com/video/play?vid=1933fbb06b5d9a9c702212ce0fb30bbf.951695

2007-10-26 11:57:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm a 16 year old boy

i plan on shaving my head and painting it green, wearing a skirt, hot pink shirt, a black blazer and a black tie
and a sign on my back that says "i'm a virgin" and one around my neck that says "lost a bet"
i plan on wearing it all over town. in every store so lots of people can see

2007-10-26 11:55:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm single male 30 yrs old - i decided that it's time to marry
i don't have a gurl that i love or admire how can i get married
i have the house - money- car .. etc
i din't have the girl - how can i find here

2007-10-26 11:54:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brother is getting married and combining 2 households (second marriage for both and there are 6 kids involved). The only thing they need is some money to help them finish their basement so they have room for the entire family under one roof. They would like to ask for Home Depot gift cards, but don't know how to word it. Any suggestions? Is it rude to do at all? I'm of the new school that doesn't think it's rude to put registry cards in the invites...

2007-10-26 11:53:48 · 16 answers · asked by Silver Surfer 1 in Weddings

He paid child support for a child that was not his and the child was concieve while they were married now she is continuely going up on the child support he is already paying for his daughter. We love the kids and we get all of them every other weekend with no problems and they love to be around. They call thru the week asking us to come and get them and take them to school in the mornings we got off to a rocky start but he feels like he needs his money back. It does not bother me at all I need help!!!!!!!!

2007-10-26 11:51:45 · 30 answers · asked by missharrio 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-26 11:48:31 · 14 answers · asked by vturner23 1 in Singles & Dating

It seems like the more we are married the less sex there is, and I know stresses from kids and money and every day life are factors, but its just seems like we just can't connect like we did before.

2007-10-26 11:48:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my friends told my boyfriend to kiss me and then he said i don't like pda.
is he just stupid or dose it mean somthing?

2007-10-26 11:46:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm planning a wedding and need ceremony and reception hall ideas. I'm planning it for either LA, Orange, Riverside, or San Bernardino County. I'd love to hear about where you had your wedding or if you attended a wedding around these parts. I desperately need ideas. I've been to several, but they weren't very nice. Help!

2007-10-26 11:43:33 · 13 answers · asked by frienatic2173 1 in Weddings

I thought I was the daughter of a Russia princess when I found I was adopted (age 6). Found out she lives in my town and I found her in the phone book and rang her when I was 26. She said she got rid of me cos her husband was coming home from jail and I wasn't his. That aside I had a wonderful life with my family. In my job I drive past her house and saw her coming out her door one day so I pulled up, went across and said who I was. She was pleased to see me, nice and said she's like to see me again. I said I would get in touch. This was maybe 2 years ago. I'm now 46 and she's well in her 80's. She's still alive cos her house hasn't changed. I never told my 'mum' I had anything to do with her. My kids said go see her else I would end up regretting it. What would you do?

2007-10-26 11:42:52 · 35 answers · asked by Paula B 2 in Family

my relationship always end and be blame for it! they always accused me of doing something behind their back....but god knows i never did....

on my last relationship, i never show this guy that i'm so needy...i follow all those rules in terms of relationship...i did try my best not to make any mistakes that i did in my past relationship. but still here i am ALONE AGAIN :(

this time what did i do wrong?
*info* his mad cz of my ex...

2007-10-26 11:41:52 · 22 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

She keeps pissing in the house!

2007-10-26 11:39:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I really still love my bf but we broke up and i still like him and i have to get over him caz he likes my friend. i told her and she said no to him but i no a girl will say yes to him and im gonna be sad. i want to completely erase him from my thoughts. plz give me tips,songs,or etc to help me get over him plz. thanks its been hard for me.thanks

2007-10-26 11:38:22 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is this how people can have more than 1 spouse? I mean a person can love more than 1 child so why not more than 1 person?

2007-10-26 11:36:40 · 19 answers · asked by Johnnyo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Would it be wrong of me to ask them for a three way? NO SERIOUS ANSWERS PLEASE....i'm soooo confused!! Just wanted to throw out a new style of boy girl problems.

2007-10-26 11:36:11 · 4 answers · asked by david 4 in Singles & Dating

OK my fiancee and I are heading down the isle once again...meaning my 2nd and his 3rd....not forgetting I was in a 5 year engagement prior to him. We have no children between us and we are in our mid 30's, so the cost of this splendid affair is all on us. How the h**l to I word these invitations? Both of our parents are divorced and re-married. Im starting to think Vegas???

2007-10-26 11:32:49 · 14 answers · asked by Nurse Blondie 2 in Weddings

Did they have a dog?
Did they have bars on their home?

2007-10-26 11:31:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How long will it take for my emotions to get back on track? when will the pain go away? I know it's only been 4 months but I won't cry I always felt that crying is a sign of weakness but I know it's not true...But I've always been the type of woman that really don't others to see me crying...what should I do?

2007-10-26 11:30:03 · 34 answers · asked by Shay Money 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friend has a new girlfriend. I never really liked her. I think she is snobby and isn't even nice to him. But I guess he his happy. Well today we were at school and he said something about riding bus number 03, when he really rides bus number 12, so I said no you don't.. You ride 12. Then he was all like. Shhh. Then his girlfriend asked me how I knew what bus he rode. He told me, that's how I knew. He's my best friend, I remember things like tht. The way she said it.. It annoyed me soo much. She thinks she is better then me just cuz she is going out with him. She has changed him a lot! Not better. He is always ditching me and his other friend, just for her and her friends. I dunno what to do. I use to like him, but not any more. So it's not like I'm jealous. I mean it's good.. if he is happy. But I dunno what to do.
Any ideas? To get him to hang out with me and our other friends more?

2007-10-26 11:29:49 · 5 answers · asked by Unknown. 3 in Friends

2007-10-26 11:29:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

yeah all he does is stare and but idk if to go out with him again he told my friend he loved me and that he wants me back but he broke up with me the first time so idk what should i do.....give him another chance?

2007-10-26 11:27:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-26 11:26:17 · 42 answers · asked by hoggcow 1 in Friends