Like i said my bf and i are trying to make a new start but the truth is i dont feel its workingout for me. We have two girls and the relationship always hasnt been good. Im realizing that i made a huge mistake. I went some wheres and i meet this guy and we hit it off just like that and i couldnt control my feelings for him and i feel inlove with him so what should i do ?
2007-10-26 09:21:56 · 10 answers · asked by samantha_smith_vt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you already answered your on question, rectify your mistake!
2007-10-26 09:25:58 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs.G-unit 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stop playing games...be honest and tell your bf your heart is no longer there. Why give any more false hope? It's over.
End this relationship...be alone for a while before you start something new otherwise you're headed for disaster! You have to get your mind free completely of your Ex to give a new relationship a fair shot. Not to mention...put your kids first, they're what's most important anyhow!
2007-10-26 09:35:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't "start over" with someone you've already had a relationship and children with. There will always be baggage and it hardly ever is worth it. But as to the other guy. You just met him. You may be in lust but you're not in love. You sound needy to me! Slow down girl! What's on fire?? Take a cold shower before you make a decision but if you decide to get out, be decent about it and tell your bf that it's not working for you.
2007-10-26 09:29:52 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What do you think you should do?
Surely, you are not going to keep going out with two guys at the same time??
Either one of them will dump you, or even both or YOU should be the one to decide who you want to share the rest of your life.
If it's not working with your boyfriend, and you two have just starting trying, it might not be too late to call it off.
Only, it'd seem to be that it'd be a one way ticket; And so it should.
You have to realize that you can't keep upsetting your children and your boyfriend feelings.
2007-10-26 09:48:02 · answer #4 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do the same as most others do that have affairs. He's new and exciting so you go with him. When he gets old news and boring then you go on to the next and the next and the next until you find yourself old and alone like most cheaters do. No relationship will work for you until you stick with it. Grow up.
2007-10-26 13:33:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
WELL I TOLD MY EX B/F AND KICKED HIM OUT AND MOVED ON AND NOW I AM STUCK WITH A WORSE DRUNK AND HE DONT DO NOTHING TO HELP ME SO FALLING IN LOVE WAS NOT SO GOOD CAUSE HE IS A BIGGER LOOSER AND WELL LOVE IS NOT ALWAYS THE ANSWER SO BE WISE ON YOUR THINKING AND GOOD LUCK
2007-10-26 10:02:37 · answer #6 · answered by daisy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him you now realize it is just not going to work out.
2007-10-26 09:25:24 · answer #7 · answered by Tigger 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Grow up and raise your children.
2007-10-26 09:24:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you already know what to do...
2007-10-26 09:33:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
go with the flow-follow your heart
DON"T PLAY them both!!!
2007-10-26 09:44:11 · answer #10 · answered by houston, TX-baby 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋