when they come from work they don't talk,they just sit on the couch,my mom cries all day and my dad has head aches and they fight all day
what can i do i try to talk to them but they dont want to talk to me all the time because i'm just a child and stuff
please help me
2007-10-26 08:03:02 · 4 answers · asked by andreea a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
we just mooved to Canad 3 months ago and everything was fine until my dad got a job and then the fights started
we were suc a happy family but now were not that close as we used to be
2007-10-26 08:22:46 · update #1
I would contact another close relative, but even more - look into what they're fighting about, and write another question here being more specific. You might not know the gist of their problems.
But do something, and keep posting questions here, that was a great start... wish I knew about this when I was younger. At least... God forbid... you don't get abused. No matter how bad it is, could be worse.
Good luck!
2007-10-26 08:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by kigel1617 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey.. if u are just a child then there is not a lot u can do.. but by writing this u are a very sensitive child and loving..
There may be some stuff going on that u are not aware of???
Just let Ur mom or dad no u are feeling the effects of the move.. and wish it was different..
tell them just cause of the move.. that u would still like to do family things.. but if one of them is mad or hurt or upset they may not want to go.. .. so just understand it is for them to work things out..
and it is sad that u are messed-up in the mix..
Stay strong.. pray lot.. and give it some time,, I am sure things will get better soon..
U need to go to ur school counsellor.. and ask for help for ur self.. to deal with this..
good luck..
2007-10-28 22:41:26 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Blondie ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not a lot you can do, honestly, to help someone who is clinically depressed (no matter how old you are or how much you want to)...
but here are some suggestions:
if they have any close friends or relatives, talk to them and let them know what is going on, maybe they can help more than you
have your parents sit down with you and tell them your concerns and ask them if they can get help
remember, adults are people too and they might be having trouble with your move and might just need time
find a friend and go to their house, stay out of it and hope your parents can work it out if none of the above work..they are NOT your responsibility
good luck
2007-10-26 15:35:05 · answer #3 · answered by Answers4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask them to go to marriage counseling.
2007-10-26 15:06:18 · answer #4 · answered by BonesofaTeacher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋