We got married five years ago (next year) and want to retake our vows only after the serious re-do, we thought we would put fun into it - so I will be the bride this time. I will have a proper wedding dress and lingerie and hair dne and everything, one of my wife's friends suggested it and the more we talked it seemed a good idea? Should i go for it?
2007-10-26 10:56:48 · 7 answers · asked by jonoxk 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
It is'nt a fake post. Anyway I got used to the idea now and would like to go for it. It will be just me, my wife and the official so will be unusual, granted, but I am not turning up like a guy in a dress. I want to look like a proper bride. Like i say, not a fake post...!
2007-10-26 11:12:02 · update #1
Actually I have worn womens clothes before, my wife knew and was cool about it. So cross dressing don't cause divorce, that's a silly reason to split if everyone has been upfront in the first place!
2007-10-26 11:17:51 · update #2
LOL I LOVE this idea!
Sounds fun as long as you don't mind wearing a dress!
GO FOR IT!
and congrats!
2007-10-26 15:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by Terri 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So secretly you've been looking for a reason to wear womens' lingerie...and you've waited five years for your wife to find out...hmmmnn...sounds like you did your original vows under false pretenses and maybe this fairy-tale is the real one. I hope you don't have kids yet because the divorce might get messy...Addition: You are delusional. Cross-dressing is a valid reason for divorce in all the states. If your wife gets fed up, she can use this for a divorce with no problems, and , believe me, after a few more years, when the novelty wears off, she probably will do just that. You wrote this question hoping that people would write in and validate your strange lifestyle and now you're disappointed that in actuality, people think you're weird. Sorry but that's what you get when you ask for honest opinions.
2007-10-26 18:10:08 · answer #2 · answered by Wifeforlife 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it sounds more like a waste of time and money to have a joke vow renewal after the real vow renewal, but if you have disposable income and free-time then plan away. if i was a guest at the second "ceremony" i probably wouldn't attend because it seems foolish and like a mockery of the vows and their meaning. you're wearing a dress? for what? i can only hope this is a fake post.
2007-10-26 18:05:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
if that's what you want to do, and you both are into it - go for it! I think that's a great idea! Then you'll maybe have a truer understanding of why your bride was so stressed that day - with all she had to do!
2007-10-27 22:06:26 · answer #4 · answered by Fluff S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't be serious!
You are making a joke out of wedding vows. That is not something to joke about. I'm sure the minister will throw you out of the church...if, in fact, you were doing this in a church.
It's disrespectful and a joke.
2007-10-26 18:28:49 · answer #5 · answered by iloveweddings 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
If it's not a fake post, it should be.
2007-10-27 09:03:03 · answer #6 · answered by Trivial One 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think that is totally awesome!
2007-10-26 18:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by Vera C 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋