2007-10-26 08:07:08 · 15 answers · asked by butterflylover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yup you know what to do.
2007-10-26 08:10:48 · answer #1 · answered by Bailey W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey there is no right or wrong answer . If you think that he won't cheat again then your sadly mistaken, by staying means that you are going to allow what has happen and your also agreeing in non verbal conversation that you will put up with it again (maybe you should leave him for a while let him see what he will be missing), but from what i have seen and experienced is that he will cheat again knowing that your gonna take him back, he will give once again give broken promises that he knows he can't keep. When he said he will always be there for you and the baby did he also say he won't cheat or that he will always be apart of your life but he will be a cheater either way you have to make your own choice but just think your worth more then that.
2007-10-26 15:16:48 · answer #2 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong is how YOU define it. You cannot define your life by another person's precepts or morals. So I cannot tell you that what he's doing is wrong or that you're doing the wrong thing by staying with him.
I CAN tell you it's dangerous...what happens when he brings home an STD? Or gets the other woman pregnant? And what happens when he decides he's NOT going to "always" be there?
You have to decide for yourself. If it were ME, I'd have kicked his @$$ to the curb the second he admitted to screwing around, no questions asked and no second chances.
2007-10-26 15:11:45 · answer #3 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all relationships are different and i guess it just really depends on how you feel about it...if you need to stay with him for what he can give you cause you cant make a go on your own right now you may have to stay...if you are ok with it whats going on is the main thing and as long as its not causeing problems in the house for the kids. and if he is ok with helping you out for nothing in return. iv know of others that have had this kind of relationship before. it seemed weird to me but they all 3 were ok with it. and it worked out for them ok...so its just up to what you want...there will be others that wont understand it and you will get some really lame answers so beware. good luck.
2007-10-26 15:15:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is gonna depend on you and what your definition of wrong is. Did your bf say he would stop cheating or are you supposed to turn a blind eye and act as though nothing happened?
2007-10-26 15:10:31 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs.G-unit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater, always a cheater. They just figure that they will cheat differently next time. Its your choice and your life. Just always remember that there are some guys out there who would never cheat.
2007-10-26 15:11:08 · answer #6 · answered by andie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's why you get what you tolerate. Really, have some pride and be able to support yourself and your child. Of course you're doing wrong for staying, and I don't care that you're hurting yourself, cause you're an adult, and you make your own decisions, but you're hurting your child.
2007-10-26 15:12:55 · answer #7 · answered by ron-D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is you won't have him totally 100% to yourself so that means you don't mind sharing your man. Why put yourself in that situation, what kind of example will you be setting for your child, that it's okay.
2007-10-26 15:11:02 · answer #8 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is cheating on u, what makes u think that he will always be there? what if he decides to leave u for someone else? yes your wrong for staying because u can't trust him, and u will never know when he will find someone else and be gone.
2007-10-26 21:39:07 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. Someone who is always going to be there doesnt cheat on you. And if he is going to be cheating that by definition rules out always being there cause if he is cheating he is going to be somewhere else and probably when you need him most
2007-10-26 15:10:41 · answer #10 · answered by dave n 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Noone deserves to be cheated on.
2007-10-26 15:10:48 · answer #11 · answered by Scooter_The_Squirrels_Wifey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋