I just broke up with my boyfriend and little did i know it was the biggest misteke of my life! What should I do Move on or Try to get back together?
2007-10-26 09:51:18 · 21 answers · asked by gadfgfrsdfer 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you know you made a mistake, yes, I would try to talk to him about it and see if you can work things out. If you both Love each other and you both don't let fear get in the way, you can. If you offer your vulnerability to him and admit your error, either way you both win.
Truth and Love is the way to go. Be kind with yourself and with him too. Everything will be ok.
You sound like a sweet girl to me. Relationships are challenging, so don't be too hard on yourself. He has plenty to learn too, I'm sure. We all do. Life is a journey, so why not take a chance. Let go of any attachment to outcome yet offer your Truth and see what happens.
"Kindness in words creates confidence.
Kindness in thinking creates profoundness.
Kindness in giving creates love."
2007-10-26 10:23:20 · answer #1 · answered by Loveloop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was not the biggest mistake of your life. He obviously wasn't the one for you or you wouldn't have broken up with him in the first place. Get over him and find a guy who's worth it. Good luck! I hope this made you feel better!
2007-10-26 09:55:53 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Erin has a crush on Brandon♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl, but couldn't help but to read this because you said you were crying your eyes out. If it hurts you so much to be apart from him, then do try to get back together. But then again, if you had a very legitimate reason for breaking up, then you might wish to move on.
hope that helps :)
2007-10-26 09:55:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends sweetie.. what was the reason for you breaking up with him for..?. & how did u end up knowing it was the biggest mistake of your life?..
i say, you should talk to him about it.
tell him how you feel & how you made a mistake.
i don't gaurantee that he will listen if he is really upset or mad at you..
but he will listen..
&& let him tell u how he feels about this, & how does he still feel about u & what you guys had.
sometime, somehow, & then.. fate will tell it's time.
if it was ment to be,. it was ment to be..
if it wasn't.. it wasn't...
no matter what happens, LIFE GOES ON hunny :)
&& somehow, you'll find happiness. you will again.
2007-10-26 09:56:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on
2007-10-26 09:54:50 · answer #5 · answered by Dre' B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that and believe me it is never really over try being friends for awhile, hang out, play video games and stuff.Go out somewhere(as friends) and just wait things out and bide your time and it won't hurt so so bad.
2007-10-26 09:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by don't be a hater 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was your mistake: try to get back together. If he did something that made u break up with him: move on. hes not worth it.
2007-10-26 09:55:15 · answer #7 · answered by nat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on! He sucked or you wouldn't have dumped him. There someone way better around the next corner. Don't compromise!
2007-10-26 09:55:58 · answer #8 · answered by MojoAndy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
really you ca be scared and sad about him but you can get over him (by x-bf broke up with me on my b-day)
just remember there are plenty of fish in the sea, plenty of apples on the tree, etc.
2007-10-26 09:56:29 · answer #9 · answered by blah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him and need him so much say your sorry and that please get back together with you. But be careful, if you dont need him that bad, then move on. dont get held back for something that isnt as important as u think
2007-10-26 09:56:25 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋