Family & Relationships - 26 October 2007

I feel like crap today...I just want to sleep...I may have lost one of my friend's notebooks that was very important...the guy I like just got this horrible haircut and I haven't been able to him in days, and i feel bad because the last time I talked to him I was kind of mean to him...And now I have to go to the dance. I promised some people I'd be there so I have to go, even though I don't really feel like it. But I think it would be good for me to go...
What do you want to complain about? Go ahead, say anything...

2007-10-26 08:29:18 · 9 answers · asked by asdfjkl; 3 in Singles & Dating

Hi Websites,
I do not have money to pay you but all i know is that the girl that I love is getting married and I hope you can help me to tell her that i love her and do not marry the guy, i dont have anymore communication with her. She is marrying the guy to runnaway into something and i know she is not going to be happy. Please guys i know this is sound stupid or this sounds like movies but this is happening and i can not let it go because she is the only girl that i love and i can not find another one like her. please if you are on my same situation you're going to do the same thing for the person you love. Please help me. Maybe we could do some advertisement or anything i just want her back and prove her family that i love their daughter so much and i'll do anything. Please.

2007-10-26 08:28:34 · 5 answers · asked by anthony 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband of 10 years left without me to go to a reunion. I asked him to stop at a mall to pick something up on the way out of town. He said there was no time. It was a 40 minute delay..I asked him to stop there on our way out of town he said no..I had to pick up the item befor 5pm or loose it so I went to get it and when I returned home, he was gone. When I called him he said that I could not control him so quit trying.

2007-10-26 08:28:28 · 18 answers · asked by nodak n 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband of 2 months has been friends with this female (Amber) for over three years and were once roommates when Amber's mom kicked her and Amber's 3 year-old daughter out of the house. (Amber was my husband's friend's girlfriend who passed away). Early in the relationship I went to each of them and confirmed that they never had ANY history together and they haven't. I also made sure that if they are to remain friends, there should be some boundaries because my husband is now a married man. So far they have complied with some of the boundaries but his friend has no friends of her own. Whenever there's a problem (or she just wants to talk), she calls or texts my husband at all hours of the day & night (which I've verbally disapproved of) . She continues to text my husband silly pictures of her little girl, asking him to watch her dog for days at a time, or comes over unannounced. I'm getting very annoyed. Am I being irrational or should I handle this myself?

2007-10-26 08:28:24 · 19 answers · asked by wrtrchk 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Other than a judge as well.

2007-10-26 08:28:00 · 27 answers · asked by lost_in_transit326 2 in Weddings

I have a great friend who I've always been able to identify with because we both dated (she married) men who make less money than us and are not as financially stable as we are. (This is not how we became friends, just a coincidence.) My boyfriend and her husband both didn't finish college and it has severly effected their income potential. That being said, we have always had great relationships because we did not place that much importance on money and material things. She got married a few years back. Now, she is getting divorced. She sad that the stress of being the breadwinner is too much and fears that it will just get worse if they have kids (she wants kids). Now I can't help but think "if they can't make it, what makes me think that we can?". I know I should not base my actions on what is going on in someone else's life but it really shakes me. Plus I want to be a supportive friend and think about what she is going through. I just can't help myself though.

2007-10-26 08:27:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how i await to see your beauty, you have a mystical glow.That causes me to be spellbound, reaching from miles away.
How i long to bestow your love, for you entraped my soul. (that's all can think of to make sense)

2007-10-26 08:25:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why his it that my ex wife starts talking **** to me when she finds me at the club shes at? Why does she not want me to go out she wants me home with the baby all day I dont mind but she dont take care of her she gets home and leaves me again with the baby what to do

2007-10-26 08:24:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when they've spent half their day watching Jeremy Kyle & Loose Women?

2007-10-26 08:23:44 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My step children are rude to me quite often, and my husband says it is nothing personal and that it is my imagination. I know differently, however they are his children and if this is way he sees it, I am convenienced that there is absolutely nothing I can do about it. My step daughter just called and when I answered the phone, her dad is still at work, she said something to one of her brothers and just hung up on me. She is 16 and I am not mean to her. Should I tell my husband this happened or just drop it. I feel that this type of thing is driving a wedge between us....don't know what to do here....really!!!

2007-10-26 08:21:24 · 14 answers · asked by Rein 5 in Family

If so does it provide expert advise as well?

2007-10-26 08:17:33 · 4 answers · asked by calsoft 1 in Singles & Dating

they hurt the one they say they love

2007-10-26 08:16:11 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-26 08:07:08 · 15 answers · asked by butterflylover 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how do i move on...he's like piss off at me already because I think he feel use cause I always annoy him with my questions to classwork cause now he I ask him,he just says he dont know if though I know he knows...anywayz..I need to move on..

2007-10-26 08:06:22 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...being a pervert? Everybody knows that all guys are preverts. Why is that so bad?

2007-10-26 08:06:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I,m just curius. I lost my virginity when i was 15 When's the right time

2007-10-26 08:04:55 · 70 answers · asked by (;Z-man;) 1 in Singles & Dating

when they come from work they don't talk,they just sit on the couch,my mom cries all day and my dad has head aches and they fight all day
what can i do i try to talk to them but they dont want to talk to me all the time because i'm just a child and stuff
please help me

2007-10-26 08:03:02 · 4 answers · asked by andreea a 1 in Family

We bought a house 4 years ago and my name is not on the title. I saw a lawyer, she told me since he was the one to pay for the mortgage, I can't ask for the share of the property. How about i pay for groceries, household stuffs, clean the house, cook, fix small things around... he never touch his hands on any thing in the house. What he paid is making interest (equity) and what paid is gone, is it fair???

The lawyer also said I can ask for spouse support, but since his financial situation is a stupid mess (he is a gambler), he has nothing left to pay (he earns over 60,000/year)

I am 57 years old, don't have steady job. Some invisible physical problem. What can I do?

2007-10-26 07:59:06 · 12 answers · asked by roses 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i'n having a maijor issue with my boyfriend, i left my phone at home yesturday, well i know that he goes through my phone which i have no problem with, but someone is playing a sick joke on me and sent me a picture of my ex husband and ben
found it and thought that i keep it one there because i'm not over him. I had NO idea it was on my phone!!! i told him why would i keep a picture of him on there when i know that you look through my phone everyday", and he said it's just an excuse, that i new it was there. i would never lie to him and i didn't know it was there, he's so mad at me, how do i talk to him and make him believe me. I love this man more than i have ever loved anyone!! the thought of losing him kills me

2007-10-26 07:58:47 · 33 answers · asked by yamahaviper_00 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I know you miss the Durden, ya...

2007-10-26 07:56:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

someone told me they didn't exist...

2007-10-26 07:54:47 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Because I have!

If you've had this problem, what happened?

And what did you do about it?

Did you accidentally laugh?

2007-10-26 07:53:20 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

it has been a few wks since we officially broke up after 4 years b/c he was unhappy... his bday just past and i feel really bad for not sending him a bday txt msg, should i still send a belated one?

I broke up with him first but it was out of anger and I didn't mean it. So i gave him time to cool off and tried to get back with him. But couple of weeks later, he confirmed with me he doesn't want to get back and wants an official split. I took it badly and I did ask him back again but he said he wants to be single, feels stress-free, tell me to not have hope, find another man. Do you think this relationship was bound to have ended sooner or later even if I didn't break up with him out of anger? Or do you think there were other things besides this that triggered this result? I just really regret what I did and wonder if this is really all my fault.

2007-10-26 07:51:21 · 7 answers · asked by angelgirly111 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I get up in the mornings and make his breakfast and lunch and have his baby and clean his house, somtimes and usually satifiy his sexual needs

2007-10-26 07:48:29 · 10 answers · asked by mominpink 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a few questions for guys....
1.) What do men talk about when women aren't around?
2.) What do men really think about virgins?
3.) How do men feel when other guys are checking out their girlfriends?
4.)How do men feel when other guys are flirting with their girlfriends?
5.)Why do so many men love a girl with a big butt?
You don't have to answer all of them but telling me any and everything you know would really help. thanks!

2007-10-26 07:45:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 20, in college in the UK. My Mother and younger brother and sister live in Texas. My mother and I are best friends and talk over the phone once a week. I haven't been able to get into contact with her for a month. I've been told that's she's moved with her boyfriend (Whom I've never met) to Oklahoma and withdrawn my siblings from school and thats she doing drugs now. I've phone the police and U.S embassy and they can't file a missing persons report, known of her friends knows where she is, and I don't know what to do. Is there anyway to find her and my siblings? I'm so scared.

2007-10-26 07:45:11 · 7 answers · asked by catch22 2 in Family

Me & my live in boyfriend have been dating for about 8 months. We moved in together shortly after dating. He is a great guy. I have 2 boys, 4 and 1 yrs old. So, we don't have alot of alone time. It just seems like we've gotten into such a routine of going to work, picking up the kids, coming home, eating, then going to sleep. Same stuff, different days. Most weekends, we just hang out at home and do pretty much nothing. In the beginning, we had so much fun together, even if it was just watching a movie. I guess my question is, what can I do to get out of the everyday routine of life. I feel like we've been married for years. If I'm already "bored" now, I'm afraid of what the future holds. I know every relationship looses it's "newness" , but it's still hard. Any advice? Thanks.

2007-10-26 07:43:33 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

thong? Even when I dont want to. Please Help!!!

2007-10-26 07:42:06 · 31 answers · asked by Beach Babe 08 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-26 07:39:39 · 21 answers · asked by Jared H 1 in Singles & Dating

I think she wants to get one because she thinks I think it's hot. I don't know how she ever got that assumption. Truth is, I don't know if I'd like one on her or not. I know, I know...it's her body, her decision. But if she wants my feedback, and I think she does, what should I say?

2007-10-26 07:36:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce