Family & Relationships - 26 October 2007

shes beautiful, smart, and funny. she's somewhat motivated, has somewhat high goals (high school academy junior and senior year, and doctor)
I'm not hot or ugly, just sort of normal looking (except I'm indian), im number one student in my class, president of my class, in like every club, funny, intellectual, and a pretty decent guy.

but she only likes hot guys... :(
do you think she'd ever be able to like a guy like me

2007-10-26 11:24:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-26 11:22:29 · 11 answers · asked by Haylie 1 in Singles & Dating

He's a new friend. I hardly know him. He keeps offering to do stuff for me, like drive an hour to help me move. So he's asked to hang out (not date) but I refused 2x. Is that enough? Does he get the idea that I don't think of him in that way?

2007-10-26 11:22:24 · 6 answers · asked by lipgloss 1 in Singles & Dating

my wife says i need to give her more space, we dont live together anymore she is staying with a friend of hers we in my opinion barely talk, about 3 hours a week, but she says she wants more space. what am i to do?

2007-10-26 11:19:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A lot of you might have read this:

There's a girl in my math class i kinda like and i think she likes me too but im not sure. At the begining of class on Tuesdays and Thursday we have a little time before class to talk and she comes and sits by me and some of my friends and she talks to me. Also sometimes we'll talk across the room and when we pass in the hall we talk a little bit. Could she like me?!?!!? Idk i am confused!!!!! If it helps we're in 8th grade.

Anyways i asked some of my friends that r friend with her too and they said that she didnt really like me. And she is just flirty with everybody. COULD THIS WORK TO MY ADVANTAGE?

Do you have any tips?

2007-10-26 11:19:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have played tennis twice alone with this girl I had not seen in a while. We had a good time both times. Now, she also accepted to go with me to a concert that my friends and I were going to. She does not know any of them. Her actions sometimes tend to show an interest, but I cannot tell if we are just friends. I am not sure if asking her to a concert could be construed as fun or a date. What might she think?

2007-10-26 11:18:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last week, my gf went to Europe. Her flight was @4:30PM. She woke up that morning @10AM. She wasn't packed,& started packing that morning. She finished@ noon, & started getting ready; shower,makeup,etc.she finished @2PM. She then decided that she wanted a pair of shoes she saw at the mall, & asked me to take her before leaving for the airport. Ok; so by the time we got her shoes, it was 2:45PM. The airport (O'Hare, Chicago) , is 40 minutes away... on the way there, there was heavy traffic,& I took a wrong exit (my fault) ;we got to the airport @ 4:00 & she did make her flight.
Thing is, after taking the wrong exit she kept pointing at signs & telling me to go this way and that way to save time, & she blurted out that my wrong turn made her late.I yelled at her & told her that we were late because she spent 4hrs. getting ready & that it was rude & inconsiderate to make me wait around our house for 4hrs. & go buy shoes@ the last minute.

Was I wrong to blow up at her?

2007-10-26 11:18:47 · 17 answers · asked by ASDF1234 1 in Singles & Dating

If we doing anything it involves his parents. Either that or we'll go out to dinner which isn't that special anymore, because we do that quite often. We may go see a movie every now and then. I may hang out with a friend every few months but that's it. I'm either watching TV, on the computer or on the phone or reading a book. Me and my husband may watch TV together. We don't have any kids yet.

He wants to go to a highschool football game tonight and is always asking me to go. I hate football and it's chilly here right now. The temperatures will probably drop tonight. We are in Texas. What do you and your spouse typically do on a weekend?

2007-10-26 11:15:20 · 16 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

there this lad who has fancied me for the last 3 years i was friends with him but he knew i wouldnt go out with him then aguements came and now we dont talk .i dont like him anyways but hes been slitting himself and writing about me in his blogs he use to stalk me and everything and ive talked to him about it but he kinda ignores it he wrote in his blog for halloween hes gonna pretend im with him! wat can i do!!!!

2007-10-26 11:14:33 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-26 11:11:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He lies, cheats, and treats me awful. He is not a good person, but for some reason I keep going back. His friends all say I deserve better. I get anxious when I stop seeing him after a few days and take him back. He has wrecked my car, motorcycle, finances, not to mention breaking my heart. I didn't date for 6 years before meeting him, and don't know a lot of people to keep myself occupied.

2007-10-26 11:10:01 · 13 answers · asked by zzsand 2 in Friends

my husband and I went to see the world cup in Paris last week. We had a great time and flew back the following morning. however due to our horel being situated miles out, we went to the airport earlier and desided to get some sleep.
When I woke up, my husband had gone. I looked at my watch and it was 7am the time we were due to fly.
After putting a tanoyd announcement up and contacting the police we found out he had borded the plane, leaving me with just my passport and no money.
I eventually was put on the next available flight and was fumming. My parents were out of their mind with worry but my husband cannot see what he did wrong! he said he didnt want to loose money and miss his flight-i was sleeping right next to him.
i feel so upset that he put money before my safety and feel like ending our marriage, he obviously thinks nothing of me to do this.
what are all your thoughts, no sarcastic ones please, ive been through enough.

thanks

2007-10-26 11:09:52 · 13 answers · asked by maisiejayne 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a bf who has a total crush on this girl and b4 that hapend he has not been paying atention to me what should i do HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-10-26 11:08:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

geting weird these days he keeps stairing at my bossom and i recently saw him licking my photo. when i cought him red handed, he said he selt his honey ( which was there on this pic) then today he asked he want to see my breast and want to lick it with honey i kicked him rite on his A*s.
as i know him he is a nice man and has a hot girl friend too. he is doing it this from past two weeks. i talked to his mom rite way and she is surprized too. she has fixed an appointment with the doc but i wounder why is he doing this all of a sudden.

2007-10-26 11:05:31 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband's youngest sister came to live with us who was 19. While wiating for her VISA to be approved I fixed up the extra bed room. I asked her what color she wanted it and she said a light pink. So I painted it and baught a nice queen size bed and night stands and mounted a nice tv on the wall with DVD player and everything and I even got her a beautiful NAUTICA bed room suite. It looked great. I put an alarm clock and pictures and everything, making it real comfy. I even put a desk in there for her to study at b/c she was to start school.

So she gets her VISA and comes and is really excited about her room. Well two days later I came hom from work and piled up on my bed was all the stuff she didnt want in her room. I had gone to American eagle and just got her a few pairs of jeans and shirts and she piled pictures, rugs, the DESK!!! and some clothes on my bed and said she didnt want them.
Would you be offended? Would you be angry? I felt she wasnt grateful!

2007-10-26 11:03:04 · 55 answers · asked by A little Southern Comfort 5 in Family

im in 9th grade
i like this simply stunning girl: i mean she's beautifal, smart, and funny.
and im president of my class, in like every club, a perfectionist, #1 ranked in my class, and do everything.
she's a bit shallow though :(
Do you think there is a possibility of her ever liking me? even though im pretty sure she doesnt think im very hot, which is the only type of guys she likes
ive been trying really hard, and she's starting to open up to me about a few secrets, but not very far: is this a sign of her changing?
please help?

2007-10-26 11:01:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i been dating a lot of people but none of them are the ones that i truly want!!!! i love this one guy but then he got a girlfriend!!!! well yeaa yeaa hes my ex and i loved him to death but then things were the hardest ever and it died!!!! i didnt apresiate true love until it disappeared!!!! there is these guys that wants to go out with me but as much as i dont want to hurt them, they are not him, what should i do!!!! i am stuck with the past and is not moving on

2007-10-26 10:59:17 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Let's say that you have enough money to send your kid(s) to private school, would you do it? If so why?

2007-10-26 10:56:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We got married five years ago (next year) and want to retake our vows only after the serious re-do, we thought we would put fun into it - so I will be the bride this time. I will have a proper wedding dress and lingerie and hair dne and everything, one of my wife's friends suggested it and the more we talked it seemed a good idea? Should i go for it?

2007-10-26 10:56:48 · 7 answers · asked by jonoxk 3 in Weddings

One of my closest friends has been involved with a married man for over a year. She cooled it off because she felt wrong for cheating on his wife with him. Now he claims he's legally seperated and says he's in love with her. She's also been casually seeing a coworker for a long time and even miscarried his child all while she was still communicating with the married guy. She says her relationship with the coworker is purely for sex and is now about to cool that off to give it a go with the married man even though she seems happiest when with the coworker. While I want her to be happy, I also think that she's making a mistake because the married guy has disappointed her before and seems very manipulative in guilting her into seeing him again. She thinks she's in love with him too but given how miserable she's been over him in the past, I'm concerned. I know I should not make it my business but I'm the only one who knows what's been going on. Am I wrong to be worried for her? Any advice?

2007-10-26 10:56:39 · 16 answers · asked by HackerGirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-26 10:54:45 · 15 answers · asked by Suzy 2 in Family

ok my mom is sooo depresed bc my step father said this ...this is the whole conversation over the phone " father- hey i think we shouldnt be together. mother- will you be there when i get home?' father- "No'.....then he hanges up. and me and my mothere havent seen him in about 24 hours my mother will not leave the phone and wants him back but my father is chewing still behind our backs it will kill him!. he has had 2 transplants a kidney and pankres, to keep him alive and hes just killing him self off , helies a lot but it hurts me to see my mother dieing inside because of this......... whay should i do???

2007-10-26 10:53:09 · 12 answers · asked by cc 2 in Family

I always get upset about my parents because they will not let me do anything, they won't let me go any where with my friends even if its all girls if there isn't an adult around, and i understand that rule if it was for dangerous places or at night but sometimes is rediculous. I'm only 14 and i know thats young and some people are gonna be like just wait till your older to have fun or whatever, but i get so frusterated when i can't do things most of my friends do and i have to tell them its because of my parents, my mom also follows me every where i go, i havent gone to anything over the summer without my mom going to! it also frusterates me to see 12 year olds who get to do things i can't!

2007-10-26 10:51:41 · 8 answers · asked by eleanor rigby 3 in Family

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2007-10-26 10:51:22 · 19 answers · asked by ? 7 in Marriage & Divorce

after living with someone with breath like a hot tandoori for 10 years ..i`d prefer not

2007-10-26 10:49:51 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I feel like I will be punished.....because in some ways I was taught it was wrong? What should I do? I am a 23 year old virgin and the urges sometimes leads me to masturbation, but is this wrong? please help!

2007-10-26 10:47:34 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What does BPD stand for no looking it up?

2007-10-26 10:47:23 · 8 answers · asked by lostinsantamonica 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

here are some pics:

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the last pic is me and my boyfriend♥

2007-10-26 10:45:24 · 94 answers · asked by ♥i'm her♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

i talk to this girl from school pretty much everyday and we can talk to each other for hours. sometimes im confused about how she feels about me. she tells me a lot of things that she doesnt even tell her best friends sometimes...

this is what she said one time...

"i like talking to you. and your my favorite guy to talk to. cause i can tell you anything. and trust you.
even though i talk about aaaaalllllllllllll those other guys....you would have to be my favorite..."

2007-10-26 10:43:06 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well, when a man and woman have sex, do they both have orgasm at the same time? or only man has it before it has to end? so does it mean one of them is not done with it?

Again... How many times can they have it? (at one episode)
Can they keep going on after they have had it once? (don't they need some resting time, in between)

how long does it last?

2007-10-26 10:42:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating