Family & Relationships - 26 October 2007

NOT THAT CHEATING IS OK ON ANY LEVEL, but don't you think there would be less cheaters if their spouse would f*** them. I'm not talking about love-making, sex, intercourse, or anything like that. I mean f***ing. Isn't that why people cheat, because they just want to f***? It is a different kind of encounter.

I know that the other person shouldn't have to do anything at all, but it is kind of like the drug programs you see. The ones where they gov't knows they can't stop people from using heroin but they figure they might as well give out new needles to prevent the spread of disease. I think people knew their spouse would cheat, and could stop them by having dirtier, more animal-like (or whatever) sex with them, that 99% of the people would.

Maybe I just don't understand cheating but what do you think about my theory?

2007-10-26 09:55:01 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It seems like these days most young men do not take any initiative in dating. For example I was set up by a friend,at a dinner party for herself, her husband and this guy Tim and me. Anyway, he was nice, but showed little interest, which was fine and that was that. Then we all ended up at a party a week later. Tim and I spoke briefly, but again I wasn't getting any vibe from him. I met a really funny, nice guy at the party who happened to be Tim's roommate (I didn't know that at the time). Anyway, I guess Tim was jealous I was paying so much attention to his friend. WTF? Its not like he showed any interest in me b4.

Meanwhile, another girl at the party was after Tim, and it seems like women pursuing men has made them lazy. I guess they went out a few times since, but she had to ask him both times! Now he told my friend he wants to date me (he hasn't asked tho.) What has happened to men pursuing women? It seems the only men who pursue women these days not raised here in SoCAL..

2007-10-26 09:54:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If u want u can check my profile and see that i have an as* of a step dad, i want to know if this is fair. I am on house arrest, for some reasons and My mom and step dad (who came in july of this year) sat me down cause i don't go to school cause house arrest and they told me in november, when its over, i am going to a cathloic school, is that even fair?? My mom would never do that to me. Since him i changed, i was never an all a student, or antyhing, but since him i do one bad thing, he's like totally pis*ed at me. He brought 4 of his kids, and i have 3 older brothers, and they r all like crazy. Since my step dad i've, gotten my nose pierced, had sex, smoked pot, house arrest, cut myself, gotten like 3 detentions in september, and everyone hates me, including myself, but he just DRIVES ME CRAZY. I'm 16 and have gotten into trouble alot because if i did 1 small thing wroung like a dention, he would like kill me! It's not fair I have a family, i don't need him or his kids. IS IT FAIR?

2007-10-26 09:54:02 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I just broke up with my boyfriend and little did i know it was the biggest misteke of my life! What should I do Move on or Try to get back together?

2007-10-26 09:51:18 · 21 answers · asked by gadfgfrsdfer 3 in Singles & Dating

i'm so confused and i dont really know what to do. i'm currently in my longest relationship so far (my boyfriend and i have been dating for over 6 months), and i have been so in love. he's the first guy that has absolutely, 100% been there for me and hasnt made me feel like crap. i still love him and i cant imagine life without him, but lately little things he does have been getting on my nerves. these things are habits he has, ones that havent bothered me at all until now. also, when he's around my friends with me, i get even more agitated. none of them really like him, but when we're alone, i'm head-over-heels again. i dont want to lose him because it's like he's a part of me and i love him, but i feel awful acting so crabby all the time. should i try to be patient? should i break up with him? i dont know what to do. please help!

2007-10-26 09:49:11 · 32 answers · asked by jcswims48 1 in Singles & Dating

My partner is travelling to his home the week before Christmas with his sister, her partner and their female friend. He'd only met this female friend a few times before and wanted to become better friends; therefore invited her to join. He didn't invite me because I have work and actually said that he wouldn't want me to come because two couples travelling together would leave her out. I don't mind him having friends but feel he is being disrespectful to me - or am I just being insecure? He says he's not trying to get her but says he enjoys talking to her on the phone and has sent her stuff by post as a joke-looking her address up on the internet. I think he's going overboard and it makes me both sad and leftout but he doesn't understand what's wrong with his actions. Am I being too fussy? Should he have freedom to do this?

2007-10-26 09:46:44 · 37 answers · asked by Princess Marianna 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-26 09:45:22 · 4 answers · asked by justme 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-26 09:41:01 · 17 answers · asked by eduard.kompaniets 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-26 09:40:05 · 16 answers · asked by peachmelba 2 in Singles & Dating

i made a promise that i would go to my friends halloween , but my bf wants me to go to a haunted house with him, i really want to go to both events but i can't because they are at the same time

2007-10-26 09:39:56 · 13 answers · asked by zozo 3 in Friends

does it make me look sexier? please help cos I have a date tonite I have to make sure I look ok

2007-10-26 09:39:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been with the guy for almost 3 months. We're in our early 20. He was very sweet when we started going out. However, now he treats me like a wife. He doesnt buy me flowers or small presents. He does wanna pay for everything, but I would share the going out expenses( i always try to pay! for myself), if he gives me some small presents once in a while. Just for me to feel his attention:( He calls me,talks about family already, his parents like me....But I want to feel his attention. he is kind of guy that doesnt like to go out. Also, he persisted sometime that I cook for him a few times a week. Is he right to treat me like this? Does he love me or gonna love me? Or maybe Im just spoiled and should appreciate what I have? Thanx
Additional Details
Im afraid I loose my time with him even though Im just 21. Maybe he doesnt love me and never will. I feel like he doesnt want to put something in our relationship. i always care about him, on the other hand. I give him small presents...

2007-10-26 09:37:45 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

When i like a guy, it's like i feel stuck and i can't think of anything to say to him.

2007-10-26 09:36:23 · 3 answers · asked by possessed Regan 4 in Singles & Dating

What do you normally do on a Friday night.

2007-10-26 09:35:09 · 23 answers · asked by louise d 6 in Singles & Dating

What are your thoughts on a couple living together before marriage? I had always thought I'd wait until I was married, but the more realistic I am, I realize it might be better to give things a try before committing to marriage. Also, my decision would not have anything to do with religion.
Anyone done this? If so, how did it work? Did you get married later?

2007-10-26 09:35:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi i work with this lady that without asking her age i would guess she is between the ages of 48 and 50. i get this feeling that she likes me. only because she is very flirty with me. what woiuld you people think is too much of an age difference i am 22 years old.

2007-10-26 09:32:49 · 10 answers · asked by key8785 1 in Singles & Dating

ok my b/f and i have not had sex for long time and i am not into him no more and could care less if he leaves but, the other night he blamed the no sex on me i laughed cause he no longer touches me at all and exspects me to do all the work so my Q is why do men always want lady start the playing with and never gets off there butts and do nothing?

i am 39 so old enough to ask this too.....

2007-10-26 09:30:28 · 13 answers · asked by daisy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been really close to this giril and I really love her a whole lot, shes 16, and her parents try to make excuses so that we cant se eachother.
i cant really call her because everytime i do, her mom answers the phone and says shes busy when shes not really busy and most of the time shes doing nothing.
her mom says she likes me, and her dad does too.
Ive been respectfull with them and her dad says im a much better man than he was at my age.
Ive joined the marines and i leave on november 26 and her mom uses the escuse that she dosent want her daughter to get too attached to me but she already is.
she lives two houses away but im scared of loosing her so i dont call or go over there, i just wait for her to call me or something.
Her parents used to be okay but now they say that because im not christian i cant be with her
when it was her birthday her mom let her answer every person who wanted to talk to her and even some guy who didnt even know her
remember that ive always been respectful

2007-10-26 09:27:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-26 09:25:57 · 12 answers · asked by justme 3 in Singles & Dating

my parents are super OVER protective....they don't let me do anything....no school activities....no going to the mall by myself....no going over my friend's house NOTHING not even going to my bestfriends birthday party
anyways now im in 9th grade and there's this boy....he first called me like a week ago and my mom she totally freaked and gave me the whole"there's only one things boys want from you" then i guess she told my dad, then i got the whole"when you get pregnant" speech but still i was just like whatever then like he continued on calling me and my mom told me to tell him TO STOP CALLING ME!!!!!!!! then she went on the caller id and threaten to call him and tell him

i like him but even though i tell her were just friends she's still rambling on......like i know what to do and what not to do IM NOT ******* STUPID

i feel like im in a prison SHE EVEN MADE ME NOT ANSWER HIM WHEN HE CALLED

2007-10-26 09:25:11 · 19 answers · asked by ??? 3 in Family

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2007-10-26 09:24:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like i said my bf and i are trying to make a new start but the truth is i dont feel its workingout for me. We have two girls and the relationship always hasnt been good. Im realizing that i made a huge mistake. I went some wheres and i meet this guy and we hit it off just like that and i couldnt control my feelings for him and i feel inlove with him so what should i do ?

2007-10-26 09:21:56 · 10 answers · asked by samantha_smith_vt 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i want to talk to him. he sits behind me but he sits beside this girl amy and they talk all the time him and then the girl beside me brianna talks to him and amy. so would it be weird if i just turned around and started talking to them all the girls are really popular and they will ask everyone in the class is they have like a (example) pencil sharpener exept me and i have one so they would rather go without than talk to me but should i still give it a shot and be like who cares about the girls and just talk to thomas and if the girls talk to me to thats all good what should i do ???? help i am confused

2007-10-26 09:21:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I told a girl i like yesterday thaqt i like her before i told her we were talking to each other all the time hanging out. but onw she will a only say hi or somthing when i walk by what should i do

2007-10-26 09:19:52 · 5 answers · asked by jonjim52 1 in Singles & Dating

I really likes this girl in my class but I don't know if she likes me.She laughs at my jokes and when I glance at her she always catches my eyes and stare and smiles.When I call her weird names,she says "how cute" sarcastically.Also when I ask her who she likes,she says some movie star.There's also like 4 guys who also like her.I don't want her to like anyone else.PLZ tell me if she likes me or not.Gladly apreciate it! :)

2007-10-26 09:18:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We both put on weight when I was pregnant with twins. But I lost most of mine while his 50 pounds is still there. He has no desire to lose it either. I tell myself that I still love him, because I DO. But I'm not nearly as attracted to him as I used to be. I feel awful about it!! Is it normal?

2007-10-26 09:18:24 · 26 answers · asked by ~Heathen Princess~ 7 in Marriage & Divorce

physically fit,intelligent,intuitive and a great guitarist musician.

2007-10-26 09:18:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

down there on a girl

2007-10-26 09:17:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Women, what is your view on a man that loves to cook?


God Bless.

2007-10-26 09:16:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this guy at my school and im 2 shy to tell him that i like him any advice on what I should do

2007-10-26 09:14:15 · 2 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Singles & Dating