My best friend has a new girlfriend. I never really liked her. I think she is snobby and isn't even nice to him. But I guess he his happy. Well today we were at school and he said something about riding bus number 03, when he really rides bus number 12, so I said no you don't.. You ride 12. Then he was all like. Shhh. Then his girlfriend asked me how I knew what bus he rode. He told me, that's how I knew. He's my best friend, I remember things like tht. The way she said it.. It annoyed me soo much. She thinks she is better then me just cuz she is going out with him. She has changed him a lot! Not better. He is always ditching me and his other friend, just for her and her friends. I dunno what to do. I use to like him, but not any more. So it's not like I'm jealous. I mean it's good.. if he is happy. But I dunno what to do.
Any ideas? To get him to hang out with me and our other friends more?
2007-10-26 11:29:49 · 5 answers · asked by Unknown. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Again he is my BEST FRIEND!
I can't just get a new one.
and I DON'T LIKE HIM ANY MORE!
=]
2007-10-26 11:37:24 · update #1
i think she is jealous of your relationship with him. u should get him all alone and tell him how u feel about him and her. then ask him will he hang out with you for a day to make up for all the missed time u havent had with him.
2007-10-26 11:42:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you like him for more than a firend and she knows this is why she makes him ditch you.
I could be wrong I ahve been before, but be honest, is there even the tiniest bit of truth to what I said?
2007-10-26 18:35:06 · answer #2 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM!!! I mean it, tell him how you fell about it. One of my best friends are like that. I hate when he dates because its like no one else is alive. I don't like him but hes like my brother every time we see each other we hug and call each other brother and sister because we are so close. So it kills me to see him with someone because he changes.
I told him that to. That's what you have to do. Tell him how you fell when he is with someone~Like tell him that you hate that he has changed just to be with ONE girl. And you hate when he ditches you for her. Just reminded him of how he was before he dated her.
And let him know that he can lose get more girlfriends but when you lose a best friend you lose half of your life. (What that means is that he can date anyone but when/if he loses you he pretty much lost what he don't realize he has)
2007-10-26 18:49:37 · answer #3 · answered by savanna o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, this happens with all best friends and there is really not much you can do. the most you could do is get your friends together and bring it to his attention. and even if she is a bi***, u have to put up with her. the worst thing you can do is talk bad about her to him (dont do this). when you talk with him you dont even need to metion her name. but like i said everyone goes through this.... if you look around you find similar questions just like yours.
2007-10-26 18:39:45 · answer #4 · answered by Jukebox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch those two and get soem new friends and a BETTER boyfriend... someone that'll care for you.. you dont need them!!!
2007-10-26 18:36:18 · answer #5 · answered by sydnipaige 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋