NOT THAT CHEATING IS OK ON ANY LEVEL, but don't you think there would be less cheaters if their spouse would f*** them. I'm not talking about love-making, sex, intercourse, or anything like that. I mean f***ing. Isn't that why people cheat, because they just want to f***? It is a different kind of encounter.
I know that the other person shouldn't have to do anything at all, but it is kind of like the drug programs you see. The ones where they gov't knows they can't stop people from using heroin but they figure they might as well give out new needles to prevent the spread of disease. I think people knew their spouse would cheat, and could stop them by having dirtier, more animal-like (or whatever) sex with them, that 99% of the people would.
Maybe I just don't understand cheating but what do you think about my theory?
2007-10-26 09:55:01 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ladies, we have to admit it...no matter how holier than thou you are, sometimes we just want to be f**ked.
Dude, I think you're on to something. Nice work, inspector.
2007-10-26 09:59:15 · answer #1 · answered by ron-D 7 · 8⤊ 2⤋
wow sounds like u got cheated on and that sex =(
In my experience it takes more than a happy bed to keep a woman faithful, but at the same time once a cheater always a cheater. If u keep sex exciting and different, always adding things then there is no reason to look elsewhere. Also fellas, and ladies STOP LETTING YOURSELF GO! Yes attraction is important after marriage, get in the gym and keep yer bodies youthful.
And to add to yer ******* comment, bro sometimes u just gotta be a man. Grab her hair throw her on the bed and show her the real definition sex. We have testosterone, maybe its time we started using it in bed a little more?
2007-10-26 17:04:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
A cheat is a cheat is a cheat. Do not marry a cheat. You will only have more heartaches than you can handle. Animalistic behaviour sexually does not mean less incidence of cheating. It only means bestial and inconsiderate behaviour ( inhuman ). Man is made above animals and to think being like a cow or an alligator is "ok" is ..well.. plain silly. God gave you a brain. Use it wisely.
2007-10-26 20:52:56 · answer #3 · answered by BelieverinGod 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your theory is wrong. Yes most people like the animal instict of sex but that is not why people cheat. They cheat for different reasons like no communication, no sex at all, bored with the same person, just because sex was offered to them. It could be a variety of reasons.
2007-10-26 17:07:24 · answer #4 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, i kind of thought that marriages ought to be full of both love making and just plain sex.
That having been said, I think that most cheating is not about sex, but pride and ego. The guy really wants the 'extra' girl because it makes him feel like a big man, or because he resents his wife for something and he wants to secretly get back at her. And for the woman it's pretty much the same thing only in reverse. It"s rarely actually about the sex.
2007-10-26 17:04:20 · answer #5 · answered by Duck! 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I think you have no idea what you are talking about! A lot of peopel cheat not for the sex but for the excitement of a new and secret relationship... a partner that doesn't ask them where and when they will be back, etc...no money problems no housework issues no talk about the kids... the butterflies!
The type of cheating you talk about is about people that go to hookers...completely different and a lot more rare!
2007-10-26 17:01:29 · answer #6 · answered by Me 4 · 7⤊ 1⤋
I can see your point, sometimes we want to get out of the romance zone and just "do it" like animals. Nothing wrong with that.
Couples need to initiate new ideas within boundaries. Communication is key. Also chemistry - hope you have married someone you are "hot" for!
Now get busy!
2007-10-26 17:19:59 · answer #7 · answered by Contemplative 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i guess it sounds like it could be a reason but i think the reason people cheat is because they think they can get away with it. and it's when they get caught that they feel real bad they did it.
they want to have their cake and eat it to you can't! you have to pick hot or cold. you can't be warm. cheaters always live in the warm.
they want the best of both worlds.
2007-10-26 17:02:05 · answer #8 · answered by neverlie 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you had an option to have stake every single day - wouldn't you still want mexican food or sushi? People like variety. An abundance of even the best thing is bound to get old.
2007-10-26 17:19:33 · answer #9 · answered by Sandy Ego 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think that the first step is to make sure you are marrying someone you're in love with and passionate with.... and the next step is maintaining the marriage! Ridiculous how people seem to think it shouldn't take any effort to keep a relationship together.
2007-10-26 17:02:20 · answer #10 · answered by zmj 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think what your talking about you pay for not get from your wife. If a wife did want to do this then a man would just think of more.
I think you should learn the art of "making love"
2007-10-26 17:09:55 · answer #11 · answered by vivi-mac 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋