Family & Relationships - 26 October 2007

her dad died today and her mom is diagnosed with lymphatic cancer. what can i do to help her

2007-10-26 10:42:02 · 19 answers · asked by danielle 2 in Family

And now she wants me not to ever think of her sexaly again. Says I should be at the age of not thinking about sex ever again. I'm 39, she's 34.

2007-10-26 10:40:14 · 18 answers · asked by shadow of life. 2 in Marriage & Divorce

k well today when i got home from school i went into my sisters room to find something that was mine and i found some white powdery stuff in ziplock bags (it was hidden) anyway she is about 17 and im 15. i have done my share of bad things too like sneaking out and going places tht i would never be alowed to go do and she drinks and stuff but i think this is terrible. because then i googled what the powdery stuff was and it was cocaine... i feel terrible and to my mom she makes me look bad and makes her self look good. i dont want to tell on her becuase i have snuck out and went to New York City alone for the day (i live In Westchester) and i also got drunk one night. she is the kind of person that would turn on me in a second so i am not going to tell but what do i do becuase my insides feel awful! what can i do to relax.? (also she doesnt know what i found)


thanks! :\
-chuck

2007-10-26 10:40:12 · 9 answers · asked by Chuck Cartalono 2 in Family

2007-10-26 10:38:14 · 38 answers · asked by Joe M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

why is love so hard and hurtful

2007-10-26 10:36:38 · 12 answers · asked by Nicola B 2 in Singles & Dating

how do i know when i'm in love...im a senior in high school and i really like my gf...and she really likes me...i really like her, not to be a creep or anything but sometimes shes all i can think about and i really like bein around her

2007-10-26 10:36:06 · 21 answers · asked by Joe S 1 in Singles & Dating

She comes to me crying with because her father hits her for really stupid stuff or if she is just in the way when he is pissed off. I dont want to just sit by and do nothing while it happens but I also dont want to screw up her life by telling someone and getting him taken away or worse, telling someone and them not taking him away. He will know she told someone and then really beat her. Apparantly it doesnt happen as much as it used to but I dont think it should happen at all. There are no really visable bruises.......... What should I do?

2007-10-26 10:33:46 · 13 answers · asked by answers are new questions 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. I am his first girlfriend. He is thinking of getting his own place soon. The problem is that he wants to live on his own for a while (who knows how long) before either living with his friends or with me. I am to the point where I am wondering if he will ever commit to me. I realize that he doesn't want to rush things, but we are not moving at all.
He is always late for everything, and always waits until the last possible minute to make plans. He is an incurable slob, his car and room are knee deep in garbage. I have tried so hard to talk to him about these things, and it changes for maybe a week and then he is back at square one. He has plenty of free time, so I don't see why any of this is still an issue.
I love him, but I am to the point where I am wondering if this is really what I want. I don't feel fulfilled, and I feel I have failed to make a positive impact on his life.
Will someone please help me out here?

2007-10-26 10:32:39 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-26 10:30:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Related: Linda Hamilton could probably whoop my ***.

2007-10-26 10:30:13 · 7 answers · asked by Brandon's been a dirty Hore 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

my dad is a very bad alcholic and he will not listen to me about stopping i guess no one will because he tends to drink every other weekend he drinks durring weeks and he has a 2 year old and a 13 year old im just wondering what could i do please help

2007-10-26 10:28:57 · 4 answers · asked by t515 1 in Family

Not wondering for myself, just curious..assuming a girl is in good shape, tall or short? or what is the perfect height

2007-10-26 10:25:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm brazlian(really tanned , green eyes , black hair) but i was raised in Ireland so i have a soft irish accent.I feel as if my accent does'nt go with my exotic looks :(

I look extremly exotic but i have this irish accent, so guys would you find that attractive or do you think i would seem weird cuz of the accent? i'm moving to america next month and i'm afriad people will find it weird because of my strong exotic looks.


Thanks! :)

2007-10-26 10:17:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so there's a guy..ive been talkin 2 him 4 a year now and we started out completely wrong. It was like we never saw eachother as more than a one night stand. well we kept talkin and now we are together and in love. I think he loves me more than i love him and sometimes i feel bad because he gets on my nerves and sometimes i even question myself, like do i love him or is it just the sex. What should i do?

2007-10-26 10:17:28 · 9 answers · asked by SiMPly ME. 2 in Singles & Dating

Does your status have any impact on your life now?

2007-10-26 10:16:24 · 20 answers · asked by Glitter 5 in Singles & Dating

mine would be shrimps

2007-10-26 10:14:02 · 22 answers · asked by SilverstreaK_1066 3 in Singles & Dating

my friend had told me if a girl have sex wit a lot of guys she is a HOE,SLUT and some other rude word but if a guys was to do the samething he would be called the MAN!!!!

2007-10-26 10:12:47 · 6 answers · asked by tati7128 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Anyone else believe this???

2007-10-26 10:12:26 · 63 answers · asked by Michelle L 1 in Singles & Dating

is it really as bad as they all say?

2007-10-26 10:10:24 · 7 answers · asked by mauikittie 5 in Singles & Dating

Well their is this guy and he is only 15 like me but he told me he would quit weed.. because i will not be around that stuff and i just want to know how i can tell if he really quits i am having some friends pay attenchin to him but i just need more advice

2007-10-26 10:10:00 · 8 answers · asked by Ashley C 2 in Friends

I really like this girl in my classes, but i don't know if if she likes me or not.
-She waves and says hi whenever she see me.
-We write little notes to each other.
-We talk all the time (even on the phone).
-She calls me her pretend boyfriend.
-She introduces me to all her friends.
-She always sits next to me at lunch.
-She always tells me I'm cute.

So what do you guys think? Does she like me?

2007-10-26 10:07:57 · 46 answers · asked by Kazuya 2 in Singles & Dating

Sorry but the 'magic' is lost...

2007-10-26 10:07:08 · 6 answers · asked by Tex Ahoy 2 in Singles & Dating

My hubby still acts like he did when we first got together 10 years ago. We have a 4 month old baby boy and 5 year old son, yet my hubby still goes out fri/sat night, stops off at the pub on the way home from work for nearly an hour, goes AWOL to meet his mates, and won't get up and help in the mornings with the kids. He never gets up before 8:30am on a week day, and sleeps in till 11am at the weekend. He NEVER does the night feeds, and i even had to confront him about holding our baby boy as i realised he hadn't held/cuddled him for at least 24 hours. I appreciate that he works, but his job is very easy (he admits he doesn't work that hard as his job is very up and down) and it seems that he doesn't want to spend quality time as a family. He is adamant that he loves us all and doesn't regret having kids, but 90% of the time i feel so alone and might as well be a single mum.

2007-10-26 10:06:33 · 42 answers · asked by cuddlymummy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiancee and I both have children (1 boy and 1 girl between us) and we want to include them in the wedding. They already have positions as flower girl and best man (?), but we want to do something to bring us together as a family.

2007-10-26 10:04:46 · 16 answers · asked by 102&111 1 in Weddings

I gossiped very intimate information about a friend to my husband and best friend and now I can't get them to stop making comments about her. Now, everytime I'm with this friend, they make comments and remarks about her that are uncalled for. I'm truly sorry and regret that I ever said anything about her to them. I've asked them to not talk about her like that but they won't. How do I get them to stop?

2007-10-26 10:03:37 · 18 answers · asked by Moorehowse 2 in Friends

you lost your virginity to?

2007-10-26 10:02:49 · 3 answers · asked by Modernday_Aphrodite 5 in Singles & Dating

Here's my quick sad story: Married for 3 1/2 yrs. In the first three months of our marriage (and ONLY the first three months) bad things happened. He physically abused me and I cheated on him with my exboyfriend. We weren't in love, I guess, when we first got married. I think we only thought we were. As time went on we tried to forgive and forget and really, truly fell in love. We had our son (21 mths old now) and now I'm 30 weeks pregnant with our second child. We were finally doing things right - both full time in college, finally achieving goals together. Although we had our fights, things seemed okay. Not anymore. Over the past few months he's been telling me he wants out & that he's felt like this for a while but he was trying to tell himself otherwise because he did want it to work. He said he can't live a lie anymore: that he can't forgive, he only thought he could. I tried to get him to see a counselor, he doesn't want to. Said it's too late and no use.

2007-10-26 10:02:23 · 29 answers · asked by Chele 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i know this sounds RETARDED, btu everytime my friend hugs me, i like smelling his hair. but h has such a good smell!!!!! even his jacket has that everytime he lets me borrow his jacket, im smelling it.

wow. this is so embarrassing.

2007-10-26 09:59:15 · 13 answers · asked by yahooanswers 2 in Singles & Dating

My hub has this disgusting habit - if he sees a smudge of something, anything somewhere in the house-on the floor, the wall, on the car, table, anywhere..he licks his finger and tries to wipe it with his spit finger!
Swear to god!
Like he has bionic super-cleaner spit or something!
I am SO SICK of nagging him about this but it's just so gross that I'm going to flip my lid if he doesn't stop it!
So besides just saying "that's gross" or whatever, please give me some other things to say to him to convince him to stop doing it! And saying that putting his fingers in his mouth is germy won't phase him-he thinks he has super immunity or something and I hate to say it but he never does get sick. But it makes me sick to watch him do the housework with saliva! Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

2007-10-26 09:58:32 · 14 answers · asked by JungleJane 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to forget this boy I have a crush on. Im 13 and he is 16-17. I found out recently, and I really just want to forget him because I know people wont really accept us going out.
What do you think of this?

I used to like him and im really sure he used to like me, alough we have only talked very briefly.

How do you forget something you really want to carry on? Thanks people.

2007-10-26 09:56:16 · 7 answers · asked by нαωαιιαи ιcє♥ 2 in Singles & Dating